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Lady Faith commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"I don't know why my comment post several times ...when I hit the comment button it did not add but all the sudden it post 6 times. GoodNight the devil trying to interrupt my post."
Lady Faith commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"This holiday season was rough my 103rd grandmother (mom) was sick and admitted into the hospital on Christmas Day ! Which she got sick on Christmas Eve so we spent the Christmas week in the hospital. On top of this I was very sick with the flu/cold…"
Lady Faith commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"This holiday season was rough my 103rd grandmother (mom) was sick and admitted into the hospital on Christmas Day ! Which she got sick on Christmas Eve so we spent the Christmas week in the hospital. On top of this I was very sick with the flu/cold…"
Lady Faith commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"This holiday season was rough my 103rd grandmother (mom) was sick and admitted into the hospital on Christmas Day ! Which she got sick on Christmas Eve so we spent the Christmas week in the hospital. On top of this I was very sick with the flu/cold…"
Lady Faith commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"This holiday season was rough my 103rd grandmother (mom) was sick and admitted into the hospital on Christmas Day ! Which she got sick on Christmas Eve so we spent the Christmas week in the hospital. On top of this I was very sick with the flu/cold…"
Lady Faith commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"This holiday season was rough my 103rd grandmother (mom) was sick and admitted into the hospital on Christmas Day ! Which she got sick on Christmas Eve so we spent the Christmas week in the hospital. On top of this I was very sick with the flu/cold…"
Lady Faith commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"This holiday season was rough my 103rd grandmother (mom) was sick and admitted into the hospital on Christmas Day ! Which she got sick on Christmas Eve so we spent the Christmas week in the hospital. On top of this I was very sick with the flu/cold…"
Lady Faith commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"This holiday season was rough my 103rd grandmother (mom) was sick and admitted into the hospital on Christmas Day ! Which she got sick on Christmas Eve so we spent the Christmas week in the hospital. On top of this I was very sick with the flu/cold…"
Lady Faith commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"This holiday season was rough my 103rd grandmother (mom) was sick and admitted into the hospital on Christmas Day ! Which she got sick on Christmas Eve so we spent the Christmas week in the hospital. On top of this I was very sick with the flu/cold…"
Lady Faith commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"I can't find my engagement photo CD or my bridal shower photo cd & dumb me never downloaded all of photos to hard drive. I feel so stupid & confuse because I keep putting it off to make my engagement album....it hurt too bad but I view…"
Lady Faith commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"Thanks honeys pudidin for checking in on me! I got a little sleep did not go in to work today because of am so tried and it feels like I can feel every never in my body standing attention so I called out sick. I am going to try and take care of me…"
Lady Faith commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"Okay today was really rough for me going to the gravesite for my loves second year death anniversary! I can turely say I am bless to have my in-laws and this site were Iwon't feel like I am alone! Is it wrong to miss someone so much it hurts…"
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- At 3:58pm on January 18, 2013,
Greggies Widow said… Hugs
- At 5:41pm on May 23, 2012,
VOLUNTEERSupa Dupa Fresh said… Welcome to our community.... I hope we can keep you company on your journey ahead. Please look around a bit and read this basic introduction to the site. You can find more information about how the community works under "Help!" in the navigation bar, and we'll send you a few newsletters with tips and ideas in the coming weeks. If you need a little more help, go to the Home page and look in the right hand column to see the link to a "Help Desk" form.
We all use the site differently, but we hope you feel comfortable sharing among us in the coming days, weeks, and months.
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- At 2:45am on May 8, 2012, Greggies Widow said…
Hi Lady Faith, i am so sorry for the circumstances that brought you here. I am so glad that you found Widowed Village and our Unwedded Widows group!
We "get it" and we accept and validate your loss. Widowed Village is a wonderful place to get the support and encouragement that you need on this journey!
I am here to walk beside you on this journey and offer you support, encouragement and hope! Sending you hugs and love. ~GW~
- At 10:36pm on May 6, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome Lady Faith: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I know you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
- At 12:11am on May 6, 2012,
Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
I'm so very sorry for the loss that brought you here, but I'm glad you've joined us. I wish none of us had to be on this journey that we all face now, but what we all need to remember is we don't have to face any of it alone. Together by sharing are emotions and grief openly here we can all help each other through the hard times. Welcome lady faith, we are all here when you need us...............Lisa
- At 2:13pm on May 5, 2012,
Arnie (New Normal) said… Hi Lady Faith,
I am so sorry for your loss yet I am glad you found us. You will find some great help here on the site and the relationships you will build with all of the great people here. We are all on the other side of life now and only we can really understand how you feel. I am on chat quiet often and it is scary and overwhelming at times in the beginning. I would like to offer a bit of assistance when you are ready use the chat room.
1. I always advise you watch for a bit, the room gets busy sometimes and hard to follow at first.
2. You will see some joking and even laughter, you will also see tears and breakdowns. The people here are here to support and be supported by peers.
3. Looking at the chat you will see that the left window has a sliding bar that tells you who is online (they may be on another part of the site though)
4. If you click on a name in the side bar this should open up a private chat or PC as we call it.
5. I f you receive a PC a red # will show under the main lobby with the name and icon of the person it is from or if you sent it to someone
6. Your first entry:
This is hit or miss, it really depends on when you jump in if lots of folks are chatting you can easily get missed. I recommend just saying Hi I am new and give whatever info you want (hi I am Arnie From NJ and today I am 3 months and 3 days out) this way if others are from NJ they may want to know more.
7. BE READY:
Ok once you do go into the lobby be ready as the questions are needed and they are sometimes gentile, sometimes the questions fly at you. Please take your time here as if this is new for you this may open you up emotionally, and it is normal to feel this and from what i am told a needed part of trying to begin to live again.
8. Most people on the chat are women as of now but the men that are involved are very respectful and sometimes fun.
9. Remember almost no one knew each other until they came here.
10. Good luck and I sent you a friend request, lets face it near or far we need support, and with so many from around the world there is almost always someone on.
ALSO using internet explorer is problematic with chat so Firefox appears to be the best..
I hope this long winded letter helps you in the beginning and again SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.
- At 10:22am on May 5, 2012,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
I'm so very sorry for your loss, Lady Faith, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations. I look forward to getting to know you here.
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