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Started this discussion. Last reply by Imogen May 14. 7 Replies

HelloMy name is Imogen.  My experience was:  A normal weekend, he played golf, help build a friend's fence & did some yard work.  Monday morning at 5:15am he woke me up & said it hurt too…Continue

Stupid People

Started this discussion. Last reply by MPMom (Colleen) May 17. 58 Replies

HelloSince Doug died & people said so many stupid things to me, I always wanted to have a page where people who were left behind, could share the unbelievable stupid things said to them.1)  The…Continue


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MPMom (Colleen) replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
""Someone else must have needed him more." This was said to me within the first 1-2 weeks.   Bullshit.  Who could possibly need him more than his wife and especially his two kids."
May 17
happylilycat replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"Ali, I am so sorry for your loss. It sounds like you lived through a nightmare, and I guess we should all give ourselves credit for doing that, somehow. One of my brothers said something really awful about my husband at our Thanksgiving dinner, and…"
May 17
AEDforever (Ali) replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"Jesus Christ, people are seriously self absorbed.  I know, I had many of these "stupid" comments, and I would even go so far as to say "narcissistic" comments.  At 2 months, my brother said "Really, you just have…"
May 16
Imogen replied to jrval's discussion Life Changes. (But things do get better.)
"Danielle I really feel for you.  That is a lot to have to do on your own.  I hope you have friends in the US & Australia to help you manage everything. "
May 16
Imogen replied to Rich's discussion What's the point?
"i can't agree more that God killed the wrong one.  Doug had friends, out going, loved sports, watching & participating.  But life always worked out for Doug.  Everything he tried he was good at.  Before he died, I…"
May 16
Imogen replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion MAY Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"May5 should have been our 33rd anniversary.  May 21 will  be my 4th year alone without Doug.   My sister & father's birthday is in May, along with of course Mother's day.  None of them understand that I just…"
May 16
Imogen replied to Imogen's discussion Introduction
"Thank you, hugs to you today as well."
May 14
Lupe's husband replied to Imogen's discussion Introduction
May 14
Imogen replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"I hope these people go home and beat themselves up for days.  I pray they don't say it & forget.  "
May 13
Imogen replied to Anna's discussion Early morning sadness
"Yes, so hard to get going in the mornings.  Good for you walking 2 hours.  Some days takes hours just to get dressed.  for some reason only the evenings are tolerable, not sure why as I am by myself all day.  Well, with my pets.…"
May 13
Imogen replied to Rich's discussion What's the point?
"I so agree.  May 21 will be 4 years since i was left alone.  I haven't vacuumed for a while now, because, "What's the point"  People who believe we are here for a reason i don't understand.  \we are here…"
May 13
Imogen replied to Imogen's discussion Introduction
"Since Doug died in May I find myself remembering all the awful things. Doug's family partying in my house, my Yorkie so scared of all the noise i scooped her up & the neighbours whom I had never met, took us in for the evening.  it was…"
May 13
Imogen replied to Pauline 's discussion Hi I'm new just working out where to go
"Welcome to the site.  I hope you find it helpful"
May 13
Callie2 replied to Imogen's discussion Introduction
"Imogen, That is inexcusable. You should have been told immediately. There does seem to be a degree of coldness or aloofness, especially in ER's. When my husband was pronounced, the head nurse spoke to me briefly. She was compassionate but I had…"
May 10
Sissy replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"Talk about tactless :-( "
May 9
Patience (Diane) replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"Oh my word... some people are beyond clueless, stupid and callous... I'm so sorry ..."
May 9

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At 1:04pm on April 26, 2017, Alone said…
Thank you for the friend request Imogen I appreciate that. Gentle hug from me to you xxx
At 9:01pm on March 13, 2017, going.on.slowly said…
Just a quick hello from a fellow Widow and Canadian. How are things going?
At 12:29pm on October 7, 2016, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Imogen. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.

Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

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