My Helen passed away 30th June, going through all the trauma's that all know about on this site but why is it that some photo's can give comfort and some healing whilst others just seem to send me…Continue
"Mike, my wife passed away on the 30th June 2017. A friend of mine Colin who is a couple of years younger than (70) and lives a few doors away from my mother-in-law, lost his wife about a month before I lost Helen. It appears that he has…"
"Mike, don't know about other people but I am with you in that I spent so much time thinking what else I could have done to prevent Helen leaving me. Helen passed away 30th June. I later had visits two or three times from the hospice nurse…"
"Snow, you say that have have no family and friends seem to have drifted away after years of illness, but I think you may find that there will be one or two people who may come into your life in this period. Please just let them in if they offer, you…"
"Snow, its just 3 days, just keep crying leave all that other crap for later. There are things you have to do but not right now. I would say forget about other people but thats easier said than done, but don't please put on a show for…"
"Dena, I have had so much help from WV and it helps me to give support to others. You are so strong to carry on with your business after such agonizing and dreadful experience. I am surviving and each day is hopefully one more day to…"
"GTG, So so sorry for the loss of your husband. I lost Helen 30th June and I now seem to be at the point where the pain is still there but the heartwhrenching, stomach churning grief seems to be a little in abeyance. Its 5am here (UK) been awake for…"
"Happy belated Birthday wishes to Helen for the the 14th of Jan! and well done you my friend.Sounds like you focused your love for in loving others, How proud Helen must be of you right now!
My Bobby have birthdays on the same exact day. I remember…"
"As you say Carmen that's the first Christmas over with and I really am glad it's over. Like you it was OK and it was good to see the boys, but I just felt that I was on the outside looking in. It also grieves me to say that I seem to…"
"Hi Ray well here we are ,first Christmas over without our soulmates. My emotions were a bit wobbly in the days leading up to Christmas, did my best to avoid the hyper mania in malls ,and Christmas Eve sad for me, because my hubby used to have this…"
"I know here you are AD1964, but at least the first part of this time is over. Helen went 30th June and I do believe (hope) I am now on the way forward. I think (think!!) and hope I am now past grieving and now in just missing my Helen. …"
"So like your words Carmen. Am spending Christmas with my sons (Lee till boxing day, then David for a few days) I want to be here but I want it to be over, seems crazy. Lee is so supportive but I know he would'nt cope if I broke down…"
"Well Ray I believe in things I never used too although I knew lots already about the supernatural world of the Holy Spirit ,and Gods spirit is a loving Gentleman so no fear involved ever there. Losing a lifes partenar is losing someone that we…"
I am sorry for your loss and I get where you are coming from when you say you miss your Helen.
Mu husband Bobby fought Cancer and in the beginning survival looked promising. It was months and weeks of so many invasive treatments and major…"
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