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KMA2106
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KMA2106 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"I took my husband to the hospital at 1030 pm, they attempted to revive him thru out the night /  morning and at 530 am it came to me that he was only alive because of the fluids they were giving him. The doctors and nurses just kept looking at…"
Mar 13
Tjtango left a comment for KMA2106
"Hi,  My husband passed as the result of complications from an outpatient surgery I did not want him to have. Adding a whole other dimension to my layers of grief as one can imagine.  We had been together as a couple for 20years  but…"
Mar 13
KMA2106 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"EllenJ, my 56year old husband was packing for a work trip and said he was feeling anxious and rubbing his sternum. He complained of no other symptoms (I am a nurse) I decided to drive him to the ER, when he stepped out of the truck in the hospital…"
Mar 13
KMA2106 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"I got in my email today and saw all the postings from this group. I wish I wasn’t able to understand but I do and it makes my heart hurt.   I am not at a specific anniversary of any sort at this time but I am at a new level of grieving-…"
Jan 31
KMA2106 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 60s
"I’m unsure who believes but I definitely believe in God/Heaven/Angels among us/ that some are able to communicate with those that have past. with that being said, I’m happy to say I had a visit a few nights ago while I was sleeping. It…"
Oct 26, 2017
Fluffycat52 left a comment for KMA2106
"Hi, I was reading a comment and I agree but to find someone id really hard nowadays compared to mid nineties I met my husband Jan 28th 1994, we hit it off really well, went out on dates on Friday nights my friend from College I didn't finish…"
Oct 19, 2017
KMA2106 replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"wow RT66062, you could not explain it better.  I adored my husband and when he was gone I was looking for companionship.  We were empty nesters and had our first grandbaby. My girls had trouble understanding how I could want to date, I had…"
Oct 19, 2017
KMA2106 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 60s
"Adoption1964....it's 18 months(wow, I can't believe I'm saying that)...I was crying in my car today...I actually don't care what other people think...I don't believe there is a right way or wrong way to grieve..I invite…"
Oct 19, 2017

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At 8:15am on March 13, 2018, Tjtango said…

Hi, 

My husband passed as the result of complications from an outpatient surgery I did not want him to have. Adding a whole other dimension to my layers of grief as one can imagine.  We had been together as a couple for 20years  but best friends for 10years before that.  Like you, I am coming up on the 2 year mark.  I have found that my grief is different now.  Still hurts, but more like a dull ache that is always there, rather then the raw out of control fury it was in the beginning.  Not having any children together and being “best friends,” while great while he was alive,  have made it that much harder for me now.  I just miss him so much and am very lonely. . I wake up most days feeling shocked that this is now my life..but I’m sure over time that feeling will subside as well.  Just have to figure out what it is “I” want to do, after spending so much of my life being part of a couple.  

At 7:16pm on October 19, 2017, Fluffycat52 said…

Hi, I was reading a comment and I agree but to find someone id really hard nowadays compared to mid nineties I met my husband Jan 28th 1994, we hit it off really well, went out on dates on Friday nights my friend from College I didn't finish College but went a few semesters and then I met my husband, he was a handsome man, we had several things in common, although we had a hard life, we stayed together and loved each other until he passed away last year on June 12th 2016, it was sad to see him go but he is no longer in pain and is waiting for us to join him one day. Whoever is on here I am so sorry for your loss and hope God can comfort and strengthen everyone who has lost a Spouse. Hope everyone has a nice weekend and new week coming up. Your Friend, Lisa

At 4:12am on April 2, 2017, Angela said…

I have no idea why the kind are taken too soon.  It seems like there are so many questions that can never be answered.  That's sometimes the most frustrating part.  Why so soon? What did I miss? Could I have done something? Is he still here with me? There are so many days right now that I feel so lost and alone.  And yet, there are so many people who are in the same position.  I'm here to listen if you need to talk. 

At 2:02pm on March 31, 2017, Patience said…
Welcome to Widville, KMA2106. I'm so sorry for your loss, but happy that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the help link at the top of the page. You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Come in the chat room which is available 24/7. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.
 
 
 

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