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Is anyone a Marianne Williamson fan?

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I know she doesn't resonate with all people. I heard her speak in person a few years ago, in an open forum, nothing scripted. I've been on her email list but never participated in any of her events.…Continue

Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Patience (Diane) on Thursday. 17 Replies

I'm telling myself, "it's only been 2 months and you were married 47 years, loved him for 49" so as other people tell me, it's all so raw. First, that word RAW is awful although I better understand…Continue

Maybe you have a book suggestion for new wid? Is one enough?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Susan Nov 5. 10 Replies

Intuitively I knew there was something not right for me with the five stages of grieving. Come to find out in a book I am NOW reading (it was just released) the reason there is such a disconnect for…Continue

 

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Patience (Diane) replied to InsideLove's discussion Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?
"Thank you, Frank!"
Thursday
Patience (Diane) replied to InsideLove's discussion Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?
"Susan, yes, I'm going to check this out as well!"
Thursday
Patience (Diane) replied to InsideLove's discussion Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?
"InsideLove, at my late husband's services, a good friend gave me a crocheted blanket. It's very soft and very comfy.  Just wrapping it around myself calms me down. I imagine an Anxiety Blanket would take this a step further. Sounds…"
Thursday
Susan replied to InsideLove's discussion Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?
"Hi Frank,    One of my problems is, I keep forgetting that I'm no longer working and there is no one for me to take care of. I keep thinking I have to hurry up for SOMETHING, but what?  Then I remember. Susan"
Wednesday
Frank replied to InsideLove's discussion Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?
"Hi, Thank You, and you are welcome.  I hope what I've done in a similar situation will at least give you something to start from. I lost both of my parents several years ago.  My mother died of Cancer and a year later very nearly to…"
Wednesday
Susan replied to InsideLove's discussion Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?
"Thank You InsideLove!  I'll check that out on Amazon :-) Susan"
Wednesday
Susan replied to InsideLove's discussion Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?
"Hi!    I too journal. I like to read my journals from last year while Paul was in and out of hospitals. It shows me what we both went through, what he alone went through, and what I hopefully helped him with.   Susan"
Wednesday
InsideLove replied to InsideLove's discussion Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?
"Thank you, Frank. This advice you got from somewhere here sounds worth trying. I experiment with everything that feels like even a remote fit and possible help. I love journaling - I've been doing this for about a month after Marty died -…"
Wednesday
InsideLove replied to InsideLove's discussion Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?
"Susan, anxiety blanket also is called - gravity blanket or weighted blanket. Choose the weight and size best for your body size. I bout Sensory Goods brand at Amazon and the company has been terrific - I always have a lot more questions for…"
Wednesday
Frank replied to InsideLove's discussion Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?
"Hi InsideLove, I understand your feelings and its because I've been there.  My wife Susan was in a facility where she was recovering from a kidney rejection.  I visited her on Saturday, and we spoke on the phone on Sunday. …"
Wednesday
Susan replied to InsideLove's discussion Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?
"Dear Inside Love,    I've not heard of an Anxiety Blanket before. I'll check it out. Maybe It will help me. Take Care :-) Susan"
Wednesday
InsideLove replied to InsideLove's discussion Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?
"I find myself sobbing uncontrollably a few minutes after I am up and out of bed. I head to the kitchen, make coffee and my mind won't slow down (like yours at night) because morning was Marty and my second favorite time together, enjoying a…"
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Susan replied to InsideLove's discussion Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?
"Inside Love,     When I go to bed, It's hard to fall alseep. Too quiet. And my mind won't slow down so I can sleep. But in the morning I'm never sure of what to do. Susan"
Tuesday
InsideLove replied to InsideLove's discussion Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?
"adoption1964, eases up. That's the sense of what I can hope and pray for because, I cannot wrap my head around this really "getting better." Thanks. And thanks for offering to contact you. Much appreciated."
Monday
InsideLove replied to InsideLove's discussion Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?
"sandi, I'm going to pray this missing him gets easier. I'm not sure I can believe that, although it's more believable than better."
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At 6:31am on November 9, 2017, NancyD said…

Yup, that's me!

At 7:18pm on October 14, 2017, judy said…

Hi InsideLove,

Welcome to Widowed Village. I am very sorry for your loss, but happy that you found us. You will find caring, loving support and friendship here.

 

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