I'm not sure if I'm being selfish, obsessed, greedy or maybe just a little crazy. That's why I thought I would come here and ask all the people that can possibly understand my feelings and where…Continue
I thought I would start this discussion do to the fact that so many of us can't or don't want to have to pay someone to do all the chores that our spouse's had always done. Many of us don't know…Continue
Lately as I'm laying in bed crying when the pain is so strong I just wish I had a man with strong arms that could curl up behind me and hold me tight. Just hold me and let me cry myself to sleep. I…Continue
I've been thinking a lot about changes in myself personally sense My husband passed. Not changes to my life or plans that we had, I mean more in the way I did things or took care of things…Continue
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My Groups: Widowed in 2011, long term-illness, Born in the 60's, Suddenly widowed.
My husband (KC) was my child hood sweetheart, My heart has belonged to him since the first time I saw him. KC passed away at age 48 on May 14, 2011 and I'm still trying to figure out how I'm suppose to live without him. It's still a struggle, but I have been able to pick up the pieces and try to continue to live. If I even know what that means anymore. but I'm still here and I guess that's what counts!
We have 3 adult children, one girl and two boys. We also have nine granddaughters from age 12 down to 2. Both of my boys are in the US Army, one in Tx. and one in Ten. and my daughter lives in the same town I do. They each have 3 girls.
No matter how positive you try to be, bad days sneak in. I've having a hard start to this month and no matter how hard I try I just can't pull myself out. Today it was the 2nd anniversary of my BIL committing suicide in my husbands car just 7 months after my husbands passing. On top of that it's my Fathers Birthday on the 4th after just losing him on Feb. 17th. On May 14th it will be the 3rd anniversary of my husbands passing, and the day after that the one year anniversary of my best…Continue
I've been having a very hard time sense my father passed away 9 days ago. I don't sleep more then 2 hours a night and even then it's on and off. This got me to wondering if all of our grief gets compounded together. My Husband KC passed away May 14th 2011 and sense that day I've also lost my brother in law, 2 aunts, 4 good friends, my best friend of 45 years and now my Father in less then 3 years.
Do we some how departmentalize them all differently without even knowing…Continue