"Hi...my name is Colleen...I served in the Navy for 14 years, I met my Husband when I was stationed in Berea,Ohio...we had 23 wonderful years before he passed away in Aug of 2014...things have been rough since he passed...he was 6 years older than I…"
"Irish Lady....I see old couples together and know that I was robbed of having that with my Husband....I kind of get a bit pissed that they have what we were supposed to...everything is messed up...SSN money gone day after he died...I'm only 58…"
"Been a little more than a year since I lost Frank...I hope one day that I will find someone to spend the rest of my life with...I am 58 and know he wanted me to go on with my life....will it be an easy journey...no...but am I willing to…"
"I haven't been on for awhile...do to my shattered hip...but I still follow all the posting...I think most people don't have a clue what to say...so sometimes they put their foot in their mouth..I try very hard to make allowances for those…"
"Sandi,I lost my Husband as well in Aug 2014...tomorrow is our wedding anniversary...I will spend part of it at orthopedic surgeons office to see if my fractured hip is mending...his Birthday was May 30th ...my Birthday is in a few days....all these…"
"Connie...I am so sorry for your loss...never feel as if you are interrupting...I do all the time...especially in the chat room...if you do try it ..you just need to jump right in...same with here...everybody just posts and sometimes conversations…"
"hi GTO..So very sorry for your loss,(((((HUGS))))) you are very normal,we all do what we need to just to survive the terrible loss we have suffered....this is the place to unburden and just let go.We all unload here...I'm 57 and lost my Husband…"
"It breaks my heart all over again,to know how much we all suffer. I hope it will get easier for everyone,I feel that our spouses would not us to live in agony..rather in the peace of having known their Love and that they would have wanted us to have…"
"Long walks I know what you mean...it hits me and I have 3-4 very sad days and I spend the day just crying ,no motivation to do anything...then it just goes away...was doing fine and last night cried for a couple hours...but I'm ok today.."
"Lakegirl33..I did a collage of my pics of us in each of them he has a different shirt on...so I still get to see his shirts at a place where we were happy...so many wonderful memories...he always said God made me for him...as I was organized,had…"
"Before F rank died he signed his car over to his Daughter for our Grandaughter,as she is still a minor...thou it is her car and will be when she's 18. I had the girls go thru everything to see if there was some things they wanted, I gave some…"
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favorite song and why....Frank listened to many songs to show how much he Loved me....Finally he told me this is the song...too bad he said it wasn't around when we got married as it would have been our song....I hope if any of you listen to it you understand why he wanted it played for us at his celebration on life....George strait....I cross my Heart...
Thanks for the friend request. It's so hard to manage everything alone. It's so nice to be able to talk to someone who understands what I am going through. Looking forward to talking with you again.
Hi Colleen. I'm looking forward to talking with you more. This whole situation seemed unmanageable, but just talking it out with people like you, gives me hope. It means a lot! Thank you for friending me.
Just.Me ( Connie)
Welcome to Widville, Colleen. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here! You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.