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memorial tattoo

Started this discussion. Last reply by Jerry Sep 10, 2012. 14 Replies

Im looking to get my new tatt soon im having my daughter draw it up (a custom cross with the medallion my wife got me from Ireland ) finally found someone to do it this might sound weird to some but…Continue

 

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Jerry replied to GeoffreyT's discussion memorial tattoo
"Nice thing to do for sure. If you click prvious on the bottom of the page you will see the tattoos I got after my wife paased away. The only sort of negative comment I received my from my EX brother in law. He Sid to me, " what are you going to…"
Sep 10, 2012
bj628(Bonnie) replied to GeoffreyT's discussion memorial tattoo
"I got a tattoo, on 13th month anniversary.. i found a few photos on line, but some i liked some things, and some others not, so Chris.. created one for me. There is a photo of it in my photo album.  I have lost so much wieght I…"
Sep 10, 2012
vickicrco replied to GeoffreyT's discussion memorial tattoo
"I have a memorial tattoo for my husband, it's the first and only tattoo I have.  I sketched what I had in mind, and then the artist improved upon it :).  My husband was buried rather than cremated, so no ashes to mix in with the…"
Sep 10, 2012
Rev.Teri replied to GeoffreyT's discussion memorial tattoo
"Hi Geoff!  Alhtough I don' agee with tatting, I do think what you are doing is a lovely memorium and tribute to your love for her.  I think that adding the ashes to the mix is beautiful.  It touched me so deeply. Don't let…"
Aug 26, 2012
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Jun 6, 2012
smit09 replied to GeoffreyT's discussion memorial tattoo
"I get my memorial tat on the 31st!  My tattoo artist is going to mix some of Chit's ashes in mine too,.... so I don't think that's weird! lol. i cannot wait until you post a pic and share it with us! :)"
Mar 19, 2012
gcortez55 replied to GeoffreyT's discussion memorial tattoo
"nice jerry"
Mar 19, 2012
CrazyWidow replied to GeoffreyT's discussion memorial tattoo
"I know a friend who had her husband's ashes mixed with the ink too - Did you get it done yet?"
Mar 19, 2012
Joyce commented on GeoffreyT's blog post hello all
"Geoffrey:  I'm so sorry for the loss of your Dad.  Hang in there you will get through this..Take care!"
Mar 17, 2012
gcortez55 commented on GeoffreyT's blog post hello all
"sorry geoffery, my dad passed away of cancer 5 months after my husband. we didnt have a good relationship but the loss was still there. hang in there. take your time. we are here."
Mar 16, 2012
GeoffreyT commented on GeoffreyT's blog post hello all
"Thx it seems I was starting to get on track now it threw everything upside down again :("
Mar 16, 2012
bad ass widow commented on GeoffreyT's blog post hello all
"I am so sorry Geoffrey.  I know how you feel.  I lost my Mom 6 months after my husband.  Hang in there. (((hugs)))"
Mar 16, 2012
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Hello everyone I haven't been on here for quite awhile I was on the road of dealing with the grieving process of my wife who had passed in sept and now I had fell even worse my father had passed away on march 4th of a stroke so im really losing it
Mar 16, 2012

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Posted on March 16, 2012 at 8:42pm 5 Comments

Hello everyone I haven't been on here for quite awhile I was on the road of dealing with the grieving process of my wife who had passed in sept and now I had fell even worse my father had passed away on march 4th of a stroke so im really losing it

LOVE <3

Posted on February 14, 2012 at 10:58am 0 Comments

Today is Valentines day we celebrate love for my heart still yearns for u everyday i remember in years past of joy and togetherness for i can not hold u in my arms. I will always with my heart and soul. For my true love will always be. Love u always and forever

Aggravated!!

Posted on February 5, 2012 at 11:42pm 1 Comment

Ive been for the past 2 -3days. Very Aggravated no real reason just in a pissy mood lately i dont kno if its my daughters negativity towards her mother it seems she only talks about the bad times i dont want to yell at her cause she is going threw her own grieving. Her way i had told her today she should try and find some type of group where she can talk to ppl who understand what she is going threw. And ot would help i cant/wont force her into anything like that i just very Aggravated right… Continue

Woke up this morning with a song in my head. ;;3rd eye blind-hows it going to b, that promted me to go threw and listen to others some real tear jerkers the 1 song i listen to and everytime im crying…

Posted on February 3, 2012 at 10:43am 13 Comments

Woke up this morning with a song in my head. ;;3rd eye blind-hows it going to b, that promted me to go threw and listen to others some real tear jerkers the 1 song i listen to and everytime im crying my eyes out. Pink-who knew. What isanybody else's songs that do that too. Big huggs to u all. G Continue

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At 7:16pm on February 2, 2012, Lisa (lost) Lamb said…

I'm so sorry for your loss Geoffrey, but I'm glad you've found us. I hope you will find comfort and understanding here like I have. This is a wonderful community filled with caring people, I know you'll fit right in. Welcome!

At 5:35pm on February 2, 2012, Wanderer530 (Bernie) said…

Welcome Geoffrey.  

My husband was in Hospice in our home and died May 30, 2011 (Memorial Day).

Don't let the darkness consume you.  This community not only "gets it," but it "WORKS!"

With great love there would understandably be great pain, but hope and rebirth is also part of the equation, and it "will" come into your life!

 
 
 

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