"I'm so sorry to hear about illness (your cold, June 15) and your broken hip (Riet). These insults to our bodies make our grieving even more difficult and make us so much more vulnerable to believing that we will never feel better or find…"
"Yes the crying jags are somewhat unpredictable. Sometimes I just have to picture my husband's face in my mind because I feel so terribly alone & in the void without him. Sometimes it's okay to picture him but most of the…"
"I can join in all of you, dears, by saying that New Year's day & the 2 weeks or so following were the hardest yet despite the fact that my darling Greg died last fall, Oct. 12 of 2018. The thought of starting a new year without him…"
"Crying is not the worst thing. It can release a lot of tension & sadness. People are so afraid that they might say something that will trigger a tear or two. We should broadcast to everyone that we don't need them to…"
"Hi Allan, I too just got through the first holidays, my husband's birthday, & New Year's Eve without him. Now that the new year has started, and I am back to ordinary life with no big events on the horizon, I too am feeling his…"
"I called my darling husband who died so suddenly (via brain death via a cardiac arrest) "my precious one" because he gave me so much love, so much more than I've ever been able to give myself. Reading Melissa's &…"
"I am so so so sorry you had to go through this. I have wondered 1000 times if there might have been some way I could have saved my husband's life, as he had a heart block, was able to call 911 (why wasn't I there to do that???) and…"
"Dear Kate, Your experience is not so different from mine. My husband died on Oct. 12 so I am also newly widowed and don't have much advice. All I can say is that I have all the same feelings you do. I cry so many times a day,…"
"Reading posts in this group, I now recognize myself. My husband died 2.5 months ago of a sudden cardiac arrest. He never had a heart issue ever and then suddenly, his heart stopped working. He was in a coma for 8 days until I had…"
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