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Lisa (lost) Lamb
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  • Beloit, WI
  • United States
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Sharing my husbands ashes

Started this discussion. Last reply by MsKris12 Jun 25, 2012. 14 Replies

     I'm not sure if I'm being selfish, obsessed, greedy or maybe just a little crazy. That's why I thought I would come here and ask all the people that can possibly understand my feelings and where…Continue

Maybe we can help each other with simple do it yourself's projects. We all know how to do something lets share.

Started this discussion. Last reply by SweetMelissa Jan 8, 2016. 58 Replies

   I thought I would start this discussion do to the fact that so many of us can't or don't want to have to pay someone to do all the chores that our spouse's had always done. Many of us don't know…Continue

Has anyone else just wanted to be held, but nothing else?

Started this discussion. Last reply by catlvr Aug 23, 2013. 16 Replies

  Lately as I'm laying in bed crying when the pain is so strong I just wish I had a man with strong arms that could curl up behind me and hold me tight. Just hold me and let me cry myself to sleep. I…Continue

What are the top 5 changes you've noticed in yourself sense your loss?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Lisa (lost) Lamb Jun 25, 2012. 11 Replies

    I've been thinking a lot about changes in myself personally sense My husband passed. Not changes to my life or plans that we had, I mean more in the way I did things or took care of things…Continue

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Welcome, Lisa (lost) Lamb!

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My Groups:  Widowed in 2011, long term-illness, Born in the 60's, Suddenly widowed.

     My husband (KC) was my child hood sweetheart, My heart has belonged to him since the first time I saw him. KC passed away at age 48 on May 14, 2011 and I'm still trying to figure out how I'm suppose to live without him. It's still a struggle, but I have been able to pick up the pieces and try to continue to live. If I even know what that means anymore. but I'm still here and I guess that's what counts!

      We have 3 adult children, one girl and two boys. We also have nine granddaughters from age 12 down to 2. Both of my boys are in the US Army, one in Tx. and one in Ten. and my daughter lives in the same town I do. They each have 3 girls.

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I lost an amazing man, friend, and someone that I truly loved two days ago. He gave me hope when I had none, he made me laugh when I thought I never would, and he made me believe I could love again e…

Posted on July 2, 2014 at 4:00pm 9 Comments

I lost an amazing man, friend, and someone that I truly loved two days ago. He gave me hope when I had none, he made me laugh when I thought I never would, and he made me believe I could love again even after my broken heart. He was traveling, we talked and he went to sleep but never woke up. I'm at such a loss. I can't see how I will ever be able to fight back again. Thank you Robert for everything you taught me, and for showing me I was worth loving. I'll miss you with every breath I take.… Continue

For My Husband

Posted on June 6, 2014 at 10:10pm 3 Comments

Happy 52nd Birthday Honey!

When Heavens gate opens

As I sit alone at…


Hard start to a month.

Posted on April 1, 2014 at 8:41pm 1 Comment

      No matter how positive you try to be, bad days sneak in. I've having a hard start to this month and no matter how hard I try I just can't pull myself out. Today it was the 2nd anniversary of my BIL committing suicide in my husbands car just 7 months after my husbands passing. On top of that it's my Fathers Birthday on the 4th after just losing him on Feb. 17th. On May 14th it will be the 3rd anniversary of my husbands passing, and the day after that the one year anniversary of my best…


How much grief can we take?

Posted on February 26, 2014 at 2:56pm 6 Comments

   I've been having a very hard time sense my father passed away 9 days ago. I don't sleep more then 2 hours a night and even then it's on and off. This got me to wondering if all of our grief gets compounded together. My Husband KC passed away May 14th 2011 and sense that day I've also lost my brother in law, 2 aunts, 4 good friends, my best friend of 45 years and now my Father in less then 3 years. 

   Do we some how departmentalize them all differently without even knowing…


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At 4:40pm on May 4, 2015, Sad One said…

Thank you Lisa (lost) Lamb, for your warm welcome and your healing words!

At 9:53am on March 26, 2014, MusicFan said…

Thank you so much.  I am so sorry for your loss as well.

At 5:28am on February 27, 2014, Debby said…

Thank you Lisa, I am sorry that you are going through this as well.

At 3:28am on February 5, 2014, RonB said…

I hope you can too :-)

Meanwhile I am in full spin getting ready to go.

Finally finished all my teaching material. No to get it printed up and pack.

I am always like this when I go, so anxious to be doing what I set out to do; just like my bird dog got when he knew we were going hunting.

I am still praying for you and your Dad.

I remember sitting where you sit now twice now. It's tough.

At 12:52am on October 22, 2013, jon1968 said…


That's appreciated.


At 4:51pm on June 25, 2013, Hope said…

Thank you Lisa for the warm welcome.

At 6:43pm on June 13, 2013, AD1970 said…

thank you Lisa

At 4:15am on June 11, 2013, JoJo said…

Thank you Lisa!  It looks like a wonderful site and I'm sure I'll make many friends here.

At 6:14pm on June 10, 2013, eliana said…

Thank you for the welcome, Lisa!

At 8:19am on June 8, 2013, Linda Shrauger said…

Hi Lisa Thanks  Linda


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