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Posted on September 30, 2014 at 8:45pm 1 Comment

My days are haunted. Hell my nights are too. I am living within the ghost of a life that can never be. Waiting on a future that has already become my past. On the outside it appears that I have accepted my fate and that I am moving on in life. The best place to hide is in the midst of everyone else's chaos. The second hand keeps ticking ahead for everyone else, slowly bringing them into the future but my clock is busted. The second hand twitches almost as if it…


Feeling kinda down again today so I thought I'd share my thoughts

Posted on March 16, 2014 at 12:00am 6 Comments

    I don't know where to begin or how to just open up and talk to anyone about what has happened to me. This is a deeply personal time and it drains every bit of strength I have in me just to speak the words that hes gone. Yet I have had to say them over and again. They could be in a response to a question or just in my mind. I still struggle to accept what has happened. Don't get me wrong, my mind knows but my stubborn heart keeps telling me he is still here. There is a part of me…


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At 4:51pm on March 24, 2014, Leslie said…

Cute Baby!

At 8:15pm on March 18, 2014, vonex said…

Hi Jesotto... i hope to know you more... your husband and mine gone suddenly, leaving us unborn baby... it was to hard for me... and until now struggling to accept it... what you feel, what you think, what you do... exactly the same with me....

At 5:35pm on March 13, 2014, rodsgurl09 said…

Jesotto, I'm so sorry for your loss, but glad you've found us here at Widowed Village.  A good place to start is the Groups; you will find others with circumstances similar to your own. The Forums offer discussion on a variety of topics that might interest you. And the Chat room is a great source of real time support. Links to all three can be found at the top of your page. I hope you will find the same comfort and strength here that i have. Welcome. 


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