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Faolan
  • Female
  • Bedfordshire
  • United Kingdom
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Faolan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"We have had Pink Lady apples here in the UK for many years, very distinctive by their colour,  I am looking forward to seeing blossom, it is'nt too far away now."
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Faolan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hello and welcome, I had meltdowns in shops, if they were playing certain songs on their system, so I know how you feel. I am 70 also, my husband died 5 years ago, 6 in June, and I can tell you, it does get easier. It's funny how we miss them…"
Jan 28
Faolan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Yes, getting through grief is often a one day at a time thing, at your own pace. Your lovely daughter had exactly the right idea, you must have a great rapport with her. We must make things easy for us, instead of forcing ourselves into…"
Nov 24, 2018
Faolan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"My husband was an early riser too, we don't have Thanksgiving, but at Yuletide it has always been goose, with apple, chestnut and Sultana stuffing. He loved baking, so sausage rolls, bread etc were his forte. He made lovely Barmbrack, an Irish…"
Nov 22, 2018
Faolan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Carol, it is a mere 13 months into your journey, of course your grief is still very raw. We can all relate to it. Time needs to pass and take with it the edge off your pain. You have my reassurance that it Will get better, you will eventually come…"
Nov 18, 2018
Faolan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Thank you Laurajay, abusive parents do not realise the far reaching consequences of their words and deeds, my stepfather often used the excuse "it didn't do me any harm", when he was displaying the harm it had done him!. I think, if…"
Aug 29, 2018
Faolan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"You're welcome, promise me you will see your doctor and get a definite diagnosis on your aches and pains, you can't go through life wondering what's causing them, and your anxiety and depression is probably linked. We have to be our…"
Aug 27, 2018
Faolan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I have fibromyalgia, Sciatica, and PTSD they thought my fibro was R Arthritis at first, the symptoms are similar, a blood test will answer your question. PTSD, I was told by my specialist, is often the cause of Fibromyalgia, and from what you say…"
Aug 27, 2018
Faolan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Sweetlady, You are not the only one, hun, both my steparents should never have adopted a child. One of the reasons I enlisted in the army, was to escape domestic violence. But, they are dead, and cannot hurt anyone anymore, they are not here to…"
Aug 27, 2018
Faolan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I admire anyone whom can still dance. I only went shopping this morning for four hours, and I am paying the price with agonising leg and ankle cramp,"
Aug 17, 2018
Faolan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Sweetlady, your daughter in law is very kind and caring to send you their new address. I have fibromyalgia, and your doctor can prescribe painkillers. But you will need a proper diagnosis, because some things, like Rheumatoid Arthritis are very very…"
Aug 12, 2018
Faolan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
Jul 12, 2018
Faolan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Having a pet is good incentive for getting out of bed. My garden has been occupying much of my time recently, and is great therapy. Some days it's ok not to feel positive, we are only human after all. But not too often!."
Jul 12, 2018
Faolan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Cee,, Runnymede is where the Magna Carta was signed, and it is part of the US constitution, JFK visited Runnymede when he was in England. So I think it would be of interest to you. I hope you do visit, especially at this time of year, Hampton Court…"
Jul 3, 2018
Faolan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"My daughter lives in another town, and neither of us drive, but we chat to each other on the phone every day, as do our parrots. She has a male version of mine, so we put our phones on loudspeaker, and they chat to each other in parrotese, sometimes…"
Jul 2, 2018
Faolan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Sweetlady, the only way to effect a reconciliation with your son and family, is to contact him and ask for discussion. You do not say what his grievance with you is about, and it's none of our business. Something has happened, and you need to…"
Jun 26, 2018

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At 11:10am on December 22, 2015, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Faolan. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

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