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Husband pasted two years ago
Started this discussion. Last reply by Dianne in Nevada Jul 21, 2012. 4 Replies 0 Likes
I am having a hard time with lonelyness. If you are haveing this problem, how are you handling it?Continue
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LifesAJourney replied to Freedom2012's discussion Husband pasted two years ago
"I've just hit the 3 year mark since my husband passed away and I feel your pain. In the three years that have passed, I made the decision to move to be closer to family and I think it only made my loneliness worse. At least in VA I had friends…"
greyeyes10 replied to Freedom2012's discussion Husband pasted two years ago
"I don't. I wallow in it. My situation makes it so I can't go out and see friends- and they don't come to my place most of the time. A month from today will be 2 years and I have hated every minute of it and have so much anger and pure…"
kat replied to Freedom2012's discussion Husband pasted two years ago
"I am right there with you. I stay busy with work, the kids, family, and friends. I get incredibly lonely especially after putting the kids to bed and the house gets so quiet. I miss just having my husband around...the laughter, the…"
Arnie (New Normal) left a comment for Freedom2012
"So sorry we have to meet this way, I am Arnie from NJ and offer friendship and a ear when needed. I do not write much but love the chat feature so I hope to see you there. My losses are many in short times, a 19 yr old son, a wife of 21-1/2 yrs, a…"
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Joyce left a comment for Freedom2012
"Welcome Freedom2012: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts…"
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- At 6:25am on July 19, 2012,
Arnie (New Normal) said… So sorry we have to meet this way, I am Arnie from NJ and offer friendship and a ear when needed. I do not write much but love the chat feature so I hope to see you there. My losses are many in short times, a 19 yr old son, a wife of 21-1/2 yrs, a Dad and BF wife all in span of less than 7 months, new and very deep but I have found an amazing place of comfort and healing, this place has been a big part of it. The rest of my "healing" is for private conversations. Just wanted to say Hi and welcome to the club no one wanted to belong to.
Love and hugs for my new friend
- At 7:31pm on July 17, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome Freedom2012: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
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