"Hi Jacks's Girl, most of the people I know going, are going alone. I am meeting a fellow widow friend there, but am coming alone as well. I'm at almost 16 weeks, and feel the same. As terrified as I am to go, I know I need to meet some…"
"Oh NorCal_girl I am so sorry to hear of your husband's sudden passing. Our stories are similar. I am going through the same. I am only 33. My husband suddenly passed 3 months ago and I am beyond shattered. We were together nearly 17 years and…"
"Pufferfish- I am hurting for you so much with the fact that the inlaws are asking you for the ring, and to use your maiden name. That is horrific, why on earth would anyone want to take your name away from you? You didn't get divorced, he died.…"
"Took a few minutes to get caught up. When you read them all at once, it's so heartbreaking for all of us to have to go through this.
Oh Flutastic, that is awful, and I'm so sorry you are having to go through that along with all the other…"
"Hi all, New to this group. I thought I had joined it a month ago, but I guess not. I'm 33 and my husband was 38. He just died on October 21st, 2015. We've been together for 16.5 years and married for 14.5. No kids, just us. Reading…"
"I always read comments on this group, but haven't commented yet. I'm in Suddenly Widowed, and Born in the 80's. Felt like too much at first to join all 3. I look at the words Widowed in 2015, and I don't want to believe it, or…"
Hugs to you. I feel the same with the survivors guilt. Why did we make it and they didn't. I don't understand and I don't like it. I'm so sorry it was 72 hours exactly, that is not fair at all. I wish I had any…"
"As I sit here at 1:20 am, I was writing in my online journal to my husband. I was writing how the old me would never recognize the person I am now. Because that person died along with my husband that day. She's gone, and then I thought- I hope…"
"It kills me even more that we are all having such a hard time right now. I'm so destroyed this week. It was 2 months yesterday. How on earth has it been that long, but yet, it feels like an eternity since I've seen his beautiful face.…"
"Hi Rebekah...Sent you a message with a friend request too. Anyway, feel free to call me at 815-814-9014 or email at [email protected] We both lost our husbands right before our eyes in different circumstances. I know the pain. Hugs to you"
Hi Rebekah...Sent you a message with a friend request too. Anyway, feel free to call me at 815-814-9014 or email at [email protected]. We both lost our husbands right before our eyes in different circumstances. I know the pain. Hugs to you
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