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Imogen
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  • Alberta
  • Canada
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Introduction

Started this discussion. Last reply by Imogen Mar 18. 2 Replies

HelloMy name is Imogen.  My experience was:  A normal weekend, he played golf, help build a friend's fence & did some yard work.  Monday morning at 5:15am he woke me up & said it hurt too…Continue

Stupid People

Started this discussion. Last reply by Alone 23 hours ago. 39 Replies

HelloSince Doug died & people said so many stupid things to me, I always wanted to have a page where people who were left behind, could share the unbelievable stupid things said to them.1)  The…Continue

 

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Alone replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"Thank you Imogen xxx I'm finding this aloneness hard too. It's a Saturday night here just my dogs and me sitting in here trying to watch things on line with no interest in anything. All the songs on the radio seem sad and remind me of…"
23 hours ago
lisa72 replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"I know, they are all insane! I had the same thing. People told me I was lucky he died and we didn't divorce. My husband and I had both been divorced before. I told them that they were full of shit! When you get divorced you have chosen it. When…"
yesterday
Imogen replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"Menufalls:  I didn't even list them all just the top 5 or whatever.  At the beginning I was basically speechless, but I also felt I couldn't' say anything back as I needed friends. I felt like I just had to put up being…"
yesterday
Imogen replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"Alone:  I wish I was there to give you a hug.  I remember at that time I just wished so bad (& asked people) to just come over & watch TV with me.  The aloneness is so hard.  I will be praying for you. How can someone ask…"
yesterday
Imogen replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"WOW!!!People just never cease to amaze. Our society is so cold & stupid.  When one of their loves ones dies I always think, I hope you encounter nicer people than I did."
yesterday
DanielinFlorida replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"Hi, I have heard all this idiotic crap also. My wife was my only reason to live. We were married for 31 years. If you want to someone to talk to who knows what this feels like, you can call me on 561 894 7997 Daniel"
Wednesday
SpringLight replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"When I read your post, it reminded me of a collection of real responses, both negative and positive, I recorded for myself a year and a half after my husband's death as a coping strategy. When I first experienced the insensitive remarks, all…"
Wednesday
Dianthus0625 replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"A warm hug to you from my place in Manitoba Canada."
Wednesday
Alone replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"You're so right Dianthus I'd never thought of that before. Sending a warm hug from my little corner of the UK xxx"
Tuesday
Callie2 replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"Don't people think before they speak anymore? What an insensitive remark. You should have barfed on her."
Tuesday
Dianthus0625 replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"Wow! Palpitations yes! Me too! I think it's the total wrongness of such words that give us the " fight or flee response" palpitations. Thank you for the compliment."
Tuesday
Alone replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"Well said that's exactly what it is Dianthus a cataclysmic loss. Neighbour near by last week said to me as walked past. Oh we were sorry to hear about Steve but he was a workaholic wasn't he! NO he wasn't we had no choice but to work…"
Tuesday
Dianthus0625 replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"Sometimes it's the people from whom you would expect help that say the worst things. Shortly after my husband of 30 years passed I was talking to my sister. Like many couples we had our problems but had come to a place of comfort and total…"
Tuesday
SweetMelissa2007 replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"I thought of this thread today when I was reminded of a woman who said to me, "That poor boy will have to live w/it the rest of his life. I'll pray for him to heal"  This was in response to telling her ìt was 3 months…"
Tuesday
Alone replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"Imogen I feel for you people can be so insensitive and downright cruel, thoughtless or plain stupid. I'm just 6 weeks into trying to exist without my husband who died suddenly, I've been dreading this Easter holiday. I walked my dogs…"
Monday
Imogen replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"Wow.  I am just sitting here shaking my head. I never asked why Doug died.  But when it comes to these obnoxious, selfish people I think why, why, why. I get equally mad at the people who give them an excuse.  "Oh they meant…"
Apr 16

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At 9:01pm on March 13, 2017, going.on.slowly said…
Just a quick hello from a fellow Widow and Canadian. How are things going?
At 12:29pm on October 7, 2016, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Imogen. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

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Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

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