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Cathy
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  • Lebanon, IN
  • United States
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Cathy commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Hi Thyme, as far as utilities go I just faxed a copy of the death certificate after I called them. Property and cars are a little different. I ended up hiring a lawyer so I didnt have to deal with any of it. Every state is different as far as…"
Feb 22, 2016
Cathy commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"emma, you will be in my thoughts and prayers."
Feb 1, 2016
Cathy commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Emma,I am so sorry for your loss. I too lost my husband to pancreatic cancer.I also have school age children.I was his main caretaker and have always been a stay at home mom.Now I am in process of looking for a job which seems completly…"
Feb 1, 2016
Cathy commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Janina, I too was made a widow too young.My husband Dave was only 48 when he passed 8 mths ago. I still get so angry when I see older couples happly walking around.I know I shouldn't resent their happiness but I do.."
Jan 15, 2016
Cathy commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Terry,I to have had trouble with anger and actually I had the exact same thing happen to me except it was with my 16 year olds jeans.My level of anger really scared me for a while but has now settled a bit.I still have the emotional extremes at…"
Dec 5, 2015
Cathy commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"terri you are so right. My husband passed away 6mths ago. I originally told my kids that I wasn't going to put a tree up or do anything for christmas but try to survive,but I woke up this morning and it was like a light bulb went off.My husband…"
Nov 29, 2015
Cathy commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 70s
"I agree Davy"
Nov 25, 2015
Cathy commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"I know what you mean Mary H. Dec.18th would have been my 22nd anniversary to my husband Dave.I have no clue how I am going to get through it as well as the holidays with my kids.My 11 year old doesn't even want a tree up this year.I wish I…"
Nov 20, 2015
Cathy commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Hatch 1- my husbands 48th bday was on sept. 21st(about 5 mths since he passed). It was hard but I just took it an hour at a time.I'm definetly not looking forward to the holidays as christmas was Dave's favorite holiday.I think all any of…"
Nov 14, 2015
Cathy commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"inickles34 I am the same.My husband passed away 6mths ago and nobody calls me.I will get a random text every few mths to see how I am but thats it.It's like noone knows what to say to me so they all stay away.It is very lonely.I just try to…"
Nov 14, 2015
Cathy commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Thanks for the support franandmike.Your right.Once I thought about it for a while I did realize that I can't always change how people think even if it does irritate me.I do feel better now.It was just wierd to be called "single mom"…"
Nov 14, 2015
Cathy commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"I have to vent! This morning my 17 year old son wanted to have his friend over(she's a girl) but the parents told her no because since I am a "single"parent now that I am not able to keep an eye on the kids! Her exact words were…"
Nov 14, 2015
Cathy replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Thank you so much for your reply. It is crazy how similar our circumstances are.Sometimes I feel like know one "gets it". I am so sorry for your loss as well.Pancreatic cancer is a horrible disease.Luckily I do have my kids which help me…"
Nov 13, 2015
Cathy replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi, I lost my husband to pancreatic cancer on May 13,2015. He has been gone 6 months as of today.I have 3 children,11,17 and 21. I seem to be getting worse instead of better. My kids keep me getting up each day which is good. My husband and I had…"
Nov 13, 2015
Cathy replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion US: MIDWEST - EAST in the group Connect with others in your area
"I live in Lebanon,IN which is about 20 miles north of Indianapolis."
Nov 13, 2015
Cathy commented on Soaring Spirits's group Connect with others in your area
"I lost my husband to pancreatic cancer 6 months ago today."
Nov 13, 2015

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At 5:46am on November 13, 2015, LifesAJourney said…

Cathy, welcome to Widowed Village.  I am so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here.

Here is the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you will find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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