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Do others have problems with photo's

Started this discussion. Last reply by widow85 Aug 7, 2017. 3 Replies

My Helen passed away 30th June, going through all the trauma's that all know about on  this site but why is it that some photo's can give comfort and some healing whilst others just seem to send me…Continue

 

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HelensRay replied to Mike's discussion Dating Again? in the group Widowed in 2017
"Mike, my wife passed away on the 30th June 2017.  A friend of mine Colin who is a couple of years younger than (70) and lives a few doors away from my mother-in-law, lost his wife about a month before I lost Helen.  It appears that he has…"
Feb 13
HelensRay replied to Mike's discussion Why did this happen? in the group Widowed in 2017
"Mike, don't know about other people but I am with you in that I spent so much time thinking what else I could have done to prevent Helen leaving me. Helen passed away 30th June.  I later had visits two or three times from the hospice nurse…"
Feb 12
HelensRay commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"two really lovely songs thanks for sharing.  On both youtube pages there is Alan Jackson singing "Every Now and Then" give that one a spin"
Feb 12
Clare replied to HelensRay's discussion Its Official in the group Widowed in 2017
"I absolutely know the feeling."
Feb 11
HelensRay commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"Carmen, I would like to echo what Pearlinden has said.  I too felt so much comfort from your very moving words, it expresses what I would want to say, thank you"
Feb 11
HelensRay replied to Snow's discussion Can't Stop Crying in the group Widowed in 2017
"Snow, you say that have have no family and friends seem to have drifted away after years of illness, but I think you may find that there will be one or two people who may come into your life in this period. Please just let them in if they offer, you…"
Feb 5
HelensRay replied to Snow's discussion Can't Stop Crying in the group Widowed in 2017
"Snow, its just 3 days, just keep crying leave all that other crap for later.  There are things you have to do but not right now. I would say forget about other people but thats easier said than done, but don't please put on a show for…"
Feb 5
HelensRay replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Dena, I have had so much help from WV and it helps me to give support to others.  You are so strong to carry on with your business after such agonizing and dreadful experience.  I am surviving and each day is hopefully one more day to…"
Jan 19
HelensRay replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"GTG, So so sorry for the loss of your husband. I lost Helen 30th June and I now seem to be at the point where the pain is still there but the heartwhrenching, stomach churning grief seems to be a little in abeyance. Its 5am here (UK) been awake for…"
Jan 18
Carmen513 replied to HelensRay's discussion Its Official in the group Widowed in 2017
"Happy belated Birthday wishes to Helen for the the 14th of Jan! and well done you my friend.Sounds like you focused your love for in loving others, How proud Helen must be of you right now! My Bobby have birthdays on the same exact day. I remember…"
Jan 16
HelensRay replied to HelensRay's discussion Its Official in the group Widowed in 2017
"As you say Carmen that's the first Christmas over with and I really am glad it's over. Like you it was OK and it was good to see the boys, but I just felt that I was on the outside looking in.  It also grieves me to say that I seem to…"
Jan 16
Carmen513 replied to HelensRay's discussion Its Official in the group Widowed in 2017
"Hi Ray well here we are ,first Christmas over without our soulmates. My emotions were a bit wobbly in the days leading up to Christmas, did my best to avoid the hyper mania in malls ,and Christmas Eve sad for me, because my hubby used to have this…"
Jan 15
HelensRay commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"I know here you are AD1964, but at least the first part of this time is over.  Helen went 30th June and I do believe (hope) I am now on the way forward. I think (think!!) and hope I am now past grieving and now in just missing my Helen. …"
Dec 28, 2017
HelensRay replied to HelensRay's discussion Its Official in the group Widowed in 2017
"So like your words Carmen.  Am spending Christmas with my sons (Lee till boxing day, then David for a few days) I want to be here but I want it to be over, seems crazy.  Lee is so supportive but I know he would'nt cope if I broke down…"
Dec 23, 2017
Carmen513 replied to HelensRay's discussion Its Official in the group Widowed in 2017
"Well Ray I believe in things I never used too although I knew lots already  about the supernatural world of the Holy Spirit ,and Gods spirit is a loving Gentleman so no fear involved ever there. Losing a lifes partenar is losing someone that we…"
Dec 23, 2017
Carmen513 replied to HelensRay's discussion Its Official in the group Widowed in 2017
"Hi Ray, I am sorry for your loss and I get where you are coming from when you say you miss your Helen. Mu husband Bobby fought Cancer and in the beginning survival looked promising. It was months and weeks of so many invasive treatments and major…"
Dec 23, 2017

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At 11:52pm on July 27, 2017, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, HelensRay. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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