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Danielle
  • Female
  • Lititz, PA
  • United States
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Clare left a comment for Danielle
"I think you've chosen the right place to try and make a new life. If I could I would move back to Tassie tomorrow. And Hobart is really the best of both worlds as you have a great little city and all the beautiful day trips you could want.…"
Jan 1
Clare left a comment for Danielle
"Hi Danielle,I'm sorry for not replying for so very long. I had my husband's birthday and two anniversaries to get through (on top of the Christmas and New Year's malarkey) and I must say I didn't handle any of it very well (ended…"
Jan 1
Danielle commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Oops I hit the button before I had finished! I also wanted to say that I found having something arranged for the day was a godsend. Don't leave yourself too much time alone with your thoughts. Mike's friends wanted to have a 'do'…"
Nov 30, 2017
Danielle commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"LadyLipstick, firstly, my heart goes out to you at this very difficult time. I very recently marked the 1st Anniversary of my husband Mike's passing - 17 November. Even writing it now, it still doesn't seem real. But, of course it is, and…"
Nov 30, 2017
Clare left a comment for Danielle
"Hi Danielle, I thought maybe I should move this post to your wall. Not sure how all this works. I am so sorry about your husband. I have no idea how I'll cope when it gets near that one year mark. Anniversaries of any kind terrify me. My…"
Nov 5, 2017
Danielle replied to Booklvr's discussion Husband died just 1 week ago
"Booklvr, I really am so sorry you are here. I am in a very similar situation to yourself, my husband Mike died at 39 years old on the 17th November last year, very suddenly. We had been married 11 years.  It is a horrendous time you are going…"
Oct 15, 2017
Danielle replied to ByHisGrace08's discussion Young Widow/Widower (YWW) with no Kids
"Hi MenuFalls, The balloons at the park sounds fantastic, and the plaque, what an amazing idea. I lost Mike in November last year - he was 39 - so this October will be his 40th, I have been starting to dread it but I love how you just got out there…"
Aug 7, 2017
Danielle replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion Who's going to Camp Widow San Diego 2017? Let's get acquainted!
"Hi Cathy, Fantastic, thank you. I am SO glad I've booked the camp. October will be Mike's 40th birthday,, 17th November the 12month anniversary of his death - and I've just returned to my home country for the first time since he…"
Aug 2, 2017
Danielle replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion Who's going to Camp Widow San Diego 2017? Let's get acquainted!
"Hi Cathy, Lovely to hear from you, sorry it has to be in these circumstances. Newcastle is a great spot in the world, I have a very good friend there. Your message was a  light in a rather miserable day, I was having a shocker of a time today…"
Jul 31, 2017
Danielle replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion Who's going to Camp Widow San Diego 2017? Let's get acquainted!
"Aaah! I missed it too, so glad I spotted this conversation. Will be off to the shops for a dress! I feel so confused about how to feel about the Camp! I'm excited and then I remember what it's all about......ugh....."
Jul 29, 2017
Danielle replied to ByHisGrace08's discussion Young Widow/Widower (YWW) with no Kids
"Oh Nieta I love the Fried Green Tomatoes comment - that is exactly how I feel.  I'm terribly sorry for your loss. Life is cruel.  Hugs. xx"
Jul 29, 2017
Danielle replied to ByHisGrace08's discussion Young Widow/Widower (YWW) with no Kids
"Hey everyone, I'm also a member of this little club. I'm 43 and Mike was 39 when he died last year. Hubby and I decided not to pursue having kids after it didn't happen naturally. No regrets, I have four gorgeous young nephews who I…"
Jul 29, 2017
Danielle replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion Who's going to Camp Widow San Diego 2017? Let's get acquainted!
"Me! I'll be flying in from Australia so am arriving a couple of days early to get rid of jet-lag :) My husband and I had just moved to Pennsylvania last year when he passed away very suddenly. I've still got all our belongings in our…"
Jul 29, 2017
Danielle replied to Riley's discussion wedding anniversary in the group Widowed in 2016
"Hi Riley, My hubby died in November last year and both my birthday and our wedding anniversary were in the following February. Ugh. I tried to ignore both of them. Kept very quiet about the wedding anniversary and told no one but my sister told…"
Jul 7, 2017
Danielle replied to Dan's discussion Anxiety / Panic attacks
"Hi Dan, I hope you're doing okay, I know you posted this a little while ago but I wanted to add my voice to the 'Yes, its normal!' chorus. I too had those feelings, almost like I was at the very peak of a rollercoaster then the…"
Jun 15, 2017
Danielle replied to Miket's discussion My Turn in the group Widowed in 2016
"Miket, your post was heartbreaking and yet so beautifully, brutally honest. Keep crying (though it is exhausting!) and keep grieving at your own pace. No one can tell you how to do this, nor should they try. Please hang in there. As suddenly as…"
Jun 12, 2017

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At 5:40pm on January 1, 2018, Clare said…

I think you've chosen the right place to try and make a new life. If I could I would move back to Tassie tomorrow. And Hobart is really the best of both worlds as you have a great little city and all the beautiful day trips you could want. I'm considering Ballarat at the moment. It's cheaper rent wise and I still have so much to pay for. I don't really know what's happening with the super stuff and I'm concerned people are going to come and take the car away etc. if I don't get my finances under control.

At 5:30pm on January 1, 2018, Clare said…

Hi Danielle,

I'm sorry for not replying for so very long. I had my husband's birthday and two anniversaries to get through (on top of the Christmas and New Year's malarkey) and I must say I didn't handle any of it very well (ended up in the bathroom bawling on Christmas day, while his very large family ate lunch and whispered about me ... and don't even get me started on his birthday gathering). I hope your get together went a little better than mine, but I suspect the general pain would've been the same regardless. I don't think other people realise how hard these celebrations are when you've lost a husband.

In other news: I went home for five days, which was calming but also a lot of hard work handling the kids alongside the grief. My youngest had a ball though, and it was lovely to see him enjoying life again. He ran naked on Freers beach and even went down in the Gunns Plains caves. Oh to be three again!

Best wishes,

Clare

At 5:09pm on November 5, 2017, Clare said…

Hi Danielle,

I thought maybe I should move this post to your wall. Not sure how all this works. I am so sorry about your husband. I have no idea how I'll cope when it gets near that one year mark. Anniversaries of any kind terrify me. My thoughts are with you. xx

At 8:11pm on June 3, 2017, Jo said…

Hi Danielle - Just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts as you prepare for the next part of your journey.  Sending strength and love.  Jo xx

At 10:41am on March 12, 2017, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, Danielle. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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