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ForeverMourning
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ForeverMourning replied to Aly brabham's discussion Is it normal to keep items around your house of theirs
"I haven't moved barely anything and it has been about 8 months.  His toothbrush, deodorant, etc. is all where he left it.  I washed his clothes and hung them back up, put his shoes in the closet.  My husband was a bit messy and…"
May 1
ForeverMourning commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 70s
"Hi MenuFalls. I understand completely. I’m going through the same frustration right now. The house is getting too much trying to do everything he did. I can’t and hiring people is difficult and expensive. I’m exhausted with all the…"
May 1
ForeverMourning replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Nitabug, I completely agree. I HATE “new normal”. First time I heard it was from the pastor speaking at the funeral.  Heard it a few times after, too, and hated more every time I heatd it."
Apr 10
ForeverMourning replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"OMG! I’m glad you were able to cut them out of your life. Man, my in-laws are driving me crazy, but the worse has only been from the brother who told me I need to give his parents a break because they were suffering just as much as me maybe…"
Mar 6
ForeverMourning replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Me too! But when I try to express that to anyone who doesn't "get it" I get scolded for being irrational or I'm taking it too far and then I'm more angry."
Feb 20
ForeverMourning replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"That's good!  But what kind of response did you get from that?  I need to start loading up with good responses. ;)"
Feb 20
ForeverMourning replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"I find that absolutely no one can say the right thing and comfort me.  I wish I could somehow telepathically tell people to not give advice, don't ask how I am doing.  Just tell me you are thinking of me and hoping I had a good day or…"
Feb 20
ForeverMourning replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Forget him and start your life?!?! I am so sorry you had to hear that."
Feb 20
Sonu left a comment for ForeverMourning
"Hi,, i am so sorry that we have to face these. You know what yesterday my in laws showed their other side too. I am shocked and hurt thinking that how my husband wud be feeling now by watching his parents hurting me. Now all they are interested is…"
Feb 19
ForeverMourning replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Exactly, our loved ones was a person who you cherished. I feel like they are treating my husband as a pet as if to say "just go get another husband" like he wasn't that important and so easily to replace him.  I am not even like…"
Feb 19
ForeverMourning replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Yes, if I learned anything it is definitely how to treat a grieving person and it is mostly about what NOT to say."
Feb 19
Sonu left a comment for ForeverMourning
"Hi, welcome to the group. I am very sorry for your loss and i wish i could rewind time. The problems which you are facing from ur in laws..i too am facing the same but more from my own parents. I am 28 and i lost my husband on 21st dec 2017.we have…"
Feb 18
ForeverMourning replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi Nieta, You are so right about the best person you can rely on is yourself. I learned pretty quickly that I was "in this alone" and I have to learn to take care of myself, by myself.  Grief is very exhausting!"
Feb 18
ForeverMourning replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"There have been so many but I think the worse is "you're young, you will find someone else."  That irks me so much that at times I feel like I can't wait to be able to say the same to them.  Then hope they get mad and I…"
Feb 18
ForeverMourning commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Hello, new poster.  My husband died unexpectedly 5 months ago.  I have been having a tough time in general and most of all my in-laws have been driving me crazy.  However, I am very sorry for everyone who has had in-laws cut them…"
Feb 18
ForeverMourning replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello, I am a new member.  I lost my husband suddenly in September 2017 from a car accident.  We are only 40 and have no children.  I am lost and feel so alone.  I joined because I really only have my dog and my parents and I am…"
Feb 18

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At 6:36pm on February 19, 2018, Sonu said…

Hi,, i am so sorry that we have to face these. You know what yesterday my in laws showed their other side too. I am shocked and hurt thinking that how my husband wud be feeling now by watching his parents hurting me. Now all they are interested is his money related issues. They are behaving with me like i am not so imp. It is their right first.they are searching all over the house of me and my husband for documents. Even his youngest brother is so keenly interested in these. I am young, i have no kids that doesnt mean that i am not his wife. I too have all the rights. This is not about money. Had they asked me, i would have given everything but this is my right as his wife. I can never stop loving him and he too loved me so much that i know, even in his last moments he remembered me. I am in grave pain. I was misunderstanding my parents and arguing with them. I just want to leave this world 

At 5:54pm on February 18, 2018, Sonu said…

Hi, welcome to the group. I am very sorry for your loss and i wish i could rewind time. The problems which you are facing from ur in laws..i too am facing the same but more from my own parents. I am 28 and i lost my husband on 21st dec 2017.we have no kids as we were married only for 8 months wen this happened. My parents are driving me crazy the same way. Words are faling short to describe the pain

At 6:06pm on February 16, 2018, Patience said…


Welcome to Widville, ForeverMourning. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the "help" link at the top of page. You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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