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Kmelli3 (Kate)
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DIVA70 replied to Kmelli3 (Kate)'s discussion Feel like I am in a nightmare I can't wake up from in the group Suddenly Widowed
"First, let me say how sorry I am for your loss. What you are feeling is what I believe we all have felt at some point, especially in the very beginning. That is one reason I came to this site. I had family and friends who were very supportive but I…"
Jan 4
KJPE replied to Kmelli3 (Kate)'s discussion Feel like I am in a nightmare I can't wake up from in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Dear Kate, Your experience is not so different from mine.  My husband died on Oct. 12 so I am also newly widowed and don't have much advice.  All I can say is that I have all the same feelings you do.  I cry so many times a day,…"
Jan 3
Silver fern replied to Kmelli3 (Kate)'s discussion Feel like I am in a nightmare I can't wake up from in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Dear Kmelli3 i haven't posted for a long time but I saw your message and my heart went out to you. i too have been through exactly what happened to you.  My husband was 53 and died suddenly of a cardiac arrest while I was with him.…"
Jan 2
Allan_sch replied to Kmelli3 (Kate)'s discussion Going out is so hard in the group Widowed in 2018
"Kate I lost my wife of 30 years in May, still feels like yesterday. I did go to a grief class that did help. Christmas was very tough but we made it through. My son still lives with me. He has been a big help. My daughter only lives do the street so…"
Dec 31, 2018
LP replied to Kmelli3 (Kate)'s discussion Going out is so hard in the group Widowed in 2018
"Hi Kate im so sorry you lost your love. It’s really early for you and very raw. It’s normal to feel this. Be kind to yourself and don’t push too hard. I’m ten months on and I have a hard time with couples and social…"
Dec 31, 2018
Kmelli3 (Kate) added a discussion to the group Widowed in 2018
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Going out is so hard

Hi there, I'm fairly new to the site.  My name is Kate and I lost my husband of 20 years (Tom) to cardiac arrest on November 23rd at age 46.  I am so lost and devastated.  I have been asked to dinners with his family (I don't have any, and both my parents passed away already), and have tried to go out with my children to do things. but all I see when I go out is husbands and wives together enjoying themselves.  I am happy for them, but the pain is so great because I no longer have someone by my…See More
Dec 30, 2018
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Dec 30, 2018
Kmelli3 (Kate) replied to Kmelli3 (Kate)'s discussion Feel like I am in a nightmare I can't wake up from in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Thank you all for your support.  I have been doing my best to get through each day (and the holidays) for my girls.  I am seeing a counselor, and I start a grief support group in March.  I am hoping that talking with others who have…"
Dec 29, 2018
Rainy (Misty) replied to Kmelli3 (Kate)'s discussion Feel like I am in a nightmare I can't wake up from in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Kmelli, I am 48, I lost Jerry pretty much the same way.  He passed away on Dec. 14th of last year.  I felt the exact same way that you feel right now.  It lasted about 5 months.  I couldn't focus on anything, for those first…"
Dec 23, 2018
Tess replied to Kmelli3 (Kate)'s discussion Feel like I am in a nightmare I can't wake up from in the group Suddenly Widowed
"jlsrdh, I read your post and you have such wonderful resources you listed in it, so thank you. I am definitely going to look into The Wilderness of Grief. If I could gently appeal to you to reconsider your release of message balloons. They are a…"
Dec 23, 2018
littleblue replied to Kmelli3 (Kate)'s discussion Feel like I am in a nightmare I can't wake up from in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Kmelli I am so sorry to hear this.  I lost my husband when I was 37, it's so shocking when we are young.  You wonder "why did this happen to us" and it's really weird because you're like, the only one of your…"
Dec 23, 2018
Monkey replied to Kmelli3 (Kate)'s discussion Feel like I am in a nightmare I can't wake up from in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Beautiful i am still new here and within the past week or so the strength i have already received is amazing.kmeli3 just keep reading and reaching out."
Dec 22, 2018
Monkey replied to Kmelli3 (Kate)'s discussion Feel like I am in a nightmare I can't wake up from in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Kmeli3, all of you who have replied and offered advice and bools, i have watched ted talks on grief and loss as well, they are truly a help. Thank you all so much for sharing during this difficult time. It seems impossible but then another day…"
Dec 22, 2018
Nieta replied to Kmelli3 (Kate)'s discussion Feel like I am in a nightmare I can't wake up from in the group Suddenly Widowed
Dec 22, 2018
jlsrdh replied to Kmelli3 (Kate)'s discussion Feel like I am in a nightmare I can't wake up from in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Kmelli3, I'm so very sorry for your loss. My husband, Tom, also experienced this at home 4 months ago. I was also not able to save him.  We were married 38 years with no kids. I sought grief counseling within days of his passing, as I did…"
Dec 22, 2018
Broken Diva replied to Kmelli3 (Kate)'s discussion Feel like I am in a nightmare I can't wake up from in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Kmelli3 - So proud of you for going to counseling!  It does help....I feel the same way as you.  I know how hard it is but I don't want to give up hope!"
Dec 22, 2018

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At 9:40am on December 20, 2018, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, Kmelli3. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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