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Emotional Days?

Started this discussion. Last reply by myranndah Apr 9. 5 Replies

I have been doing well dealing with the death of my husband 8 months ago - and, I know it has not been that long but he was sick over two years.  I have been dating a very nice guy and life has been…Continue

 

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myranndah replied to Dez's discussion Emotional Days?
"Dez, I can absolutely relate to your situation. It's been almost nine months since my husband died, but he was sick for two years. I'm also dating a supportive guy, and things in life are going well most of the time. He and my friends and…"
Apr 9
SweetMelissa2007 replied to Dez's discussion Emotional Days?
"Even if you're not fully aware of it - you are still grieving ... Your mind is not going to let you forget no matter what you have going on. Triggers are everywhere, they spark memories especially around holidays, B-days, anniverseries, special…"
Apr 9
Frank replied to Dez's discussion Emotional Days?
"Hi Dez, I suspect we all experience times as you describe.  I call them "Zingers."  It's been 6 years since my wife unexpectedly died.  She went to sleep on a Sunday night and did not wake up Monday morning.  The…"
Apr 7
barbee replied to Dez's discussion Emotional Days?
"It has been over five years for me and once in a while I have "one of those days".  I'm in a relationship with a man who has been widowed 14 years and he has those trigger days also. We both were married around 49 years and…"
Apr 2
vintage56(barb) replied to Dez's discussion Emotional Days?
"It has been over 3 years for me and while I think I am doing well, I still find tears spring to my eyes at the least little thing."
Apr 2
Dez replied to Timelord's discussion Desperately need advice - grown "child" in college mess and argument
"If my kids told me to never speak to them again, I would not be sending them money, in any amount. Perhaps she is going through some issues, but she had no right to treat you this way. Give her some space. If you have any way to send her a message,…"
Apr 2
Dez posted a discussion

Emotional Days?

I have been doing well dealing with the death of my husband 8 months ago - and, I know it has not been that long but he was sick over two years.  I have been dating a very nice guy and life has been good.  But, yesterday, out of the blue, I had these feelings of sadness where I was on the verge of tears all afternoon.  I could not pin point exactly why I was feeling so sad or what brought it on or what it was even over.  Of course I miss my husband, but it didn't really seem to be about him....…See More
Apr 2
Dez replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Thanks for your insight.  I am thankful that my husband didn't have to be admitted to ICU... that was another prayer, that he die quickly and peacefully at home, and my prayers were answered.  "
Jan 8
Dez replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Thank you for your support.  It's so nice to see others are feeling the same way. "
Jan 8
Dez replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi all.  This past August, I lost my husband of 35 years after a 2-year battle with Cancer (Pancreatic); he had just turned 62 (I am 57).  It was awful watching him wither away during this time; he went through 51 hard rounds…"
Jan 8
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for Dez
"Welcome to Widville, Dez. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions and…"
Jan 4

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At 9:11pm on January 4, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Dez. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions and Chat Room for conversations on all sorts of topics. Share your story. You'll find the latest news on the HOME page.

 
 
 

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