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We met as teens and spent almost 20 years together. She had a 6 month old daughter when we met and I raised her like she was my own. We had a son and daughter shortly after we got together. I can say that I'm actually kind of glad they weren't younger as I'm not sure I would have been able to handle raising them alone. She was my best friend and there wasn't anything we didn't know about each other. I can honestly say that someone to be good friends with and share the things in life that we deal with would be great. I also need to mention that I have MS and don't get out and do much anymore. That's also because my transportation consists of a bike.

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Posted on October 24, 2016 at 7:15pm 0 Comments

I know that jumping the gun and diving into a relationship is never a good idea. I also know that when I met my wife it was pretty much out of the blue as we were introduced one night at a carnival by a mutual friend. I say that because even though we didn't know anything about each other we definitely jumped into our relationship. That being said I don't think it's necessarily always a bad idea to jump into a relationship with someone. I believe you need to follow your heart where it leads…


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At 5:02pm on May 24, 2016,
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At 6:22pm on May 18, 2016, Joyce said…

Welcome Lallen: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat.You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences.  Post and join in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It"


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