"Hi Debadora,
My heart goes out to you! I noticed that you signed up on this site on October 16, 2012. That is the day my sweetie passed. It took me a while to find this site but I'm glad I did. There is plenty of validation of…"
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Debadora commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"In reply to Jean. Your post about your husband illness and the hope with false hope and no one putting the cards on the table is spot on with the experience I had during my husband treatment and illness of cancer. We wanted to blame…"
Debadora commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 60s
"Wow, guess I am not alone in my inlaws and step children troubles over the last 2 and half years since my husband's passing. I get comfort, strength and some good advice indirectly when reading your posts, all! Wishing you all a…"
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Debadora commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"Well, I know how much I miss Bill everyday, but even though I am not ready to date, I am ready to move forward and stop dwelling in my lonliness. I have to get out more, just out, not bars, just out, volunteering or something. My good…"
Debadora commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"Truth I let some friends convince me to start an eharmony profile. Never finished it. I just cannot ever picture myself with anyone except my Bill!
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Debadora commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"I am truly sick of my step daughter and her selfish ways. She has become a sell out to her mother, a pompous, racist, holy roller, who continues to treat my late husband's family like they are dead. She married last week, no…"
Debadora commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"Thinking of you feeling loney. I too am not looking forward to the holidays again. Putting on the happy face when inside you want get under the blankets and cry. I miss, finding the perfect gift for my husband. Miss wrapping…"
Debadora replied to Robinmo's discussion Is the second year really worse?
"Thats where Im at Cleo. I too find myself looking too, comparing them to my Bill and feeling guilty for looking. God Bless you all. We WILL get through this!
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MFARM left a comment for Debadora
" I like your certificate of life. I'm sorry your participating in this awful state of widowhood but glad we are here together. I'm pretty new (since June 22, 2012) so I have no advice.Welcome!
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Debadora commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"AGHHHH!! I dont know what to say.... I hate this new life!! I didnt ask for it! I want my husband back!
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"So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others. …"
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- At 7:14am on January 29, 2013,
Brucer said… Hi Debadora,
My heart goes out to you! I noticed that you signed up on this site on October 16, 2012. That is the day my sweetie passed. It took me a while to find this site but I'm glad I did. There is plenty of validation of what is going through my mind.
This journey we are on can be overwhelming and mind-numbing at times. I do find moments of peace but sure could use more. I hope things are getting better for you and I wish you only the best.
Bruce
- At 9:11pm on October 16, 2012,
greenup said…
- Hi debadora
- At 12:59pm on October 16, 2012,
MFARM said… I like your certificate of life. I'm sorry your participating in this awful state of widowhood but glad we are here together. I'm pretty new (since June 22, 2012) so I have no advice.Welcome!
- At 11:38am on October 16, 2012,
wannabmartha said… So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others. Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help.
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