"Does anyone else have that stuck in the middle feeling? To old to really think about a new relationship/marriage and to young to just go sit in a rocking chair and "wait". I can't seem to make any plans.
Traveler I hope…"
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cee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 40s or earlier
"I love hearing the stories of you and your pets. Makes me sad I do not have one. They seem to be such a comfort for you. I don't think now would be a good time for me to get one, since I am not used to having one I would probably forget…"
cee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Agree this is not the life I expected. It's over 1 1/2 years and like many of you I am having trouble adjusting. Right now I am feeling lost- I don't know what to expect for the rest of my life. I feel caught in the middle - basically to…"
cee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 40s or earlier
"1sue, sorry you didn't get alone time with your daughter. Would she have responded if you just said something like 'let's take a walk, so we can talk? I get the best chance to talk to my son alone when I call him. I did find it…"
cee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 40s or earlier
"Paulak. I envy your 49 years, I only had 26. But no matter how many years we have it is never enough. I loved your post about how close you were - that you could finish each other sentences. We we pretty much that way also. I miss his hugs,…"
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cee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 40s or earlier
"MFARM hope you are having a better day today. I know how hard it is to call the children and "keep a happy face" for them when you really need comforting. I don't really have anyone to call whenI get those down feelings. I have a…"
cee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"LadyK, congratulations on your new house. It looks like things are falling into place for you. May only good things happen to you from now on."
cee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"LadyK you do have your hands full. Take time for your self. It is so hard to get used to this new life. I was with some friends this week-end and while I did enjoy it I kept thinking I wish Jim were here, he would have liked doing this or that and…"
cee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 40s or earlier
"Marian,welcome, this is a good place to stop by and share feelings, sad or happy - we do have happy thoughts sometimes. I still struggle with feeling that I shouldn't be doing and enjoying things when he can't be here with me.
Hatshepsut…"
cee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 40s or earlier
"MFARM, (((HUGS))) So sorry you are having a sad day. So many memories to deal with. I'm sure he understood you did what you had to, even if it wasn't what he or you wanted. You were there when you could be."
cee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Oh Lexiegirl that is so sad for you to face that on top of losing him. It must be really giving you mixed emotions. I hope you have family around to comfort you.
There are a lot of good listeners on this board so come back and talk to…"
cee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 40s or earlier
"Barbi, I noticed you mentioned not wanting to go places or buy things until the debts were paid. I kept putting things off because I wanted to save money for our retirement so we could do things together them. Now I wish I would have gone…"
cee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 40s or earlier
"Barbi, So sorry you were left alone last night, I have those triggers also. And days when I really feel down.
I am so sorry you family is not more considerate of you. I stayed with my son for two weeks last year. They did somewhat include me in…"
cee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Connie, I am half way into my second year maybe that is why I am feeling so lost and out of sync.
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cee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 40s or earlier
"I agree, I find myself just sitting and doing nothing because there is no one here to do things for or who will care if I do them or not. I miss having that good by "love you" in the morning and then again at bed time along with the…"
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Missing him
Posted on July 18, 2012 at 10:00am 0 Comments 3 Likes
It doesn't need a special day
To bring you to my mind
For days without a thought of you
Are very hard to find
Isn't working
Posted on July 2, 2012 at 1:54pm 16 Comments 0 Likes
Well, I thought this would be a good place to be able to meet others going through the same thing I am. It started out with a few welcomes etc, but guess I never really fit in and now I feel more alone then ever. I'll stay on for a while. Just wish I was able to connect with people better. Maybe it is time just to pack everything in and go back to my small home town and get used to being alone.
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- At 10:44pm on February 22, 2013,
SpiritWalker said… I have spent many hours in the Black Hills as I sought the essene of my native american heritage. There is a part of me that remains there always....
- At 6:14pm on January 24, 2013,
Mford4 (Marlene) said… - I'm doing ok. I see u r in kutztown. I'm in new hope we don't like the cold either. I'm lucky here because I live in a 55 plus community and it has a club house. When I go stir crazy I go up to the library and talk to people when they come in. But this cold keeps me locked in
- At 8:38am on December 6, 2012,
Karen said… Hey, cee, long time, no hear from. I'm pretty caught up on all the stuff that needs done on and in my house and yard - just in time for Christmas. Yuck! Anyway, just wanted to touch base and hope to hear from you some time soon. I'm miss hearing from you. Karen
- At 8:33pm on November 4, 2012,
judy said…
Thank you Cee - was a very hard day - I know I made Justin proud of me - very drained right now - today is our 6th wedding anniversary.
- At 4:01pm on May 7, 2012,
Suz said… You bet, Dakota Gal!
- At 10:06pm on February 23, 2012,
carolynne said… Cee, I'm so very sorry for the loss that brings you here, but welcome. WV has been an incredible source of support for me and I hope it will be for you as well. I'm glad you've found us.
- At 11:25pm on February 16, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome Cee: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at WV that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
- At 2:14am on February 15, 2012,
Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
I'm so sorry for the loss that brought you here Cee, but I'm glad you've joined us. We are all on the same journey, some a little farther down the road then others. But please remember none of us need travel alone. We are here if you need us when you hit those unexpected bumps and want a friend to lean on. Welcome, and join in when your ready.
- At 9:24pm on February 14, 2012,
VOLUNTEERSupa Dupa Fresh said… Welcome to our community.... I hope we can keep you company on your journey ahead. Please look around a bit and read this basic introduction to the site. You can find more information about how the community works under "Help!" in the navigation bar, and we'll send you a few newsletters with tips and ideas in the coming weeks. If you need a little more help, go to the Home page and look in the right hand column to see the link to a "Help Desk" form.
We all use the site differently, but we hope you feel comfortable sharing among us in the coming days, weeks, and months.
Big hug!
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