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IBelieveInYou
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  • Denver, CO
  • United States
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IBelieveInYou commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 60s
"Hi b2, Thank you for your words. Here is a collection that I believe can be attributed to the Buddha. I remind myself each day of what I have and what I have had. My wife was part of me then and she is a part of me now. Of course, I miss her…"
9 hours ago
IBelieveInYou commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 60s
"Dear adoption1964, Generational generalizations are just that, generalizations! You are not a generalization, you are an individual. In a few days, the second year anniversary of my beloved wife's death will be here. You are only 6 months out.…"
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IBelieveInYou commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Hi Frank, what a great post. One of these days I will come up to your place and have coffee with you. "
Oct 3
IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello Evolving, Your story sounds very much like mine. Met my wife on a blind date at age 16. Love at first sight. Together 32 years (25 in marriage) at the time of her sudden and unexpected passing on October 29, 2015. Our children (20 and 24)…"
Sep 20
IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Early on, in the days and weeks after my wife's passing, our daughter created a play list of cafe background noises. This allowed me to sleep."
Sep 18
IBelieveInYou commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 60s
"mls64 - I know. My wife was taken from me suddenly and unexpectedly, however, early in our relationship we talked of these matters. She said, "If I die first, you must marry again because you have so much to give." As you say, those words…"
Sep 3
IBelieveInYou commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 60s
"Hello mls64, thanks for writing about your situation. We are in a similar boat and sadly I have no answers for you. From what you wrote it is clear that you and your wife were in love and even if that is now only a memory, it did happen and it was…"
Sep 3
IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Dear Kat70, my condolences. First off, it is good that you are here. Read what looks interesting and say what you need to say. Each of our stories is different but we share a common bond of what can be unbearable grief. This thing happened so…"
Aug 25
IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello Malgosia, my condolences. I had two hard deaths too - my dad and ten months later my wife of 25 years. It is good that you found us. Read what others say and write when you feel like it. You are early on in this process. Know that you will…"
Aug 9
IBelieveInYou commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Hi Cookie_love, makes sense to me. Thanks for sharing. "
Aug 7
IBelieveInYou commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"You will be strong again. Hang in there and just do the best you can. "
Aug 5
IBelieveInYou commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Hello BJ Libra, I'm sorry for your loss. The first anniversary is tough. I sometimes feel like running too. I wish there were answers. Today would have been my wife and I's 27th wedding anniversary. Like you, I miss my spouse and wonder…"
Aug 4
IBelieveInYou commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Dear WeighAnchor, my condolences. I lost my wife similarly. We were together for 32 years (25 in marriage) and have two young adult children. There are no easy answers to your specific question of how can you live without your beloved husband. This…"
Aug 3
IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Dear Ray, I'm glad that you found us. You are not alone and I hope that is one thing you find on this site. Our individual experiences vary but important commonalities of experience will come through what we say. Feel free to write what you…"
Jul 28
IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi Cristaboo, my condolences. It's good that you are here; I've found this online community to be of great help to me. My wife died suddenly a year and  half ago. It's not the same as your partner's but what you are going…"
Jul 24
IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello TJ1083, It is good that you found this site. The words shared by others and the opportunity for me to say what I want to say has been very helpful to me. My wife and I were together for 32 years (25 in marriage).  When I was 6 months out,…"
Jul 4

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At 3:57pm on December 20, 2015, rodsgurl09 said…

Welcome to Widville. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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