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HENMESS
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The red sun sinks slow  into the sea And shipwrecks on the rocks below The clouds bloodstained remain And soften to a glow. There is no moon, but the sea is there The waves still come and go Hypnotic…

The red sun sinks slow  into the seaAnd shipwrecks on the rocks belowThe clouds bloodstained remainAnd soften to a glow.There is no moon, but the sea is thereThe waves still come and goHypnotic sound of water bathes my soulBruised and battered now, aching to knowWhere you are, my heart’s beloved –Are you near, or far?Do you see me – hear my cries?As I listen to the sea, do you hold my hand?The stars become shards of ice Tearing at the fabric of my beingWhere are you hiding? Where do you stand?I…See More
Mar 13
Sissy commented on HENMESS's blog post I AM ALIVE TODAY
"Happy and Sad all at once.  I like this :-)  Thank You for sharing :-) Susan"
Mar 7
kellygreenstrat (Colin) commented on HENMESS's blog post I AM ALIVE TODAY
"If something can be so beautiful and painful at the same time, this is.  I doubt anyone would ever want to relate to it, but I'm sure most of us do.  Thank you"
Mar 7
HENMESS replied to BabushkaD (Debbie)'s discussion My child is depressed-Can you offer any words of wisdom or share stories if you've experienced this with your child?
"Your little boy also has feelings anc trust me they are not much different to your own. He must be allowed to grieve, to come to terms with the way his life has changed. Don't even think of trying to jolly him out of it. Just let him now that…"
Mar 6
Callie2 commented on HENMESS's blog post SEASCAPE
"Beautiful. I could picture it well and understand the significance of the feather. Grief somehow takes us into another demension, one we did not know existed. Love your poetry!"
Mar 2
HENMESS posted a blog post

SEASCAPE

SEA SCAPE I watched the waves retreatIn their wake, rainbowed foam,Broken shells, pebbles tumbledOne lone feather lost by a seabirdFor it is here that gulls come to be lonely..I bent to pick it up, to hold, to smooth it..Once it was part of the proud gull.Now still itself, but what would it be?An embellishment in a scrap book,Or would it return to the sea?To be tossed without purposeFor eternity?For A moment, the feather and I were one,No longer needed, forever alone.I set it down and watched…See More
Mar 2
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Feb 28
Sissy commented on HENMESS's blog post I AM ALIVE TODAY
"What I feel."
Feb 27
happylilycat commented on HENMESS's blog post DO NOT WEEP
"That is truly a work of art.  Thank you so much for this, I needed this today. Peace. "
Feb 24
HENMESS posted blog posts
Feb 23
HENMESS commented on HENMESS's blog post DO NOT WEEP
"yes. Thank you for your gracious comment"
Feb 23
Callie2 commented on HENMESS's blog post DO NOT WEEP
"You wrote that? That is beautiful!"
Feb 23
Patience (Diane) left a comment for HENMESS
"Welcome to Widowed Village, Henmess. I am very sorry for your loss, but happy that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here. Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the help link at the top of the…"
Jan 26

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The red sun sinks slow  into the sea And shipwrecks on the rocks below The clouds bloodstained remain And soften to a glow. There is no moon, but the sea is there The waves still come and go Hypnotic…

Posted on March 13, 2017 at 4:58am 0 Comments

The red sun sinks slow  into the sea

And shipwrecks on the rocks below

The clouds bloodstained remain

And soften to a glow.

There is no moon, but the sea is there

The waves still come and go

Hypnotic sound of water bathes my soul

Bruised and battered now, aching to know

Where you are, my heart’s beloved –

Are you near, or far?

Do you see me – hear my cries?

As I listen to the sea, do you hold my hand?

The…

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SEASCAPE

Posted on March 2, 2017 at 3:10am 1 Comment

SEA SCAPE 

I watched the waves retreat

In their wake, rainbowed foam,

Broken shells, pebbles tumbled

One lone feather lost by a seabird

For it is here that gulls come to be lonely..

I bent to pick it up, to hold, to smooth it..

Once it was part of the proud gull.

Now still itself, but what would it be?

An embellishment in a scrap book,

Or would it return to the sea?

To be tossed without purpose

For…

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DAYS SLIP THROUGH MY FINGERS

Posted on February 28, 2017 at 11:23pm 0 Comments

The days slip through my fingers

Like rosary beads unprayed

I cannot live without you here

To be with me, to talk to me

I wish you could have stayed.

My life is like a melody

But the notes are never played

For none but I can hear the notes

So silence echoes where once you were

Where once your laughter rang

And silent tears from unseeing eyes

Fall unseen into the dust of ground

Where once you trod, where once…

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VIOLIN

Posted on February 28, 2017 at 9:50pm 0 Comments

The violin wept it’s tears in the rain

Wept like a heart that is rent with pain

Wept of sorrows too deep to express

Whispered of longing too secret to guess.

Only the wailing wind and I knew

Of the longing too wide to escape.

I could not hold the music in my hand

To whisper, yes, I understand..

I know what it is to have my soul die

I know of pain that cannot cry

I know what it is to call out in pain

For a hand I cannot hold again…

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At 11:09am on January 26, 2017, Patience (Diane) said…
Welcome to Widowed Village, Henmess. I am very sorry for your loss, but happy that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the help link at the top of the page. You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Come in the chat room which is available 24/7. I look forward to getting to know you and support you Here In Widville.
 
 
 

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