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Dianthus0625
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Dianthus0625 replied to Anna's discussion Are you able to read a book?
"I can totally relate to problems reading. I'm an avid reader and it must have been somewhere around 15 months after my husband died. It's been 19 months and I'm still fragmented in concentration. Ambition has not been accessable…"
Jun 2
Brazilianwidow left a comment for Dianthus0625
"Hello Dian, How great to hear from you! I'm sorry I haven't been on this website for a while. Keep in touch with me! Christina"
May 20
Dianthus0625 replied to Susan's discussion How Do I Know If :
"Hi Susan, I think the term for the knowing that someone you love has a mortal illness is " Anticipatory grief". I'm not sure but I think that's it. Im glad for your sake that some of the acute pain is under control and I also…"
May 6
Dianthus0625 replied to Susan's discussion I Had Another " First " Today.
"Wow Susan that must br hard! when you've been that close I can understand it would be a huge adjustment. ((( hugs)))"
May 4
Dianthus0625 replied to Susan's discussion How Do I Know If :
"Hi Susan, I've asked myself the very same questions. I think that the fluctuations in feelings are normal and necessary. It has been 17 months since my husband passed and sometimes I even have more than one day ina row where I feel almost…"
May 4
Dianthus0625 replied to Susan's discussion How Do You Live As Half of a Person...
"Hi Val, I like your post too! I've never thought of making a list like that. Your ideas are excellent!"
Apr 28
Dianthus0625 replied to Susan's discussion How Do You Live As Half of a Person...
"Thanks Susan, it's the level of understanding we all have here that creates a bond I think. I'm glad to listen and share what little I know."
Apr 28
Dianthus0625 replied to Susan's discussion How Do You Live As Half of a Person...
"Hi Sissy, I totally understand how it's like half of your core being has been ripped out. Trying to become whole has been a huge challenge. Actually one thing I did, you also did, we came here and found understanding like nowhere else.…"
Apr 27
Dianthus0625 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"I understand exactly how you feel, and I appreciate your understanding too. We never know how these momentos will affect us before such a thing happens and I find myself surprised but eventually there should come a time where we can either listen,…"
Apr 24
Dianthus0625 replied to cindy292's discussion The Effect of Pets
"From my own experience I can say that the two kittens I adopted on February 4 this year have been a huge source of joy and comfort. I had had cats all my life and lost my 18 year old Asha in November of 2014. Coming home to the almost tangible…"
Apr 24
Dianthus0625 replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion PETS? in the group Born in the 50s
"On February 4 this year I adopted two kittens. I had had cats all my life and had Ben sans pet since November of 2014. I lost my husband in November of 2015 and found the house so silent and empty you could cut the air with a knife. It was actually…"
Apr 24
Dianthus0625 replied to Jill's discussion What's scaring you these days?
"When I first lost my husband in November 2015, I was in a constant high grade anxiety. I knew nothing about Estate law or even how to proceed with all the other forms, documents, certificates etc. I quickly learned and handled these things but in a…"
Apr 24
Dianthus0625 replied to Donutmom4x's discussion Please tell me it's not just me...
"I'm so sorry you've had such a series of losses. I'm no expert but having been raised my a mother with a personality disorder I recognize the signs ythat your mother might have that distorted perception that comes with that. It's…"
Apr 24
Dianthus0625 replied to Susan's discussion I Did Something New Today.
"It sounds lovely! I'm in Zone 3 but our summers are great! I love all the seasons too."
Apr 20
Dianthus0625 replied to Susan's discussion I Did Something New Today.
"hi Sissy, Beautiful picture! I can tell you are in a warmer climate which is great for gardening. From what I can see your yard is so pretty!"
Apr 20
Dianthus0625 replied to Susan's discussion I Did Something New Today.
"Hi Sissy, I'm an avid Gardner and I know you will feel joy when you see signs of growth. If you planted seeds it's a thrill when they sprout! gardening can be very rewarding, I speak from experience? It brought flashes of joy even in that…"
Apr 19

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Gardening, reading, jewelry making, painting, drawing, sculpting. I love animals, pets especially cats. I love brisk walking and other light impact aerobics.

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At 10:50am on May 20, 2017, Brazilianwidow said…
Hello Dian,
How great to hear from you! I'm sorry I haven't been on this website for a while.
Keep in touch with me!
Christina
At 4:52am on April 15, 2017, Patience (Diane) said…
Welcome to Widville, Dianthus0625. I'm so sorry for your loss, but happy that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the help link at the top of the page. You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Come in the chat room which is available 24/7. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.
 
 
 

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