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Herekittykitty42
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- Las Cruces, NM
- United States
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Supa Dupa Fresh left a comment for Herekittykitty42
"Welcome to our community.... I hope we can keep you company on your journey ahead. Please look around a bit and read this basic introduction to the site. You can find more information about how the community works under "Help!" in the…"
Herekittykitty42 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"lorioc42
Thank you for your comment. It is so sad that mental illness is still considered so taboo, people act like they're going to catch it like a cold. Just because it can't be seen, like you can see a physical wound,…"
Herekittykitty42 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 70s
"Good morning everyone. We're all so young, do you ever get comments like, you're so young, you have a whole other life ahead of you, you can still have kids, stuff like that??? My stepdaughter is 24 and Charles and I…"
Herekittykitty42 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"LuAnn and lorioc42, Charles suffered during his sleep too. He would almost constantly move around, shake his feet, swing his arms, and just toss and turn. He was tortured by nightmares as a child and they returned in greater frequency…"
Herekittykitty42 commented on Herekittykitty42's event Susan
"Thank you Joyce and Carolynne! My love to both of you!"
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Arnie (New Normal) left a comment for Herekittykitty42
"Hi herekittykitty, I am so sorry for your loss yet I am glad you found us. You will find some great help here on the site and the relationships you will build with all of the great people here. We are all on the other side of life now and only we…"
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- At 10:58am on July 11, 2012,
janet said… Happy Birthday. I hope you have a good birthday.
- At 9:47pm on June 3, 2012,
VOLUNTEERSupa Dupa Fresh said… Welcome to our community.... I hope we can keep you company on your journey ahead. Please look around a bit and read this basic introduction to the site. You can find more information about how the community works under "Help!" in the navigation bar, and we'll send you a few newsletters with tips and ideas in the coming weeks. If you need a little more help, go to the Home page and look in the right hand column to see the link to a "Help Desk" form.
We all use the site differently, but we hope you feel comfortable sharing among us in the coming days, weeks, and months.
Big hug!
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- At 10:31pm on May 28, 2012,
Arnie (New Normal) said… Hi herekittykitty,
I am so sorry for your loss yet I am glad you found us. You will find some great help here on the site and the relationships you will build with all of the great people here. We are all on the other side of life now and only we can really understand how you feel. I am on chat quiet often and it is scary and overwhelming at times in the beginning. I would like to offer a bit of assistance when you are ready use the chat room.
1. I always advise you watch for a bit, the room gets busy sometimes and hard to follow at first.
2. You will see some joking and even laughter, you will also see tears and breakdowns. The people here are here to support and be supported by peers.
3. Looking at the chat you will see that the left window has a sliding bar that tells you who is online (they may be on another part of the site though)
4. If you click on a name in the side bar this should open up a private chat or PC as we call it.
5. I f you receive a PC a red # will show under the main lobby with the name and icon of the person it is from or if you sent it to someone
6. Your first entry:
This is hit or miss, it really depends on when you jump in if lots of folks are chatting you can easily get missed. I recommend just saying Hi I am new and give whatever info you want (hi I am Arnie From NJ and today I am 3 months and 3 days out) this way if others are from NJ they may want to know more.
7. BE READY:
Ok once you do go into the lobby be ready as the questions are needed and they are sometimes gentile, sometimes the questions fly at you. Please take your time here as if this is new for you this may open you up emotionally, and it is normal to feel this and from what i am told a needed part of trying to begin to live again.
8. Most people on the chat are women as of now but the men that are involved are very respectful and sometimes fun.
9. Remember almost no one knew each other until they came here.
10. Good luck and I sent you a friend request, lets face it near or far we need support, and with so many from around the world there is almost always someone on.
ALSO using internet explorer is problematic with chat so Firefox appears to be the best..
I hope this long winded letter helps you in the beginning and again SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.
- At 12:11am on May 28, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome Herekittykitty: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I know you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
- At 1:30pm on May 27, 2012,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
I'm so very sorry for your loss, Herekittykitty, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations. I look forward to getting to know you here.
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