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Cspan
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  • Portland, OR
  • United States
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gypsie123 and Cspan are now friends
Jan 12
kshy liked Cspan's blog post New Years Day 2013
Jan 2
Lisa ( Marielee) commented on Cspan's blog post New Years Day 2013
"Claire - 2013 can only be better then 2012! Hard stuff but the highlight is you are still standing through all of this. You are going to only get stronger as time moves forward and you heal. Thank you for sharing your "stuff"- because we…"
Jan 1
Barbie Doll commented on Cspan's blog post New Years Day 2013
"Happy New Year Claire!!!  You made me laugh!!!  I'm sorry, I know none of these events were funny for you but I have to laugh because it was so similar to the types of things I did this past year too.  I swear I think I lost my…"
Jan 1
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New Years Day 2013

Today is New Years Day 2013;it is one of the rare days during the Oregon winter that is very sunny and very cold. I  started out on my neighborhood walking path as I take every opportunity to get sun on my retinas this time of year. I was happy. About a mile in I slipped on some very thin ice that I didn't see. I got that fragile feeling again and I cried for the next mile. I had to blow my nose into my gloves which is mildly disusting but I didn't think I would need tissues. In my mind I…See More
Jan 1
Cspan and WeaverWoman are now friends
Jul 28, 2012
Cspan replied to carolynne's discussion Who's going to Camp in August??
"I just signed up Any one else from the Portland Oregon area?"
Jul 25, 2012
Joyce left a comment for Cspan
"Welcome Cspan: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked…"
Jul 23, 2012
Cspan is now friends with Ccdague, Arnie (New Normal) and bj628(Bonnie)
Jul 23, 2012
Arnie (New Normal) left a comment for Cspan
"So sorry we have to meet this way, I am Arnie from NJ and offer friendship and a ear when needed. I do not write much but love the chat feature so I hope to see you there. My losses are many in short times, a 19 yr old son, a wife of 21-1/2 yrs, a…"
Jul 23, 2012
WiddaWithHope left a comment for Cspan
"I HIGHLY recommend Camp Widow. I have been to two so far. There are no words to explain the feeling of being in a room with everyone that "gets it". I was scared to go the first time but so glad I did. If you can possibly go then go.…"
Jul 22, 2012
Cspan is now friends with WiddaWithHope and Dianne in Nevada
Jul 22, 2012
WiddaWithHope left a comment for Cspan
"Welcome! I am very sorry for your loss. You have found a great place for support and friendship. I also lost my husband to melanoma - one year from diagnosis to death. It's a horrible disease. Take some time and explore the site. I hope it…"
Jul 22, 2012
Cspan commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"I think I messed up my post...anyway I am new here . My husband of 32 years died on February 4th of melanoma. It was only 1 year from diagnosis to he died. I find I am less acute in my grief and have more just deep sadness and I am very lonely.…"
Jul 22, 2012
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Jul 22, 2012
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for Cspan
"I'm so very sorry for your loss, Cspan, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Here's a good place to start: Basic Site Info Join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a…"
Jul 21, 2012

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New Years Day 2013

Posted on January 1, 2013 at 9:49pm 2 Comments

Today is New Years Day 2013;it is one of the rare days during the Oregon winter that is very sunny and very cold. I  started out on my neighborhood walking path as I take every opportunity to get sun on my retinas this time of year. I was happy. About a mile in I slipped on some very thin ice that I didn't see. I got that fragile feeling again and I cried for the next mile. I had to blow my nose into my gloves which is mildly disusting but I didn't think I would need tissues. In my mind I…

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At 2:03pm on July 23, 2012, Joyce said…

Welcome Cspan: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".

At 6:24am on July 23, 2012, Arnie (New Normal) said…

So sorry we have to meet this way, I am Arnie from NJ and offer friendship and a ear when needed. I do not write much but love the chat feature so I hope to see you there. My losses are many in short times, a 19 yr old son, a wife of 21-1/2 yrs, a Dad and BF wife all in span of less than 7 months, new and very deep but I have found an amazing place of comfort and healing, this place has been a big part of it. The rest of my "healing" is for private conversations. Just wanted to say Hi and welcome to the club no one wanted to belong to.

Love and hugs for my new friend

At 8:56pm on July 22, 2012, WiddaWithHope said…
I HIGHLY recommend Camp Widow. I have been to two so far. There are no words to explain the feeling of being in a room with everyone that "gets it". I was scared to go the first time but so glad I did. If you can possibly go then go. Don't think twice. GO!!!! There's a discussion forum for Camp Widow West. Join in the talks there. Also chat with Dianne from Nevada. She is a big supporter of camp as well.
At 1:43am on July 22, 2012, WiddaWithHope said…
Welcome! I am very sorry for your loss. You have found a great place for support and friendship. I also lost my husband to melanoma - one year from diagnosis to death. It's a horrible disease. Take some time and explore the site. I hope it helps you as much as it has me. Take care! It's one day at a time and sometimes one moment at a time!
At 4:15am on July 21, 2012, Dianne in Nevada said…

I'm so very sorry for your loss, Cspan, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Here's a good place to start: Basic Site Info

Join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations.  I look forward to getting to know you here.

 
 
 

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