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Hopesmom
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Dreams, visits and that kind of stuff

Started this discussion. Last reply by sis Apr 13, 2019. 4 Replies

I have been a widow for almost 15 months. I had really hoped that my husband would visit me, or make his presence known to me. But I have only had a couple of incidents. So I thought I would share…Continue

Dreams, visits and that kind of stuff

Started Apr 10, 2019 0 Replies

I have been a widow for almost 15 months. I had really hoped that my husband would visit me, or make his presence known to me. But I have only had a couple of incidents. So I thought I would share…Continue

relationships after

Started this discussion. Last reply by Callie2 Feb 10, 2019. 4 Replies

I read a post from a member who was just a couple of months out from the loss of her spouse. She was kind of entering into a relationship with a friend of her husband, who is currently divorcing. I…Continue

miscellaneous

Started this discussion. Last reply by DIVA70 Feb 5, 2019. 1 Reply

I love going through the forum and reading the stories. They have helped me so much, and give me a lot to think about. So here's just some of my thoughts. When my husband was first diagnosed and I…Continue

 

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June 15 replied to Hopesmom's discussion Do I exist in the group Widowed in 2018
"I fully understand. I was amazed how many people disappeared from my life. Rebuilding a life seems so hard. I hope you find new friends that can offer support, you deserve it."
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Hopesmom added a discussion to the group Widowed in 2018
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Do I exist

I lost my husband after a short battle with cancer. We found out on December 28th,2017, and he passed on January 21st. 2018. There was no chance for treatment, no chance to even say good bye.Lots of people helped me and my grown children in the first few days. The day after the funeral it's like everyone just disappeared. I'm coming up on 3 years. I'm doing pretty good, considering I navigated all of the financial stuff on my own, done everything by my self. No one was there to offer guidance,…See More
Wednesday
Hopesmom replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Boy, can I relate to what you,re saying. My husband Mike lived about one month from diagnosis of stage 4 cancer to death. He was an amazing person. I begged God to take me instead. I would give up every single thing in the world to have more time…"
Oct 13
Hopesmom replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"I know how you are feeling. My husband died January 2018. We had had a rough couple of years, financially. Lost our house ,everything. After 3 years we were finally able to buy a new house,our forever home. We had our plans and so many dreams.My…"
Oct 11
Hopesmom replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion DATING? in the group Born in the 50s
"I've tried the dating sites. I'm 62 but some of the men I see I just think they're just a bunch of old men. I don't think of myself as being that old I think I must want Ken,Barbie's boyfriend. A guy I can play around with…"
Sep 13
Hopesmom replied to jlsrdh's discussion 2 years today in the group Born in the 50s
"When my husband was ill a friend who is a nurse and a widow told me that after the funeral people would disappear. Our home had always had lots of people there so I didn't think it would happen. Boy, was she ever right! Everyone just vanished.…"
Aug 30
Hopesmom replied to Mike's discussion Dating in the group Born in the 50s
"I'm so thriiled that I get to give you my input. I was very lonely and thought that maybe I was ready to try seeing someone. HAHA. I ended up starting a relationship with a nice enough man. But as time went by, I found that I was very critical…"
Aug 21
Hopesmom replied to Tess's discussion Misery loves company in the group Born in the 50s
"Hi Tess, I can identify with everything you have said. I lost my soulmate on January 21,2018. We had had a rough few years, financially, we had just moved in to our new home. It was a beautiful place, we were finally going to be able to relax and…"
Aug 21
Hopesmom replied to Rainy's discussion Does anyone actively journal?
"Hi Misty, I haven't been on here for a while. I was just checking in today and I kept thinking of you. We have been in this close to the same time. I just wanted to say that I hope that you're doing well. I hope that life is treating you…"
May 14
Hopesmom replied to Jill's discussion A hard question but do you have any regrets about your behavior during your marriage?
"OMG, Cat, I could have written the statement you wrote.I have been riddled with guilt but I know that he loved me so much and he knew that I loved him the same. We always communicated so great throughout our marriage but when he got cancer its as if…"
Feb 20
sis replied to Hopesmom's discussion Dreams, visits and that kind of stuff
"I've had two dreams since my husband passed. The first one was shortly after he passed and I feel it was in answer to my constantly asking him if he was ok. He had spinal problems that affected his legs and he had received surgery about 5…"
Apr 13, 2019
BESTBUDS1 [Norman} replied to Hopesmom's discussion Dreams, visits and that kind of stuff
"Those are normal, in my opinion, they happen more times than not, because most are scared of being called emotional or crazy. They are real.Just as signs are real.Many are awakened Spiritually after losing someone, for me it was before  for…"
Apr 12, 2019
Rainy replied to Hopesmom's discussion Dreams, visits and that kind of stuff
"I've had what I think are dream visits often.  What's even more strange is that my stepdaughter and I have started to compare dreams and within (most of the time) she will have almost the same dream, well at least we have each woke up…"
Apr 12, 2019
Rich replied to Hopesmom's discussion Dreams, visits and that kind of stuff
"Hopesmom: I had a co worker that experienced a hug from her deceased husband when she was awake. She said it was very real, I know her and believe her. I have experienced other types of "occurrences" with my wife. The primary one (which I…"
Apr 11, 2019
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At 7:44am on August 26, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Hopesmom. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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