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LadyG
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  • Seal Beach, CA
  • United States
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LadyG commented on Athena53's blog post "A sculpture that Creates Intense Emotion"
"Another excellent representation of feelings.  Obviously this artist, Celeste Roberts, has been here too else how could she have so beautifully illustrated what a feeling impossible to convey with words ?  Thank you for adding to this…"
Aug 7
LadyG commented on Rkay's blog post Red Dress...
"Dear Rkay, What a fabulous photo of your wedding.  Five bucks ?  You look amazing !  And you are both so happy.  Though the past joy does not compensate the present sorrow I am glad you had those happy times. Thank you for…"
Aug 5
LadyG commented on MidnightBear (Tony)'s blog post Finding Random Treasure
"Just checking in with you to say Hi Tony.  How are thing today ?"
Aug 5
LadyG commented on DIVA70's blog post My Heart Still Aches
"I love that picture of the two of you.    This quote became one of my favorites when I found it in the first year after Jim's passing. "And ever has it been that love knows not it's own depth until the hour of its…"
Aug 5
LadyG commented on MidnightBear (Tony)'s blog post Finding Random Treasure
"Hi Tony, I sympathize wholeheartedly. Mine is on a different level but I feel your pain. We lived in the Northwest in a small rented house, and talk about projects!  We were working on one GIANT one that was our retirement dream. We had…"
Aug 2
LadyG commented on Luv4Z's blog post Basketcase in a nanosecond
"Oh my goodness...8 weeks is so new to the spectrum.  I feel your pain.  As Shellybean said it can feel like only a minute ago and then feel like it's been forever.  I wish I could help you through this but the awful reality is…"
Jul 30
LadyG commented on Luv4Z's blog post Basketcase in a nanosecond
" Yup,  it flips that fast. It sounds like it's early on for you. I'm so sorry. Anxiety, weird sleeping and eating patterns, brain fog. All normal given the situation. How long has it been for you?"
Jul 29
LadyG commented on DIVA70's blog post My Heart Still Aches
"I am SO sorry for your loss !  As LauraJay said below,  in the early days wether you are now it is raw. Your grief will have things in common with many of us. When you think you are the only person having certain feelings come here and see…"
Jul 29
LadyG commented on Athena53's blog post "A sculpture that Creates Intense Emotion"
" That's exactly what I feel like. "
Jul 29
LadyG commented on AuntT (Steph)'s blog post Still lost
"Dear Stll Lost, Just BE with her.  It's ok if you're a sniveling disaster. What will comfort her is being with someone who knows this kind of loss. You don't even have to say anything. It feels awkward,  I know. …"
Jul 29
LadyG replied to Liss's discussion Brain fog? in the group Born in the 60s
"I'm new to the group and 3-1/2 years out but I thought I'd reply anyway.  I remember how bad it was that first year. I'd walk into a grocery store and end up "spaced out" staring at an aisle of soap or crackers or…"
Jul 27
Lupe's husband left a comment for LadyG
"I put in a friend request.    Then we can talk.     I live near downtown LA in Montecito Heights.    I co-lead a local Soaring Spirits group.  We are meeting next at Twohey's restaurant in Alhambra on…"
Jul 26
LadyG commented on Dianne in Nevada's group Widowed in 2014
"New here to Widville.  It's been 3 -1/2 years and I'm feeling lost.  No,  it's not as HORRIBLY painful as that first year of shock and paralysis but it's still more difficult than I can deal with most of the…"
Jul 23
LadyG commented on Dianne in Nevada's blog post How I Soar
"Your comment about the line from the movie Avatar touched a chord with me. We loved that movie too. One day within the first year after Jim's passing i was eating alone in a restaurant and was pretty low. I went to use their restroom and when i…"
Jul 23
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for LadyG
"Welcome to Widville, LadyG. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions and…"
Jul 22

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At 4:02am on July 26, 2018, Lupe's husband said…

I put in a friend request.    Then we can talk.     I live near downtown LA in Montecito Heights.    I co-lead a local Soaring Spirits group.  We are meeting next at Twohey's restaurant in Alhambra on August 13at 7 p.m.y6.   See you then..

At 7:35pm on July 22, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, LadyG. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions and Chat Room for conversations on all sorts of topics. Share your story. You'll find the latest news on the HOME page.

 
 
 

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