Welcome to Widowed Village, Kitten4aLion. I am very sorry for your loss, but glad that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the "help" link at the top of the page. You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Check out the the chat room which is available 24/7. I look forward to getting to know here on Widville.