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Elizarahana
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  • Fords, NJ
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Luv4Z replied to Elizarahana's discussion Husband recently passed in the group Widowed in 2018
"So sorry you are here but its so new still. Its so hard and not fair. My husband died june 2 i have 4 kids 12-7. I justvtake it one minute at a time. Kids and i have gone to grief groups. I read books like ok to not be ok and option b. Journal and…"
Nov 18
sunshinesoon replied to Elizarahana's discussion Husband recently passed in the group Widowed in 2018
"Hi Elizarahana.  My husband passed September 12 from cancer as well.  I also have a 4 year old son and find taking care of him very difficult at times.  How are you doing?"
Nov 16
Bonky replied to Elizarahana's discussion Husband recently passed in the group Widowed in 2018
"First...I am soooooo sorry. You are 12 days ahead of me. My husband died of pancreatic cancer on September 11. We also have two children. Our oldest graduates from high school this year and although I know I am only supposed to worry about getting…"
Oct 23
Elizarahana replied to Elizarahana's discussion Husband recently passed in the group Widowed in 2018
"Hi, I’m so sorry for your loss. One day at a time is a good motto. I’m doing a few minutes at a time. "
Sep 16
Boswife left a comment for Elizarahana
"I don’t know if it gets easier either. I’m so grateful my husband isn’t suffering anymore, but I miss him so much. I find myself wanting to be alone more. I realize people are trying to help but I find myself annoyed with people…"
Sep 16
JB replied to Elizarahana's discussion Husband recently passed in the group Widowed in 2018
"Hi Elizarahana, My husband passed away from advanced liver cancer also,  He was diagnosed on June 27th and passed away 3 weeks later on July 17th. My mantra has become "one day at a time" but it is very hard.  I do not have young…"
Sep 16
Elizarahana replied to Elizarahana's discussion Husband recently passed in the group Widowed in 2018
"My husband was diagnosed with advanced stage liver cancer in February, also died 6m later. Nice to know I’m not alone, it’s basically the only thing that gives me peace at the moment. I’m sorry for your loss, too "
Sep 16
Boswife replied to Elizarahana's discussion Husband recently passed in the group Widowed in 2018
"I’m so sorry for your loss. My husband died in February, he was diagnosed 6 months earlier with advanced stage liver cancer. We have a 7 year old son. I just want you to know that you are not alone. "
Sep 16
Elizarahana added a discussion to the group Widowed in 2018
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Husband recently passed

Not sure if this is how to post. My husband died August 30th from liver cancer. We have a 4 year old and a 2 year old. I don’t know how to deal with this pain. Taking care of my kids feels impossible, but I’m going through the motions.  I miss him every second of every day See More
Sep 16
Elizarahana replied to Tekwriter's discussion May in the group Widowed in 2018
"I don’t know how to post on this, so I’m doing as a comment. My husband died August 30th. We have a 2 year old and a 4 year old. Each day is worse than the next. "
Sep 16
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for Elizarahana
"Welcome to Widville, Elizarahana. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions and Chat Room for conversations on all sorts of topics.…"
Sep 11

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At 3:09pm on September 16, 2018, Boswife said…

I don’t know if it gets easier either. I’m so grateful my husband isn’t suffering anymore, but I miss him so much. I find myself wanting to be alone more. I realize people are trying to help but I find myself annoyed with people who are trying to “cheer me up.” They just don’t understand unless they have experienced this. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy. The hardest part so far for me is how people dismiss my son. It’s like they think he doesn’t have feelings about his dad dying or he will get over it. It makes me angry. Very few people, family included, ever ask him how he is doing.

If you need to talk or complain or just ramble on, let me know. I don’t mind listening.

At 3:45pm on September 11, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

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