"It's going to be a year in September since Peter passed away in his sleep. I never imagined how fast my life could change. We had so many plans, and I was in so much pain after losing him. I know that getting up every morning…"
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"We did not have a perfect marriage, but we did have a pretty good one. We always said we were a team, no matter what. I know that we both had things that bother us, but we always manage to work things out. I miss his jokes,…"
"September will be one year and even though it's more that one month away, I still can't believe it's been 10 months that Peter has been gone. I still have his shoes by the door. I clean, move them, but I always put them…"
"It has been 10 months since Peter passes and I sometimes I see people look at my hand with my wedding ring on it Maybe some of them feel I should have already removed it, but I'm not ready to, and I don't know if I ever will. …"
Jul 20, 2012
Gloria just updated their location. (via Member Map)
Jul 20, 2012
Gloria just added their location. (via Member Map)
"Today makes 10 months for me. Joyce is right keeping busy does help. There are still days that I don' want to do anything, but I know that only makes it harder. Peter died in his sleep and my life changed from one day to the…"
"Welcome to our community.... I hope we can keep you company on your journey ahead. Please look around a bit and read this basic introduction to the site. You can find more information about how the community works under "Help!" in the…"
I understand how you feel. Some people ask me if I would ever start over with someone else. It will be 10 month 7/18 that Peter is gone. I miss him. He loved me and we always worked things out. Although he was…"
"It's going to be 10 months on 7/18 that Peter passed away. As I get closer to the year of his passing, I feel like I am staring to have more bad days then good. I wake up and sometimes wonder how I made it through another…"
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Welcome Gloria: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I know you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It"