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Lis
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Started this discussion. Last reply by DIVA70 Dec 8, 2019. 6 Replies

Hi my name is Lis I lost my husband Nov 11 2019 at 51 he die in our bed with a hard attack  I did CPR and he die in my arms it was unexpected he was diabetic and have depression it’s been very…Continue

 

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Lost Girl replied to Lis's discussion Hello everyone in the group Widowed in 2019
"Erika, I never knew there were so many stories of loss related to heart attacks this young. My husband died of a sudden heart attack September 16,2019. Almost 13 weeks ago. I am trying to take it one day at a time. So hard. So so hard. "
Dec 14, 2019
Lost Girl replied to Lis's discussion Hello everyone in the group Widowed in 2019
"Lis, I am new to this “new” shattered life as well. I, too, lost my husband to a heart attack on September 16th, 2019. Please know that I understand your pain and deep grief. I hope we can work through this pain. Reach out at anytime. I…"
Dec 14, 2019
Lisa replied to Lis's discussion Hello everyone in the group Widowed in 2019
"Yes, thanks, it does help to have a sense of how it has gone for someone else. You always know that it might be different for you, but I think it helps me to feel hopeful if there is a concrete idea of how long some of these harder parts could be.…"
Dec 13, 2019
Melissa replied to Lis's discussion Hello everyone in the group Widowed in 2019
"I had to blink when I read this, because I often had that sense in the early days- that surely Skip would be at home when I got back from work, or he'd show up back from the gym, or maybe when I left for a few days and got back? Surely any…"
Dec 12, 2019
Lisa replied to Lis's discussion Hello everyone in the group Widowed in 2019
"Thank you, the surreal part is one of the hardest things. He traveled a lot for work, he was gone multiple days every week, so my son and I keep talking about how it just feels like he is gone on a normal trip and will be back any day. I hope…"
Dec 11, 2019
Roxana replied to Lis's discussion Hello everyone in the group Widowed in 2019
"Dear Lisa, im so sorry to hear about your loss, it is a hurrendous pace to be and our ives will never be the same again. reach out to us and read various topics so you can get some form of  comfort from people that understand exactly what you…"
Dec 11, 2019
Lisa replied to Lis's discussion Hello everyone in the group Widowed in 2019
"Thank you for this. Your words are so encouraging to me."
Dec 11, 2019
BillDrums replied to Lis's discussion Hello everyone in the group Widowed in 2019
"Hi Lis, I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my wife last december to an unexpected heart attack at 54. I remember then how I felt I was going to lose my mind from the grief. I had no idea what I was going to do...my one and only plan up to then had…"
Dec 11, 2019
Lisa replied to Lis's discussion Hello everyone in the group Widowed in 2019
"I'm so sorry, this sounds so heartbreaking and terrible. Thanks for the advice to be gentle, I sometimes think I am expecting too much from myself too soon. I worry that if I can't be OK right now, I will never be OK again. I am only 6…"
Dec 10, 2019
Lisa replied to Lis's discussion Hello everyone in the group Widowed in 2019
"I am not quite a month and a half in, so I can't offer you much of a look from the future. I am also still just feeling heavy and heartbroken pretty much all the time. I have had a few better days, but it seems like they are always followed by…"
Dec 10, 2019
Lis replied to Lis's discussion Hello everyone in the group Widowed in 2019
"Thank you so much I really need people the understand my feelings I’m so sad and overwhelming tomorrow will be a month since he left us "
Dec 10, 2019
Lisa replied to Lis's discussion Hello everyone in the group Widowed in 2019
"Hi Lis, I'm so sorry about your husband. I also lost my partner recently from a heart attack, on October 27th, very sudden and unexpected. My kids and I are just still trying to understand that he is gone. I hope you will be able to find…"
Dec 10, 2019
Roxana replied to Lis's discussion Hello everyone in the group Widowed in 2019
"Dear Lis, I am so sorry for your loss. I too lost my husband in January of this year suddenly and unexpectedly, his heart just stopped in his sleep. I am 36 and we recently moved in a new part of the country, so no family or friends. You can…"
Dec 9, 2019
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Hello everyone

I lost my husband Nov 11 2019 unexpected with a hard attack I have 2 young kids I am so sad and still It’s hard to believe that he is not with us . We move here in Colorado less than a year we  brought a house and happy to start our life here we don’t have family and no friends yet I hope I can find new friends here and people who understand me it is just too hard for me to explain in words how I feel I am just broken heart and overwhelming See More
Dec 9, 2019
DIVA70 replied to Lis's discussion Hello
"I am so sorry for your loss. I found this site to be a good place to come when I just wanted to vent. I hope you will keep coming. I am glad to hear your husband was a man of faith. Maybe not now but in time I hope that alone will give you and your…"
Dec 8, 2019
Tess replied to Lis's discussion Hello
"Liz, I am so sorry for the recent loss of your husband. I understand how difficult it must be to be living in a new area. I suppose there are no relatives where you are now? Do you friends that you can lean on? it helps to come here and express…"
Dec 8, 2019

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At 12:50pm on December 7, 2019, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville,Lis. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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