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Gary'swife replied to PEANUTBRITT's discussion Winter is coming.
"Dear Peanutbritt:  So sorry for your pain.  My first husband loved skiing, and also spent every weekend teaching skiing (although in the Poconos, not nearly as cool as Andora).    Keep coming here to read and post.  Know you…"
Oct 31
Gary'swife commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"@irishlady I do not have children, so I cannot reply to your question. However, I just wanted to let you know I read your post, and you have my sympathies. Hugs"
Oct 17
Gary'swife commented on Dianne in Nevada's group Widowed in 2014
"Doug- I do not think you are overreacting.   Perhaps it is because we know of very bad outcomes with these type of situations.   Also, I know for myself after my first husband got cancer and then died, I became much less certain things…"
Aug 18
Gary'swife commented on Soaring Spirits's group More Than One Loss (Multiple Losses)
"Just realized I can't even think.  Thought his estate was closed 25 years ago, not 15."
Oct 2, 2016
Gary'swife commented on Soaring Spirits's group More Than One Loss (Multiple Losses)
"Patience (Diane).   I agree.  This step-son is a Dr., so I guess he might be a good "target" for a scammer. It just makes me mad to think I might have to deal with something that I believed was closed 15 years ago.  When I…"
Oct 2, 2016
Gary'swife commented on Soaring Spirits's group More Than One Loss (Multiple Losses)
"I haven't told anyone else about this...don't want to, so decided to post here. I was contacted (via facebook) by one of my former (?) step-children, the son of my first husband who died in 1990.  He said he was contacted by some…"
Oct 2, 2016
Gary'swife commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Everyone - so well said.  As someone in my grief group said "we were a team".   Not only do I miss having someone else do things, help me with things, I am now really missing the ENCOURAGEMENT for me to do things.  It's…"
Oct 2, 2016
Gary'swife commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"@bandit - your comment about not socializing much is probably true for most of us.  As Irish lady said, it took some time to find some friends from her grief group, and I am now doing the same.  It took 2 years to finally "click"…"
Sep 30, 2016
Gary'swife replied to NoLongerInBergenJC's discussion Health problems after losing a spouse in the group Born in the 50s
"@NoLongerInBergenJC - I read an article that suggested writing a letter to the person who died, and then, writing a letter back to yourself from that person as you would imagine them to respond.   I had never heard the 2nd part of that…"
Sep 28, 2016
Gary'swife commented on Dianne in Nevada's group Widowed in 2014
"@springflowers2014 -   I was a bit in your same situation (although I don't have children who were telling me to do so).   I have finally decided that for me, for now, what I really want are people to do things with.  It has…"
Sep 27, 2016
Gary'swife commented on Dianne in Nevada's group Widowed in 2014
"@springlowers2014 - Good question.   I think the problem is "casual" dating, because the emotions can quickly take over and it is no longer casual.  I believe there is a group on here which discusses dating, perhaps they have…"
Sep 27, 2016
Gary'swife replied to country woman's discussion Solo travel
"@Supernova - I just got a notice from Airbnb that they are launching City Hosts....someone to show you around.  I think this is such a great idea for solo traveling.  I have found that for me, the joy of travels is to learn more about the…"
Sep 20, 2016
Gary'swife commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"@lizbeth4 - So sorry about your Aunt.  You are a great comfort to your Mother, and she is very fortunate to have you. Hugs Lynda"
Sep 15, 2016
Gary'swife replied to country woman's discussion Solo travel
"Supernova -I am curious how your trip went.   I have traveled solo many times, after my first husband died.   My 2nd husband and I traveled a lot, but alas, now I am back to solo travel.    Would like to hear of others…"
Sep 13, 2016
Gary'swife commented on Dianne in Nevada's group Widowed in 2014
"Oh Damianino -   I am so,so, sorry.  As you said, it takes you back to where you started.  So good that Olive is always hugging you, and of course you know she needs you. Know your friends here think of you, and sending hugs. Lynda"
Aug 25, 2016
Gary'swife commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Broken Diva - Yes, and no.  It's different.   I am now at 2 years 3 months.  The first year was a fog, flurry of activity.  The 2nd year I thought "now it will get better", but I felt like I was just treading…"
Jun 20, 2016

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At 7:06am on April 25, 2015, leendah said…

sheri baby said it.........takes awhile for emotional healing...........And we wouldn't have the sorrow if we hadn't loved them..........I would rather have loved than not loved at all.

At 9:59am on June 25, 2014, Shirah said…

Gary's wife,  Hello there,  welcome to WV.  This is an awesome site, and the support is caring and loving.  I joined in May and I am so glad I found it.  It's been wonderful to talk to and get to know people who get "it".  Have a blessed day. 

At 12:38am on June 25, 2014, Damianino! said…
Gary's wife,

Welcome to WV, I am sorry for your loss. I neeive over the next fews days and the succeeding weeks, you will come to appreciate this site like all the members here have always affirmed.

I am just about 2 weekS old in the site and it feels lilke I have known these beautiful companions on WV. Way to. Go. Post whatever issues that bother you on line and you can be sure that members with a wide range of experiences would respond to your queries. Cheers!
At 6:12pm on June 24, 2014, Joyce said…

Welcome Gary'swife:  I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It"

 
 
 

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