"Hi b2, Thank you for your words. Here is a collection that I believe can be attributed to the Buddha. I remind myself each day of what I have and what I have had. My wife was part of me then and she is a part of me now. Of course, I miss her…"
Generational generalizations are just that, generalizations! You are not a generalization, you are an individual. In a few days, the second year anniversary of my beloved wife's death will be here. You are only 6 months out.…"
"Hello Evolving, Your story sounds very much like mine. Met my wife on a blind date at age 16. Love at first sight. Together 32 years (25 in marriage) at the time of her sudden and unexpected passing on October 29, 2015. Our children (20 and 24)…"
"mls64 - I know. My wife was taken from me suddenly and unexpectedly, however, early in our relationship we talked of these matters. She said, "If I die first, you must marry again because you have so much to give." As you say, those words…"
"Hello mls64, thanks for writing about your situation. We are in a similar boat and sadly I have no answers for you. From what you wrote it is clear that you and your wife were in love and even if that is now only a memory, it did happen and it was…"
"Dear Kat70, my condolences. First off, it is good that you are here. Read what looks interesting and say what you need to say. Each of our stories is different but we share a common bond of what can be unbearable grief. This thing happened so…"
"Hello Malgosia, my condolences. I had two hard deaths too - my dad and ten months later my wife of 25 years. It is good that you found us. Read what others say and write when you feel like it. You are early on in this process. Know that you will…"
"Hello BJ Libra, I'm sorry for your loss. The first anniversary is tough. I sometimes feel like running too. I wish there were answers. Today would have been my wife and I's 27th wedding anniversary. Like you, I miss my spouse and wonder…"
"Dear WeighAnchor, my condolences. I lost my wife similarly. We were together for 32 years (25 in marriage) and have two young adult children. There are no easy answers to your specific question of how can you live without your beloved husband. This…"
"Dear Ray, I'm glad that you found us. You are not alone and I hope that is one thing you find on this site. Our individual experiences vary but important commonalities of experience will come through what we say. Feel free to write what you…"
"Hi Cristaboo, my condolences. It's good that you are here; I've found this online community to be of great help to me. My wife died suddenly a year and half ago. It's not the same as your partner's but what you are going…"
"Hello TJ1083, It is good that you found this site. The words shared by others and the opportunity for me to say what I want to say has been very helpful to me. My wife and I were together for 32 years (25 in marriage).
When I was 6 months out,…"
Welcome to Widville. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.
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