"Five years and still I am lost. He was my "home". I exist, I volunteer, I try. All our friends are gone. Must have been his friends. I put in my time and I really do try to find some peace of mind. I am sorry to know it isn't just me,…"
"You describe perfectly my life, my mind, after my husband died. When you said you felt alone always, no matter who was nearby, that was me. I almost could not stand people close, looking at me or touching me, but being alone was as bad. When I hear…"
"Do you sometimes feel like it is just maybe possible that you are going insane? I sure do. I appreciate your reminder that our Creator cares. I hang onto that!
Justme, you have so much hurting you, just surviving is hard. I am sorry! I wish I could…"
"I do too. My life is not better, happier or easier than it was before May 2008.
I lost the only place I seemed to truly fit, my husband was that place. I struggle more some times than others, I know the screaming keening pain is not something I…"
"I know each one of us knows how much hurt we endure, how much pain is added because of the fact your husband was murdered is something only you know. Everyone here cares about each of the others, we know the horrible words, the hellish days and…"
"I an married, my heart and mind and all of me believes this! He was killed in an accident four years ago tomorrow and I love him deeply still. I don't want another man in my life. I can see myself living somewhere else part of the year and…"
"Sometimes all we truly feel is despair, we have to go through this horror too. I pray your tomorrow hurts less. Somehow each day is so different, when my husband was here and I felt his touch the days had a base in peace, no more. I can't know…"
"I have no answers, no way to bring comfort or a way to end the pain. We all wish we could change things for each other and for ourselves. We are very sorry you and your son have lost so many in such a short time. I wish.......know people you have…"
Welcome Katie: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at WV that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
I'm so sorry for your loss Katie, but I'm glad you've found us. This is a wonderful place, filled with truly amazing people. I hope you find the same peace and comfort here that I have over the past 8 months. I know I still have many miles to go on this journey but I would of never made it this far with out all of the people here. Welcome!
I'm so very sorry for your loss, Katie, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations. I look forward to getting to know you here.