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Julie
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  • Archer, FL
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Lisa_says replied to Julie's discussion Anxiety/panic attacks in the group Widowed in 2018
"I lost my husband to cancer almost 7 months ago and have now started having panic attacks. Not easy dealing with the loss, sadness, grief, and now panic attacks."
Jun 19
Mrs Bear replied to Julie's discussion Anxiety/panic attacks in the group Widowed in 2018
"We get you.  We're going through it as well.  Never got attacks before losing Bill.  Stopping and breathing helps.  I always say what would he say to comfort me now. "
May 22
Pegasus commented on Julie's blog post Trying to find my way,
"My husband died July 10, 2018.  After a week of tests in the hospital; I was told to take him home because he had 10 days to live.  Inoperable hole in his colon and colon cancer.  He held on for 42 days, dying on our daughter's…"
May 11
KJPE replied to Julie's discussion Anxiety/panic attacks in the group Widowed in 2018
"Thanks for being on this site.  I turn here often for validation, support, commiseration..."
Apr 30
Julie commented on Marina's blog post Easier? Not yet...
"Trying to find my way i am lost as well. I don’t want to be in thus state of pain but it comes from love of our spouses. How do u close off 44 years. They were not all blissful years but we made it through tough times. There is no one to share…"
Apr 30
Julie replied to Julie's discussion Anxiety/panic attacks in the group Widowed in 2018
"I started seeing someone last week. I will continue. It does help to have some one non judgmental  Listen to your story. She is a great listener and is very positive. What I need right now. Thank you  for helping. All these suggestions…"
Apr 29
KJPE replied to Julie's discussion Anxiety/panic attacks in the group Widowed in 2018
"If the tea helps, fabulous.  If not, I find counseling is golden for everything.  Even if I don't have much to talk about, just knowing that appt. is there helps me."
Apr 29
Lookin' Up replied to Julie's discussion Anxiety/panic attacks in the group Widowed in 2018
"Hi Julie,  I got your reply.  -Mary"
Apr 29
Julie replied to Julie's discussion Anxiety/panic attacks in the group Widowed in 2018
"I want to send the above comment. I hope it went through. Julie"
Apr 29
Julie replied to Julie's discussion Anxiety/panic attacks in the group Widowed in 2018
"Thank you. I will ask my Doctor. I have appt next week. Mine started also when my husband got sick.but I was able to control it better cause he was here to  help me through it. I am just kind of like a fish out of water. I do the breathing…"
Apr 29
Lookin' Up replied to Julie's discussion Anxiety/panic attacks in the group Widowed in 2018
"Hi Julie, I started my panic attacks during the year prior to my hubby Bill's death.  I was his caregiver.  My doctor gave me a list of soothing herbal teas to help with them.  I chose Lemon Balm Tea.  Got it on…"
Apr 29
Julie added a discussion to the group Widowed in 2018
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Anxiety/panic attacks

i have been having panic attacks out of no where. Any advise on this subject? It is not fun at all. JulieSee More
Apr 29
Julie commented on Don's blog post i got some great news recently, and I can't be happy about it.
"My son and daughter in law told me they were expecting a month or two after my husband died. I was happy for them but so sad as well, that my husband  would not experience his first grand son, seems so unfair. I cried when I was by myself. I…"
Apr 26
Cindy commented on Julie's blog post Trying to find my way,
"Lost my love on July 23, 2018. Yesterday was 9 months and all I could do was think of how much I miss him. I wonder if I will ever stop hurting. I cry most days and just can’t find joy in anything. I’ve gone to  grief share, a…"
Apr 24
Julie commented on Julie's blog post Trying to find my way,
"Not sure if I’m doing this right. I tried to send something yesterday but I not sure if it went through. Maybe someone can help me. Julie"
Apr 19
Anna commented on Julie's blog post Trying to find my way,
"Hugs. You are right where you need to be. It is what it is and there is no rushing this."
Apr 18

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Trying to find my way,

Posted on April 16, 2019 at 4:36pm 4 Comments

Husband died July 11, 2019 At this point in time, I still cry a lot and feel scared of what’s ahead. Others think we should have moved on at this point. Little do they know, that there is no moving on but moving through. It is a long process and I have accepted this. No easy way, no easy answers. Just taking baby steps so to speak. Read all I can to heal. Have several wonderful books to carry me through and my church. Just checking in to say hi and you are all in my thoughts. I know what it…

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At 10:37am on March 4, 2019, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Julie. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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