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Howie gates
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  • Cary, NC
  • United States
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At 11:43am on April 16, 2015, littlelamb said…

i'm glad u became my friend

At 11:58pm on February 28, 2015, Frank said…

You hit the rack early Howie, Lisa and I chatted on till nealy 0200. 

Enjoyed chatting with you and trading the occassional jab. 

Take care & CUL.


At 4:45pm on January 9, 2015, RVLlover said…

Howie, we need you to call for help.  Somethings up, you aren't making sense on here.  Is your son with you?  We are trying to get you some help.

At 7:58am on December 27, 2014, littlelamb said…

janet got real mad and posted what happened-her side-on that Happy towners club site and everyone was agreeing w/her that we should have been in a private chat-Can u believe that! I think that's absurd

At 10:27pm on December 7, 2014, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Howie. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

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Posted on February 26, 2015 at 2:36pm 1 Comment

the day seems good until i wake up the world doesnt seem to welcome me,the morning comes and nothing seems good since you went away,till my eyes shut for the next day to come,i fel death would be a safer and more peacefulplace to go,but the moment my eyes close dreams come and take me away the dreams of you , peace and happy felings we once shared, the warm body and the love we shared,It may only last a few minutes but it gives me strength  for the next day to come,             no matter…



Posted on February 25, 2015 at 3:33pm 0 Comments

we were talking in the main chat room on wv someone was talking about house cleaning,so i had a funny but true story to share, one day my wife asked me to help dust the house ,so me like the ass that i am i go to the tool she crank up the leaf blower go in the house and start dusting , she laughed , but she never asked again for help dusting .

one day

Posted on February 24, 2015 at 7:23pm 1 Comment

if i could have just one more day and wishes did come true , i spend every moment side  by side  with you,,all the tears i shed thinking  of the years we shared and all  memories we made how greatful i would be to have just one more day,  all the thing i would let you know about all of the days we missed together i would have to pretend  you never went away, when that day ends and the sun sets i will let you know i will never forget you , the heart of gold you had when you entered heven will…


something to think about

Posted on February 23, 2015 at 3:42pm 5 Comments

when we take our vows and say ,until death do we part,we are lying to ourselves , death only brings a physical departure , a marrage  and the bond between a husband and a wife makes two people  into one, that means that even when we lose spouse ,we are still left with that special love that burns inside and never dies.that internal love burns on even if our spouse is no longer with us, clinging to that love inside of us even if it can never be physically expressed should carry us and…


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