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Imogen
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  • Alberta
  • Canada
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Imogen's Discussions

Introduction

Started this discussion. Last reply by Imogen May 14. 7 Replies

HelloMy name is Imogen.  My experience was:  A normal weekend, he played golf, help build a friend's fence & did some yard work.  Monday morning at 5:15am he woke me up & said it hurt too…Continue

Stupid People

Started this discussion. Last reply by MPMom (Colleen) May 17. 58 Replies

HelloSince Doug died & people said so many stupid things to me, I always wanted to have a page where people who were left behind, could share the unbelievable stupid things said to them.1)  The…Continue

 

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Imogen replied to ByHisGrace08's discussion Young Widow/Widower (YWW) with no Kids
"John you made me smile.  After Doug died I sat my pets down & explained they now had to help out, no more freeloading.  No one cared. I talk to them all the time, even outside.  I don't care anymore. I was going to learn…"
Aug 8
Imogen replied to ByHisGrace08's discussion Young Widow/Widower (YWW) with no Kids
"I totally get the in the middle thing.  I was 49 when Doug died.  8 months later I am 50 & according to the world "old"  I don't feel old.  I went to a bereavement group of mostly people over 65 & kept…"
Aug 8
Imogen replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion When did you remove your wedding rings?
"Great idea.  I keep thinking I should do that.  Is it expensive?"
Aug 5
Imogen replied to BJ Libra's discussion what's the meaning of life......
"I am a christian so........... I believe we are put on this earth to worship God & tell other s about him.  The bible says He already knows before we are born what it going to happen to us.Them I become baffled because I have always…"
Aug 5
Imogen replied to ByHisGrace08's discussion Young Widow/Widower (YWW) with no Kids
"I am so surprised there isn't more entries to this post. I guess it goes to show just how lonely we truly are.  I've heard that from so many people.  We can't be around other's husbands as we will attack them or…"
Jul 26
Imogen replied to desare's discussion what to say to people who tell you how to handle things.IM STUCK.
"I got so fed up with people telling me what to do, especially the ones who haven't been through a spouse dying.  My parents called and told me what to do early on.  I replied "When one of you die the other can pitch in, until…"
Jul 25
Imogen replied to Nieta's discussion Singled Out by the Travel Industry!
"I think it would have been easier on a tour trip.  I still would have had my own room but maybe I would have made a friend on the tour.  Half way through the second week I was just done.  Tired of being alone.  Tired of having no…"
Jul 25
Imogen replied to debbiejerry1's discussion Party of One
"I am so tired of being alone.  Tired of handling all the challenges alone, the garage door broke last week, the lawn mower broke on the weekend.   Last week took a road trip me & my two dogs.  Thank God for them.  I gave up…"
Jul 25
Imogen replied to Nieta's discussion Singled Out by the Travel Industry!
"The year after Doug died I did not want to here for the "anniversary"  so I planned a trip to the UK a week in Edinburgh & a week in London.  I didn't do a tour or anything just every day did my own thing.  I…"
Jul 25
Imogen replied to Nieta's discussion Singled Out by the Travel Industry!
"I totally agree.  I travel with my dogs & Canada has caught on to this new huge part of hotel business.  Another way to suck us dry.  I have only my two dogs to travel with.  They charge up $150.00 deposit if the dig wrecks…"
Jul 23
Imogen replied to soul's discussion Overwhelmed ...
"I feel so awful for for you.  Those first weeks/months are so terrible.  There were times I truly wished I could have willed myself to stop breathing.  I was able to see a counselor through the work employee program.  They paid…"
Jul 4
Imogen commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2013
"I am so depressed today.  Seems every one is happily celebrating Canada day with their family & I just feel so alone.  Some days I admit I feel OK, more Ok days lately than 2 years ago.  But today is just a crap day all around"
Jul 1
Imogen replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion CANADA in the group Connect with others in your area
"I am in Edmonton too."
Jul 1
Imogen replied to desare's discussion i just dont know what to do
"Today is Canada Day & everyone is celebrating, having friends over.  I took my dogs to off leash, felt so alone as most were couples.  Came home to having to paint door frames that are peeling so bad I should have done it last year.…"
Jul 1
Imogen replied to desare's discussion i just dont know what to do
"evadiva, I get what you are saying.  Amazing how a show we watched together, now is just not interesting. Like you we were home bodies, both working full time & Doug too much overtime, he was too drained to do anything. I too feel young, I…"
Jun 28
Imogen replied to desare's discussion i just dont know what to do
"I know what you mean. I have benzene so busy for weeks. This week Monday and Tuesday nothing planned and I am at a lose. I just go to my to do list and do two these a day. Somehow to make it seem like I have a purpose. I'd rather been the dad…"
Jun 27

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At 1:04pm on April 26, 2017, Alone said…
Thank you for the friend request Imogen I appreciate that. Gentle hug from me to you xxx
At 9:01pm on March 13, 2017, going.on.slowly said…
Just a quick hello from a fellow Widow and Canadian. How are things going?
At 12:29pm on October 7, 2016, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Imogen. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.

Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

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