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IBelieveInYou
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  • Denver, CO
  • United States
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IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello Malgosia, my condolences. I had two hard deaths too - my dad and ten months later my wife of 25 years. It is good that you found us. Read what others say and write when you feel like it. You are early on in this process. Know that you will…"
Aug 9
IBelieveInYou commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Hi Cookie_love, makes sense to me. Thanks for sharing. "
Aug 7
IBelieveInYou commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"You will be strong again. Hang in there and just do the best you can. "
Aug 5
IBelieveInYou commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Hello BJ Libra, I'm sorry for your loss. The first anniversary is tough. I sometimes feel like running too. I wish there were answers. Today would have been my wife and I's 27th wedding anniversary. Like you, I miss my spouse and wonder…"
Aug 4
IBelieveInYou commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Dear WeighAnchor, my condolences. I lost my wife similarly. We were together for 32 years (25 in marriage) and have two young adult children. There are no easy answers to your specific question of how can you live without your beloved husband. This…"
Aug 3
IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Dear Ray, I'm glad that you found us. You are not alone and I hope that is one thing you find on this site. Our individual experiences vary but important commonalities of experience will come through what we say. Feel free to write what you…"
Jul 28
IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi Cristaboo, my condolences. It's good that you are here; I've found this online community to be of great help to me. My wife died suddenly a year and  half ago. It's not the same as your partner's but what you are going…"
Jul 24
IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello TJ1083, It is good that you found this site. The words shared by others and the opportunity for me to say what I want to say has been very helpful to me. My wife and I were together for 32 years (25 in marriage).  When I was 6 months out,…"
Jul 4
IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Friends, I ran across a blog post from someone not known personally to me but who was recommended to me by a friend. It concerns grief and I found it helpful. http://www.freckled-fox.com/2017/05/and-still-we-rise.html"
May 5
IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Dear debbiejerry1, like you, I lost my spouse (Tam) after having been together since we were young. It was sudden, unexpected and awful. After more than a year and half, I still cry and get pretty down. Reading the stories from others who have been…"
May 5
IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi Barry, It is good that you found us. Your words touched me deeply today. Thank you."
May 2
IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Averysmom, what you are feeling is totally normal (and of course terrible). My brother, who was also a widower, said it this way:  A couple is more than just two, there are the two but there is also a third entity, the relationship. What I…"
Apr 24
IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Dear Listen, It is good that you found us; bad that you had too. Your grief is very new and what you are feeling is totally normal and reasonable. I'm at 1.5 years since the passing of my young wife (she was 50). It still hurts and I still get…"
Apr 20
IBelieveInYou commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Hi KMA - Yes. I've noticed that too. People think after a year you should start getting over it. They have no idea. There are many days I just don't want to do anything but sit and stare out the window. Spring is hard for me because my…"
Apr 16
IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello Dianthus, This is a good place to be - though it is sad that we are here. My wife died in October of 2015 from heart failure. It was sudden and unexpected. Read our stories and contribute when you can. Some of the peace I've found since…"
Apr 15
IBelieveInYou replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Our honeymoon was idyllic. Spent time in London, Windsor Glastonbury, Bath, the Cotswolds, Canterbury, Dover, and Worthing. We had a great life together and I miss her everyday. I'm always thankful for her. I talk to her and appreciate all the…"
Apr 12

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At 3:57pm on December 20, 2015, rodsgurl09 said…

Welcome to Widville. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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