I know what you mean about Christmas not meaning much.it's been 18months 2nd Christmas but I still haven't decorated for Christmas I just go to my daughter's for a day we all exchange gifts and try to do the best we can. When I get home my two dogs sit with me but thats my life now no cuddling no kisses no hugging. I have no grandkids to enjoy so yes Christmas doesn't mean much. I hope you can have some happiness.
Hi! I am new here but noticed we belong to the same 3 groups. I have been reading some of your comments and I want you to know, I feel the same way you do. I have no purpose here anymore. I just want to be with my husband who died suddenly and unexpectedly Thanksgiving day. I sit in my house and only go out when necessary. It has been 6 months now. I thought things were supposed to get better, but for me they are getting worse. Wanted you to know, you are not alone. I am hoping this site can help me. Seems I am sinking deeper into depression. If you ever want to talk, I am here!
I am also in that mode too, I have been getting things in order and also not wanting to buy anything expensive. Funny how all those things you just had to have before, now seem meaningless. Why do we do this?
So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others. Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help. Below is a link that you might find helpful as a new member.