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Hanging in there replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"If someone comes here in seek of support and we say, "I told you so," that's 1) not support, 2) not forewarning, and 3) not kindness."
Hanging in there commented on Mac's blog post Four Days
"Glad you are having a string of good days. :)"
Hanging in there replied to Midlo777 (steve)'s discussion (For the self employed) Has loosing your spouse affected your business?
"Not sure what advice to give, but do know you aren't alone. I am a self-employed writer and my "gave a damn about work" took a major dive after my husband died. If it wasn't for survivor's benefits and life insurance, we…"
Dianne in Nevada commented on Hanging in there's blog post Just a wreck today
"My second birthday without Vern was much harder for me, too. Haven't really figured out why. I was alone on both. Took the day off work. Stayed inside the house in my jammies. Perhaps it's just these 'events' continue to mark the…"
Hanging in there commented on Hanging in there's blog post Just a wreck today
"Judy, it's hard when so many dates like that fall so close together. Big hugs to you."
Hanging in there commented on Hanging in there's blog post Just a wreck today
"Thank you so much. Today was a little better."
judy commented on Hanging in there's blog post Just a wreck today
"Wanted to wish you a birthday of smiles and peacefullness and maybe a dream of your sweet husband...."
judy commented on Hanging in there's blog post Just a wreck today
"So sorry that you are feeling so lost. I totally understand - cause I'm coming up on a year without mine and my birthday I am dreading too - it is 4 days after he passed. How will I get through this? How?"
jimswife33 (Michelle) commented on Hanging in there's blog post Just a wreck today
"Im so sorry you are having a bad day especially on your birthday. I hope tomorrow is a better day. Wishing you peace and healing."
honeys(puddin) commented on Hanging in there's blog post Just a wreck today
"Everyday seems like a lifetime:("
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Just a wreck today
It's my birthday. The second one I've "celebrated" since my husband died.Last year I went out of town with a friend. I think that must have gotten my mind off of it some. Did not expect this year to hurt so much. This year it's just hitting me and hitting me and hitting me. My husband was older than I am by a few weeks, but now he will always be younger. Two years younger, now.It just hurts.Kinda wanted to be left alone today. Have a whole facebook wall full of posts from people wishing me a…See More
Hanging in there replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Haha. True. Very true. Can't wait until our youngest together is 18 so I don't have to deal with him anymore at all. Never in a rush for the kids to grow up, but it really can't get here soon enough."
Hanging in there replied to PrincessWidowGirl's discussion 3 Good Things
"I'd be delighted to, so long as you send him back when he's done.
His wife actually saw me and my daughter taking turns tackling the jungle over here in the heat and sent him over on his riding lawn mower to have mercy on us. I almost…"
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Just a wreck today
Posted on September 12, 2012 at 9:06pm 7 Comments 0 Likes
It's my birthday. The second one I've "celebrated" since my husband died.
Last year I went out of town with a friend. I think that must have gotten my mind off of it some. Did not expect this year to hurt so much.
This year it's just hitting me and hitting me and hitting me. My husband was older than I am by a few weeks, but now he will always be younger. Two years younger, now.
It just hurts.
Kinda wanted to be left alone today. Have a whole facebook wall full…
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- At 8:37pm on August 10, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome Hanging in There: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
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