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Started this discussion. Last reply by Larryh0823 Mar 4, 2017. 230 Replies

Lost my wife on January 20th. Just need to talk with someone who understands what I am going through


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Larryh0823 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Donna, I am so sorry that you lost your husband such a short time ago.  I truly know how that feels.  I lost my wife very suddenly in January of last year and have struggled with that mightily since.  The in August of last my mother…"
Feb 11
Larryh0823 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi Stephanie, Could you possibly have had a worse date for this to happen than 3 days before Christmas?  I am some distance ahead of you having lost my wife on January 20, 2017, but mine was just as sudden as yours.  She had septic shock…"
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Larryh0823 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Pat, I just read what you had to say and felt I just needed to respond.  I lost my wife on January 20, 2017.  While I am quite behind you in time I can fully relate to much of which you had to say.  My wife and I met a little later in…"
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Larryh0823 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"InsideLove, I totally agree with you.  I have heard that verse quoted so many times and like you I can not find the peace and comfort that verse is supposed to give.  My wife died January 20th here at home after we had repeatedly been…"
Nov 19, 2017

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At 8:07am on July 10, 2017, TxDD said…

Yes Sir I sent out a few to the ones I have corresponded with in hopes that responded will in some way help both parties.  I look to give back as much as be supported.  That is how I have survived, giving of myself.  Thank you for your willingness to reach out.  It goes both ways.  Always here if you need an ear to listen.  Have a blessed week. 

At 7:39pm on March 20, 2017, ashleynicole8378 said…

I lost Mark on January 2nd, so only a few weeks before your loss. I just don't even really know how I'm doing. My mood changes quite a bit, so definitely on that roller coaster with you. I missed him so much today. I always do, but it was just really getting to me today. I kept wanting to text him while I was at work and just talk about my day. I haven't been to his grave since the burial, but my mother in law sent me a picture of his marker because it just got there after we ordered it. It was a harsh reminder that he is really gone. I feel his spiritual presence a lot, but its heartbreaking to think of his physical body being gone. Every one says that it's not healthy to play the what if game, but I don't see how it can be helped. It feels only natural to wonder, but try not to beat yourself up over it. Maybe try to find an in person grief support group, if you haven't already. I went to one last week. It went ok, On one hand, it felt great to actually talk about it openly with people who somewhat get it. On the other hand, I'm the only person in there who has lost a spouse. I've been having a lot of why me feelings lately, like what can't things just go right for me like they seem too almost everyone else. So being the only widow in there, just added to that and got me really angry. 

At 7:15pm on March 19, 2017, ashleynicole8378 said…

Hi Larry, I'm still learning how to use this site.. so just saw your friend request. How are you doing? Hope you are holding on ok.

At 4:11pm on February 11, 2017, Patience (Diane) said…
Welcome to Widville, Larryh0823. I'm so sorry for your loss, but happy that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the help link at the top of the page. You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Come in the chat room which is available 24/7. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

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