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Do you think you’ll get married again?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Athena53 Aug 4. 34 Replies

My husband passed last month and I’ve been asked several times already ... even by my psychiatrist. My answer has been “No”.  It’s not that I’m against it but more that marriage is a forever thing…Continue

Yesterday was a bad day

Started this discussion. Last reply by pricytapestry Jun 17. 4 Replies

It was Father’s Day, the first fatherless one for my son. He’s 8 years old. I hurt for him and myself. Even though I just wanted to stay in bed, I reminded myself a journey starts with a step. So I…Continue

 

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Athena53 replied to JustLynn's discussion Do you think you’ll get married again?
"EDC, thanks for your honesty about this- but I can't believe that only one month after Lisa's death you were already getting the question of whether you planned to date again! I also lost my husband after an extended illness (acute…"
Aug 4
TheEDCZone replied to JustLynn's discussion Do you think you’ll get married again?
"Hi JustLynn,My wife Lisa of 22 years passed on the 24th Jan 2019 to Stage 4 Breast Cancer and Metitastic Brain Tumours, a month after she passed I was asked if I would date again, I didn't know what to say other than I haven't thought…"
Aug 4
Mrs.Linda replied to JustLynn's discussion Do you think you’ll get married again?
"I visit a senior home and almost every widow wears her wedding rings. My widowed Aunts wear theirs.  I was wearing both mine and Dan's but now I am just wearing a small silver band. I married once and it was for life---even after his is…"
Jul 26
Lisa_says replied to JustLynn's discussion Do you think you’ll get married again?
"It's only been 7 months since my husband passed.  I was his caregiver for 9 years (brain cancer) I can't see myself going through that care giver process again. Too painful emotionally. Chances for me remarrying are NONE .  I…"
Jul 25
setlib replied to JustLynn's discussion Do you think you’ll get married again?
"DeeDee there's a thread over on the "ladies only" discussion board that sort of addresses this, you might find that interesting."
Jul 24
Dee1960 replied to JustLynn's discussion Do you think you’ll get married again?
"Lynn, I think that is the most insensitive thing I ever heard anyone say to a recent widow, OMG, it's only been a month!  You are still grieving, heck, you're not even through that first round of "numbness" after a death…"
Jul 24
Daisyluv replied to JustLynn's discussion Do you think you’ll get married again?
"No. I think about it sometimes but it would not be what would really want and that’s to have the love I had with my husband. I’m happy for those that can find love again. I go back and forth wether I would want to look for someone or not…"
Jul 24
J in Florida replied to JustLynn's discussion Do you think you’ll get married again?
"It's been over a year, and I can't even think of dating, let alone marrying. I miss my boo, and I still kind of feel like it would be cheating, even though I know and understand that it's not. I've been married twice, first one…"
Jul 24
DeeDee replied to JustLynn's discussion Do you think you’ll get married again?
"Hi All I don't know about marriage but I am so lonely and I crave touch.  I'm not talking about sex but just simple, sweet touch.  I'm trying to date after a year and a half but it's just so confusing and not the…"
Jul 24
chef (John) replied to JustLynn's discussion Do you think you’ll get married again?
"I'd say that the needle is in the area between "Slim" and "No Chance"."
Jul 10
goingon (Cynthia) replied to JustLynn's discussion Do you think you’ll get married again?
"It's okay to be "picky".  After all, this is regarding someone you would presumable spend the rest of your life with.  As for you children needing a female influence, well, maybe, but I doubt they are not around other women…"
Jul 10
goingon (Cynthia) replied to JustLynn's discussion Do you think you’ll get married again?
"Never.  For a while I thought I wanted to date, but I didn't.  There will never be anyone like Don, and I don't want to go through everything that it takes to build a relationship like we had.  I can't see myself with…"
Jul 10
Mary H replied to JustLynn's discussion Do you think you’ll get married again?
"What is the trend you see?"
Jul 10
chef (John) replied to JustLynn's discussion Do you think you’ll get married again?
"I hear you on "picky", grover! :-) [That's how my mother described me--in fact, too picky--when I refused to even telephone the woman she had wanted me to marry.] Here's to your success! Speaking for myself, I am just over a week…"
Jul 10
grover71780 replied to JustLynn's discussion Do you think you’ll get married again?
"A week after my wife past away I went to church and the pastor both gave me condolence and told me how my kids needed a "female influence". I was was still too numb to give a full reaction but was still shocked inside. Having said that,…"
Jul 9
SweetMelissa2007 replied to JustLynn's discussion Do you think you’ll get married again?
"Hi Michele,I get where you are coming from at 3.5 years out ...The circumstances of widowhood are a separate issue as well as easier to accept when unaware of a widowed spouse's pre-occupation w/grief & their late spouse ...I was prompted…"
Jul 9

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At 11:52am on June 13, 2019, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, JustLynm. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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