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Dee replied to Carol Scibelli's discussion Can you see yourself re-marrying?
"Maybe if you find him he would be worth marring. "
Dee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Kittymom, susan, smit09,
3-6 month time frame was the worse for me. I think it was the depression part that set in. Every time that I have to do something that was Bill's responsibility it just breaks my heart again. I had a…"
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Born in the 60s
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Dee liked carolynne's blog post Baby steps
Dee commented on Sheryl-momof4's blog post Betrayal
"I am so sorry, some people are just down right nasty!!!!!!!!!!!"
Dee commented on greyeyes10's blog post The move
"Maybe the folks that bought the place would be willing to rent it to you for a while longer or something"
Dee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"bestwife, My 17 year old son puffed up on me about a week ago, he was angry about the lawnmower and yelled at me. I channeled Bill in every way I could and puffed up on him right back. I put him in his place real fast. I feel like I have to give…"
Dee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"my brother told me today that I don't make sense anymore. He blames me for not inviting him over for the holidays or calling him. He says I have dissociation myself from him and his family. It;s my fault for not calling him and…"
Dee replied to NikkiPea's discussion Social Security Benefits
"If you are over 60 you can get widowers benefits. 50 if you are disabled. If you have minor children they can get benefits as well until they are 18 or 19 if they are still in high school. death benefit from ss is a one time…"
Dee commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Lilerisue, Its been 8 months for me and I still have all of his things in the same place. I look at the cologne on the bathroom counter and think that I should put it away or walk by the dresser and say to myself that I should clean it…"
Dee replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion Widow Brain: have you done anything DUMB or unusual?
"I mail the electric bill to myself this month"
Dee replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion Dreams and signs. Does your loved one appear to you in dreams?
"I have had many signs over the months since Bill passed, but yesterday was uncanny. I have a droid phone that was Bill's before he passed. I had check a site on the internet the day before not amazon. Yesterday, I woke up and a set of blown…"
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Cancer, I am sick of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted on September 29, 2011 at 11:58am 6 Comments 1 Like
Cancer, I am sick of it.
It’s everywhere. It’s been around for years and it kills people all the time. The young the old it’s everywhere. I just can’t understand at this point in time. The 21st century and all, the human kind has not found a cure for this dreadful disease. Sure, they have treatments. Chemotherapy that’s real great. Poison for your body. Hopeful they kill the cancer cells before they kill you. It leaves you weak and sick, puking your guts up and may…
My Love
Posted on September 28, 2011 at 2:44pm 1 Comment 0 Likes
My Love
Come home to me,
This pain should not be,
Come home to me.
You were always here,
And now you’re there .........
A hug, a smile, and the laughs we shared
All gone, what remains is darkness and tears
I close my eyes and smell you near
So fresh and close it’s almost real
Come home to me
This can not be
Comment Wall (6 comments)
- At 12:31am on September 28, 2011,
lindalee said… - I am so shocked at how similar our stories are. It has been a long road and it hurts. But, I know that he had the best of care and he was loved up until the end. He passed away with loved ones by his side. You sound like a survivor and I know that like all of us, we will get through these difficult times.
- At 11:32pm on September 27, 2011,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
I'm pleased you found us, Dee. Take a look around and join our conversations - in the Groups, Forums and Chat Room. You'll find wonderful support here.
- At 6:52am on September 27, 2011,
carolynne said… - Dee, I'm so sorry for the loss that brings you here, but glad you've found us. I hope you'll find the same support and understanding that I have.
- At 1:33am on September 27, 2011,
Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
- Welcome Dee, So glad you found us...so sorry for the reason you needed to look. I'm sure you will find great comfort and understanding here. I know I have over the past few months.
- At 12:27am on September 27, 2011, lindalee said…
- Dee, I am so sorry for your loss. And I am glad that you were able to keep him home all the way to his final days. It is such a hard thing to do, but at least we know that we didn't put him away in a nursing home, he was at home where he belonged. (((((hugs))) Welcome to our group, this has been a life savor!
- At 8:53pm on September 26, 2011,
wannabmartha said… So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others. Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help.
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