"I agree Su - it would be nice to live closer together so we could get together. It's raining here in Georgia today too - but supposed to be a cool and sunny weekend. Great for taking a drive in the country....or piddlin' around the…"
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DrummerGroupie (Chris) commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Poppy's Girl - There definitely is no time limit for grief and everyone's greif is completely individual. There are no rules - everyone is different. Take your time; this is your grief, no one else's. Take care of…"
DrummerGroupie (Chris) commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"So well said, Texas.......passing on a part of yours and your wife's life to those who can benefit....what a great tribute to the caring and giving woman that she was.
Hugs to you.
Chris"
DrummerGroupie (Chris) commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"Lisa - I understand how you're feeling. I also am moving in the next few weeks. I had the opportunity to move last summer, but just couldn't do it yet. Mark's been gone 2 1/2 years and I'm finally at a place…"
DrummerGroupie (Chris) commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"Ivanna - I am so sorry for your tragic loss but I am very glad that you have found your way here. I agree with you - that you should definitely keep your husband's memory alive for your children and grandchildren - that is the legacy that…"
DrummerGroupie (Chris) commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"I know that I am greedy, selfish.........Mark and I found each other later in life and only had 5 years together before he passed away unexpectedly in his sleep, 5 days after his 52nd birthday. When he asked me to marry him, he wrote me a long…"
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DrummerGroupie (Chris) commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"Cec - It's also been almost 2 1/2 years for me and I know how you feel.
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feelinglonely left a comment for DrummerGroupie (Chris)
"I'm feeling pretty stupid right now--but at least it is keeping my mind occupied."
feelinglonely left a comment for DrummerGroupie (Chris)
"I am glad I found out about this site as well. Feel better with all the encouragement and caring. Still trying to become familiar with navigating the site."
feelinglonely left a comment for DrummerGroupie (Chris)
"Thanks for taking the time to respond. I try to take one day at a time and I do everything I have to do, but I can't seem to get passed missing him."
DrummerGroupie (Chris) commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"Hi Feelinglonely - I agree with everything that has been said. My wonderful husband passed away in May 2010 and I miss him everyday....there is no timeline; no grief schedule. Grief is individual to us all......and all we can do is take…"
DrummerGroupie (Chris) commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Works for me - I used to love those dances after our football games when I was in school !! "
DrummerGroupie (Chris) commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"In my opinion, I wouldn't think of it as a test from the universe - but perhaps it was a sign from Jeanni that she was with you, thinking of you and sharing her birthday with you. She knows that purple is your banner and her favorite…"
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- At 1:05pm on September 26, 2012,
feelinglonely said… I'm feeling pretty stupid right now--but at least it is keeping my mind occupied.
- At 4:38pm on September 24, 2012, feelinglonely said…
I am glad I found out about this site as well. Feel better with all the encouragement and caring. Still trying to become familiar with navigating the site.
- At 11:51am on September 24, 2012, feelinglonely said…
Thanks for taking the time to respond. I try to take one day at a time and I do everything I have to do, but I can't seem to get passed missing him.
- At 11:52pm on August 9, 2012,
suebru (Sue) said… Hi Chris, Thanks for friending me. I noticed you're from Ga. I'm just north of you in NC. Love your photos-so precious! Hugs, Sue
- At 5:33pm on July 10, 2012,
blueskies said… Hi Chris, My name is Diane and I lost my husband Dec 3, 2011 in a catastrphic plane crash. He was an excellent pilot for many years, this time the plane had failure and he could not get himself out of the situation, they were coming in for landing and did not have the altitude to work with. I miss him so much. My heart goes out to you.... looking at the beautiful pictures of you and your bundle of joy......it reminds me of my mom that is now 89...when she was in her early twenties she was six months pregnant when she lost her husband on the Russian front line. I myself do not have children, I was married for the first time 10 years ago to my love and we were in our 40,s , we decided not to have children. My mom is now my child, I am her caretaker and we have great times together, she is full of wisdom and joy at times, she is an unbelievable woman. Hugs to you and know you brought a smile to my face in between the tears with your beautiful pictures. Thank you....Diane
- At 10:59pm on July 6, 2012,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
Sending birthday wishes your way today, Chris.
- At 12:29pm on May 26, 2012,
hendrixx2 said… Thanks for friending!!
- At 1:01am on May 20, 2012,
lovie said… Thanks, Drummer G...I enjoy reading your comments...seems we have lots in common. My name is Tiffany..."Lovie" was what my husband called me. Take care!
- At 7:20pm on May 7, 2012, Joellen said…
OMG can I tell you what a great friend you are.. I am so glad you and I are friends I wish we found each other for different reasons but what a comfort you have become to me. Yes Phil did not choose to go I know that.. he would not have choosen to leave our life together.. It was as grand as You and mark had... we both were robbed.... and how funny that you chose that quote "See babe you could do it" he would call me Babe sometimes... How you saying that made me smile... I am going to map quest it and use the GPS... hopefully I will do fine... I would lie if I said I was not scared..... but gonna give it a shot... thanks.. I am going to just relax tonight or try to and this is not till wednesday so ... got time to get up some courage.. thanks chris... you are awesome
- At 6:28pm on May 7, 2012, Joellen said…
Thanks Chris it was a hard day had a rough weekend and then today one of my sons came after workand we went and ordered the headstone so that was incredibly hard... then my daughter told me she has to get to this other hospital for inservice training on wednesday and while I was the driver for the last 11 years Phil was always my co-pilot as I am bad with directions and such.. so now I am freaking out as to how to get her there and me back home... all my sons have to work wednesday and my sister too I do too but I can leave at 2 to take her if only Phil was still here to tell me how to go... so this is turning out to be a week from hell. she found a bus route but would have to be on the bus for almost 2 hours.. rather stupid... for a 20 minute car ride... so I don't know what the heck I am going to do... glad you had a good day..it is encouraging to me to know that down the road I will have them too.
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