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At 5:56pm on June 23, 2019, laurajay said…

drop a line  and let me know  how you are doing  with the  old folks  in  Co.    thinking  of  you  wondering  how your summer  is going...  laurajay

At 3:11pm on June 25, 2016, Don said…

Hi Jim;  Try    I have met some very fine people that way.   The big problem for me is that most of them are in the Bay Area and hate to move.       Colorado may have the person you seek.   Most ladies there tend to like the outdoor  activities.      If you ski,  the chances of meeting healthy ladies tends to be better.    If you don't ski but would like to, take a lesson at Keystone Ski Area.    You might meet someone in the class.    

Best of luck,


At 3:17pm on November 22, 2015, Hornet (Cindy) said…

Hello, Jim. So good to hear from you. You know, I read in one of your posts that you were a minister. How wonderful! You know what I mean, then, when I talk about remembering the 'whole' person...the 'whole' life. It is the whole that matters, Jim. Not one day...and certainly not the last day. In fact, for me, the last day is the least important of all the days God gave me with Rick. If Our Heavenly Father judges us on the products of our 'whole' life, why wouldn't we view each other that way? (Without the judgment part, of know, living in glass houses while throwing rocks, and all that!) What really matters is all that Rick taught me about love and forgiveness, tenderness and strength, laughter and life. Too many lessons to mention. Each day away from the trauma of losing him has made my sight clearer on my 'whole' life with him...on the lessons that matter more than those I learned the day I lost him. I hope you begin to see that soon, Jim. This isn't where you and I and everyone else here wanted to be, but here we are. And Rick and your lovely wife are Home, and loved, and cherished, and happy like they never could have imagined! That comforts me above all know the One who made such a lovely man as my Rick is holding him in His loving arms right now. Have a peaceful evening, Jim.

At 1:51pm on November 21, 2015, Callie2 said…
Jim, you never have to worry about that here at least as far as I am concerned. Glad to read you are seeking counseling--I benefited greatly by attending a support group. I learned from them what to expect during the grief process and that my feelings were much of the same as many others there. Had a lot of that reliving of that day but when you lose someone suddenly, I think we tend to blame ourselves or question ourselves as to if we did all we could do and if we would have done X,Y, or Z, that perhaps, they would still be here. Once I began to believe that I did my best and that it was his illness that took him and that death was the result of his illness, the thoughts and flashbacks slowly ended. You're going to be OK, Jim. Callie
At 5:35am on November 21, 2015, Hornet (Cindy) said…

Hello, Jim. I was so glad to see your invitation to 'friend'. This site is the one place you can count on to have someone who understands the heart ache you feel (usually, there are many, many 'someones'!) It has helped me so much through the last 2+ years, I cannot describe it. I hope you find the light you need here as well, Jim.

At 8:57am on November 15, 2015, Hornet (Cindy) said…

Hello, Jim...Cindy here. I want you to know that you must have made a great impression on Hope...she is worried about you and thought a post I recently made may help you. I certainly hope so.

I lost my husband, my Rick, of 32 years in 2013...suddenly...unexpectedly. He was 56 years old.

This road is so very dark, isn't it?

Jim, if you have a mind to, go to 'Widowed in 2015' and read the 2 posts I put up today.

I so hope it helps you think of your beloved wife, and all you had with her, and all that she was, and what you have gone through in a different a full way.

God bless you, Jim.

At 8:45pm on November 4, 2015, Dark Rose said…

Thank YOU, for being a good listener. I hope we can help one another as we travel on this hard, unwanted journey.

Chat soon!

At 12:19pm on October 29, 2015, MFARM said…
Hello Jim, Thank you for the friend request. I'm sure God did not cause your wonderful wife to die. I bet he welcomed her though. He just has more jobs for us to do. I know I have been involved in helping people since my husband died that I would not have dreamed of knowing previously. You'll find your stride too when the worst calms down.
At 12:53pm on October 22, 2015, Callie2 said…
Hi Jim,
Thank-you for the friend request, we are now friends! Callie
At 8:26am on October 20, 2015, Ma-Bie said…
Hi Jim, I hope you are well. Receive greetings and best wishes.

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