"I still wear my ring too. It's almost 3 years. I tried going without it, but my finger feels empty after 41 years. I don't care what people think. I am not looking for anyone, so what difference does it make."
" It will be 3 years for me in May. I have joined our Desert Widows/Widowers group. I also have gone to Meetups for about a year and half. Everyone is single for whatever reason and there are couples too. It's just a…"
"Frank, I read how you grew up. Yes, grew up in Chicago with plenty of cold winters, freezing days and walk to school. Never complained, it's something you had to do. If you got caught doing something you shouldn't you got…"
"My heart also goes out to all that have lost their spouses seems like error on the doctors. I too feel that way. I should have done more and you feel powerless, you think you are in good hands with the doctors who care for our spouses.…"
"I am so, so sorry to read about the passing of your husband. Sounds to me that if the doctor would have intervened in his shortness of breath his passing would not have happened.. I just feel so bad for you. Where do you go from…"
"What can I say. You have had enough "losses" in your life in a short period of time. Losing your spouse is about all I can take and you have lost so many loves of your life. I feel really bad for you about your…"
"I have to add that going to the doctor alone is not good. I just had to have biopsies taken and had to get two stitches in two different places and I was not prepared for that. As I lay on the table I was thinking "he" should…"
"Yes, I have gone out alone. A movie or lunch. Seems I did it more often when I first became a widow, now I mostly stay home. Today, Sunday, I have a ticket in my community for a concert that I will attend alone, because it is in my…"
"That was so beautiful. Never heard of the song before. Of course, now I am crying and so sad. Imagine what those family in Florida are feeling when this terrible tragedy happened. Those kids didn't have a chance to…"
"Today would have been my husband's 80th birthday. I always told him I hoped he would live to 80, somehow right now that does not feel so old. Will go to the cemetery and sit on the bench and have lunch and talk. Still have not…"
"I tried to make pizza this week. Second time I tried. I was edible, but I would not invite anyone over to have a slice. Lately, that's all I am doing is eating. None of which is good for me. Nothing…"