"Yes, my husband would blow lightbulb one after t'other at first, move things, then eventually I saw him and heard him. Jewish people believe their spirits move on after a year, but personally, and it is 6 yrs this year for me, I still sense his…"
"I am not ready for sheltered accommodation, or nursing home, because I am fiercely independent and stubborn. When I was widowed, several people said "I suppose you will be moving now?", why would I?, he put so much love and hard work…"
"Hello and welcome, I had meltdowns in shops, if they were playing certain songs on their system, so I know how you feel. I am 70 also, my husband died 5 years ago, 6 in June, and I can tell you, it does get easier. It's funny how we miss them…"
"Yes, getting through grief is often a one day at a time thing, at your own pace. Your lovely daughter had exactly the right idea, you must have a great rapport with her. We must make things easy for us, instead of forcing ourselves into…"
"My husband was an early riser too, we don't have Thanksgiving, but at Yuletide it has always been goose, with apple, chestnut and Sultana stuffing. He loved baking, so sausage rolls, bread etc were his forte. He made lovely Barmbrack, an Irish…"
"Carol, it is a mere 13 months into your journey, of course your grief is still very raw. We can all relate to it. Time needs to pass and take with it the edge off your pain. You have my reassurance that it Will get better, you will eventually come…"
"Thank you Laurajay, abusive parents do not realise the far reaching consequences of their words and deeds, my stepfather often used the excuse "it didn't do me any harm", when he was displaying the harm it had done him!. I think, if…"
"You're welcome, promise me you will see your doctor and get a definite diagnosis on your aches and pains, you can't go through life wondering what's causing them, and your anxiety and depression is probably linked. We have to be our…"
"I have fibromyalgia, Sciatica, and PTSD they thought my fibro was R Arthritis at first, the symptoms are similar, a blood test will answer your question. PTSD, I was told by my specialist, is often the cause of Fibromyalgia, and from what you say…"
"Sweetlady, You are not the only one, hun, both my steparents should never have adopted a child. One of the reasons I enlisted in the army, was to escape domestic violence. But, they are dead, and cannot hurt anyone anymore, they are not here to…"
"Sweetlady, your daughter in law is very kind and caring to send you their new address. I have fibromyalgia, and your doctor can prescribe painkillers. But you will need a proper diagnosis, because some things, like Rheumatoid Arthritis are very very…"
"Having a pet is good incentive for getting out of bed. My garden has been occupying much of my time recently, and is great therapy. Some days it's ok not to feel positive, we are only human after all. But not too often!."
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