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Stepson expected more in my husband's will; he is harassing me

Started this discussion. Last reply by Callie2 on Sunday. 11 Replies

My DH of 35 years passed suddenly & unexpectedly away in May.  I have naturally been on a roller-coaster of grief & shock.We have 2 adult children together (30 & 34) and he has a son from…Continue

Found out late husband was addicted to porn

Started this discussion. Last reply by Lindi May 31. 2 Replies

My DH passed just over 2 weeks ago from a sudden cardiac arrest.  I have been numb, shocked and devastated..  We have had separate bedrooms for a while because he snored and liked to sleep with our…Continue

 

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vintage56(barb) replied to Lindi's discussion Stepson expected more in my husband's will; he is harassing me
"wow, I was lucky, I didn't even have to probate Frank's will as all assets were either named beneficiary (me) or joint tenants with rights of survivorship. Stepkids never even asked about the will. They are all grown and doing well. They…"
Sep 12
SweetMelissa2007 replied to Lindi's discussion Stepson expected more in my husband's will; he is harassing me
"(((HUGS))) I was once told people tend to look like vultures after a death ... Uh, no, they act like vultures ... Regardless, if his anger is at Dad for whatever reason(s), you're caught in the middle & it's not your problem ... No…"
Sep 10
Tj1083 replied to Lindi's discussion Stepson expected more in my husband's will; he is harassing me
"I don't understand the sense of entitlement these days. My two step daughters were horrible right from day one when the 23 yr old was searching through the paperwork in the bedroom looking for a will. They were even more upset when they found…"
Sep 10
Lindi replied to Raven2017's discussion Group Grief Therapy- Good or bad?
"Get a dog!  She's one of the reasons I have to get out of bed and walk 1-2 hours a day.  Se wakes me up at 8am to remind me!"
Sep 5
Lindi replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion AUGUST Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"It would have been our 35th wedding anniversary today.  DH died this May. I was dreading today, but not feeling too bad.  I'm 'celebrating' the day in my head with my DH in spirit.  I'm also joining a knitting…"
Aug 29
Lindi replied to Nieta's discussion Have you experienced any "God Winks" (i.e., messages) from your late spouse?
"A week or so before my DH died suddenly, my laptop kept crashing or freezing for no reason. I've noticed since his death that it hasn't crashed any more.  Was someone/thing trying to tell me something?"
Aug 20
Lindi replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"I agree.  I had a bit of a cry when I went shopping and realised I was only shopping for one.  Also because there was no need to buy Brian's favourite foods.  As you say, it's the little things that affect us"
Jun 5
Lindi replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello Sally, I feel I have to reply to you. My husband of 69 also died suddenly & unexpectedly from a cardiac arrest at home 3 weeks ago today. He suddenly woke up unable to breathe and I also rang 999 (UK emergency service) and tried CPR on…"
Jun 5
Lindi replied to Anna's discussion Are you able to read a book?
"I'm only 3 weeks into widowhood, so still very raw. At the moment I'm reading a book on spiritualism and have another one I'll read later on how dogs help the bereaved.  I'm not ready to read a fictional novel or anything…"
Jun 4
Lindi replied to Susan's discussion Recipes For One
"Good for you Athena. It's so important to stay positive and enjoy cooking & eating. We should be thankful we can still do these things. It's too easy to wallow, isn't it. Hugs to you ☺"
Jun 2
Lindi replied to Anna's discussion Early morning sadness
"Same here.  It was the time we were together the most"
Jun 2
Lindi replied to Susan's discussion Recipes For One
"Grieving has made me feel hungrier, like I'm trying to fill a void. I made myself a big Shepherd's Pie yesterday which I have with a salad.  I also love to eat stir fries and throw in whatever I have left in the fridge....DH hated…"
Jun 2
Lindi replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi Alone, My husband died suddenly at home in front of me just over 2 weeks ago.  First I was distraught, now numb with shock with the odd period of wailing on my own. It helps that I have our dog Daisy to look after.  She comforts me…"
Jun 2
Lindi replied to Susan's discussion First Time Grandma without Grandpa ?
"Congratulations Susan. Grandchildren are such a blessing and joy. My DH passed nearly 3 weeks ago and my grandschildren (and dog!) give me a reason to get up in the morning. There is nothing like grandparenthood. I feel grandpa will be with his…"
Jun 2
Lindi replied to Lindi's discussion Found out late husband was addicted to porn
"I've phoned a counselor I know who is going to have a session with me tomorrow. I just need to get this out and untangle my confusion over how I feel.  In the meantime I spoke to a bereavement counsellor who listened and didn't…"
May 31
Patience (Diane) replied to Lindi's discussion Found out late husband was addicted to porn
"I'm so sorry Lindi. It's always hard to find out something disturbing about our beloveds after they pass away. (((((hugs)))))"
May 31

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At 11:42am on May 30, 2017, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Lindi. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.

Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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