"Great and insightful response Mary H. It is hard to overcome the fact that we were once so comfortable with our spouse but we forget that it wasn't always that way. We only remember the recent when there was a long history of mutual…"
"Thank you, you are so right, I don't know that this will ever be easy. As you know there are waves and although I feel unbelievably blessed those waves still come. I truly wish you the best as you discover the path for you. "
"It has been fascinating to read these updates on my e-mail. I have felt like I should reply at some point but just haven't had the time. So many of your feelings and thoughts I can relate to because I went through so many of the…"
"You are so wise Mary H. Please hang in there through the roller coater of emotions. So much of what you have described I felt each step of the way. I too was confident early on (after I could stomach the idea of trying again) then…"
"So happy for you WittyBlondeWolverine, it sounds like it was an interesting journey but well worth it. Also good advice from your patient. I still have that slight guilt feeling every once in a while, but in my case (and I'm certain…"
"Hello Mary H, and all the others who follow this. I have been off the site for a while but I still get the e-mail updates. You encouraged me nearly two years ago so I thought I would return the favor. I was in the online dating…"
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