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Started Sep 24, 2012 0 Replies 0 Likes
Just wondering if there is anyone from Colorado? Maybe work out get togethers to chat? Just wondering. ConnieContinue
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bramky commented on Hahase (Connie)'s event Robert Underwood
"Connie, Happy Birthday to your husband. Hope today brought lots of wonderful memories of your husband. Sorry we have to go through these special occasions without our loved ones.
Sending you warm thoughts and ((hugs))."
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Robert Underwood at In our hearts, to above..
December 11, 2012 all day
Happy Birthday to my husband in Heaven. It is our first one since you left to be a angel. We miss you bunches and love you. A place is missing in our home but not in our hearts. Love ya..See More
Dianne in Nevada commented on Hahase (Connie)'s blog post Having to face the Holidays already... How am I going to get through it. What are you going to do?
"That sounds like a perfect plan, Connie. Good for you! I changed up Thanksgiving that first year. I didn't want to go to a friend's house where I would be around a joyful intact family. And I couldn't see going to the trouble of…"
janet commented on Hahase (Connie)'s blog post Having to face the Holidays already... How am I going to get through it. What are you going to do?
"Connie, these first are so hard. The holidays are especially hard. My husband passed on the 1st of November last year so I had Thanksgiving and Christmas within the first two months of his passing. My son did not want to do the…"
bj628(Bonnie) commented on Hahase (Connie)'s blog post Having to face the Holidays already... How am I going to get through it. What are you going to do?
"Last yr was my first Thanksgiving & Christmas without John. My daughter & son in law were living here. I have a little fiber optic tree.. plopped that together and draped some garland across the entertainment center & hug our 2…"
bad ass widow commented on Hahase (Connie)'s blog post Having to face the Holidays already... How am I going to get through it. What are you going to do?
"I think that Christmas is one of the hardest holidays to deal with. In my case I have tried running from it. I have tried blocking it out, but now I realize that I can still celebrate the holiday. To me it is about family and…"
Dianne in Nevada commented on Hahase (Connie)'s blog post Having to face the Holidays already... How am I going to get through it. What are you going to do?
"Ah Connie - this is a tough one when you still have kids in the house. I guess my advice is to do what feels right for you ... don't feel obligated to do what others expect you to do. Of course, you need to consider your son's wishes as he…"
AEDforever (Ali) commented on Hahase (Connie)'s blog post Having to face the Holidays already... How am I going to get through it. What are you going to do?
"Connie, I think all of us struggle with the concept of "happy holidays" when we for sure are not feeling so happy inside. Paul and I didn't have children together, his kids and my kids were grown. We shared 3 Christmas's…"
Blue Snow commented on Hahase (Connie)'s blog post Having to face the Holidays already... How am I going to get through it. What are you going to do?
"I wish all we widows could all get together on Christmas and have a good cry fest. [[[hugs]]]"
Lisa ( Marielee) commented on Hahase (Connie)'s blog post Having to face the Holidays already... How am I going to get through it. What are you going to do?
"Connie , I so get this . This will be my third Christmas without my husband and I had to take my time and go at my pace with the holidays. My best friend encouraged me to at least get a tree. That was a good decision. I didn't do my normal but…"
kimkirt (KK) commented on Hahase (Connie)'s blog post Having to face the Holidays already... How am I going to get through it. What are you going to do?
"My husband died on 11/5/11, last year I cooked Thanksgiving for my son (10 at the time), and my parents and myself. I always cook, every year, my husband loved it. He would "sample" as I cooked, it was our think. Thanksgiving morning…"
jean commented on Hahase (Connie)'s blog post Having to face the Holidays already... How am I going to get through it. What are you going to do?
"Connie.. I get this.. I didn't do any of it the first year. Was only two months since he had passed the first christmas. I was still bawling my eyes out at two months. (((hugs))) Hang in there. I'll be praying someone near can help…"
Drewlady commented on Hahase (Connie)'s blog post Having to face the Holidays already... How am I going to get through it. What are you going to do?
"Good evening. The Horrible Holidays. It's been three and a half years since losing Drew so this is the fourth set of Holidays without the world's biggest kid when it came to every holiday. He even would say one year he would get costumes…"
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Having to face the Holidays already... How am I going to get through it. What are you going to do?
Posted on October 28, 2012 at 2:23am 15 Comments 0 Likes
I was in the store and came around the corner only to be in a isle filled with Christmas decorations and gifts. I really don't want to do anything for Christmas no tree, no wraping gifts nada.. Only a few gifts for my son and gift for my young great neices and nephews. Seeing those trees and bulbs hit me like a brick panic and deep sadness hit me.
The santa gig is up for my son who is gong to be 13 but he still wants to do the whole schbang I dont want to see it, deal with…
Continue NO how to book or instructions for this journey.
Posted on September 20, 2012 at 12:42am 2 Comments 1 Like
I have always been a gal that loved the how to book or stuck to the instructions for putting things together, running the VCR, or even my coffee grinder, but have found out there is no quick book or instructions for grief.
In college we did the death and dying process and how it applied to many things, I learned how to work with those dealing with loss, addiction, and mental health issues. But, come to myself dealing with my husbands ALS, and eventual death there has been no leg…
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- At 5:48pm on August 8, 2012,
srm541 said… Connie, I'm so sorry for your loss
Welcome to our group, know that we are here for you anytime day or night.
I use to live in Littleton, Co.. I lost of spouse on 3-26-11.
Take care, Sharon
- At 12:02am on August 6, 2012,
bj628(Bonnie) said… Hi and Welcome, I met you in Chat last week.
- At 8:33pm on July 31, 2012,
tweedles said… Hello Hahase. I'm Trish and although I am sorry about the circumstances that brought you here, I'm glad you found your way here. This is a good place for support and understanding. Take care of yourself, Trish
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