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HelensRay
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Why no messages??

Started this discussion. Last reply by Rainy (Misty) May 16, 2018. 4 Replies

Its just past 10 months since Helen has gone.  Whenever we went out for the day/evening when we got back home there was always (well usually!!) a message left on the phone.  Now I know that a lot…Continue

Do others have problems with photo's

Started this discussion. Last reply by widow85 Aug 7, 2017. 3 Replies

My Helen passed away 30th June, going through all the trauma's that all know about on  this site but why is it that some photo's can give comfort and some healing whilst others just seem to send me…Continue

 

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HelensRay replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Mark I lost Helen 30 June 2017, just 2 years from her cancer diagnosis. I am getting to the point when a lot of days have good in them but too easily pulled back into, not really bad days, but not so good days. After 50 years together I don't…"
Aug 13
HelensRay replied to soulmate's discussion If you could choose one song to express how you feel after the death of your spouse what would it be?
"Thanks for sharing setlib, this sharing is one of the reasons I am thankful for WV, it just lets me know that I am not on my own. The odd "I am so sorry", or "I know how you feel" (how bad is that!!) is supposed to get where we…"
Jul 18
HelensRay replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi Deb, so so sorry that you are here with us. What I have learned is that grief can't be shared we all carry our grief alone, but here you can let that grief out. Get that worm out of your head by expressing it here. You need your family,…"
Jun 30
HelensRay replied to Rich's discussion Would you do it again?
"Somebody asked me a while ago if I would want to meet up with anyone else (I lost Helen 30 June 2017).  I said I was'nt sure, did not like the loneliness but I just did'nt think I would ever find anyone who I could love as much as…"
Jun 17
HelensRay replied to soulmate's discussion If you could choose one song to express how you feel after the death of your spouse what would it be?
"Yes J, agree 100% Yes, Yes Yes"
May 21
HelensRay updated their profile
Apr 27
HelensRay commented on jlsrdh's blog post I MISS... YOU'RE SMILING FACE
"Thank you JL, touching me with your foot in bed - wow brought everything back, and in a nice sweet and loving way"
Apr 27
HelensRay replied to Rainy (Misty)'s discussion What is going on with the shifting of emotions?
"Misty, I had this posted on my facebook…"
Apr 13
HelensRay replied to Rainy (Misty)'s discussion What is going on with the shifting of emotions?
"I came on the forum today looking for, not sure exactly but sort of guidance, focus, inspiration even.  And the first discussion I dropped onto was the one I was looking for - what about these shifting emotions??  However in finding this…"
Apr 12
HelensRay replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Ozzy, so sorry you have had to join this club I am into 21 months since I lost my brave Helen.  I am sure I did have some signs in the first few days after I lost Helen.  Some people have said that it was just imagination, they can think…"
Mar 15
HelensRay replied to soulmate's discussion If you could choose one song to express how you feel after the death of your spouse what would it be?
"A friend of mine John wrote a song a little while after my Helen passed and I said to him that it really reflected a lot of what I was feeling and he said "you should do - some of it was from you". Apparently he had been talking with a…"
Mar 10
HelensRay replied to soulmate's discussion If you could choose one song to express how you feel after the death of your spouse what would it be?
"Cindy, Willie Nelson was a huge favorite of Helen and I and "Something you get through" is just so right.  Helens favorite song was "The Highwayman" by the Highway Men (including Willie Nelson and another favorite Waylon…"
Feb 24
HelensRay replied to soulmate's discussion If you could choose one song to express how you feel after the death of your spouse what would it be?
"Nearly 2 years into this different life and one song I cry to each time I listen to it is Alan Jackson "every now and then" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fjJpOiTQg2U As the pain eases slightly this song gets more relevant"
Feb 21
HelensRay replied to soulmate's discussion If you could choose one song to express how you feel after the death of your spouse what would it be?
"Alan Jackson - its just that way http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j3CdvI_1e_E"
Feb 13
HelensRay replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi Phil, I lost my Helen 20 months ago just a few months short of our 48th wedding anniversary. So so sorry for your loss, they say time is a great healer unfortunately I have not reached that "time" as yet. Boy have I been through some…"
Feb 10
HelensRay replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Being alone is part of our thing, whether on our own or with other people (if that makes sense) its how we each handle it.  I have had so much support from being part of this village, hope you can get something from it as well. Ray"
Dec 16, 2018

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At 11:52pm on July 27, 2017, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, HelensRay. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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