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Lisa_says
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  • Barnegat, NJ
  • United States
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Lisa_says commented on Marina's blog post Rollercoaster
"A hug from me to you.  I feel the same way..A roller coaster ride and groundhogs day over and over again..It's been 4 months since my hubby passed and I still cry every single day. I still feel disoriented mentally. The numbness is…"
Apr 18
Lisa_says replied to LandL (Linda)'s discussion Has anyone else gotten worse as time goes by?
"Thank you Mrs. Linda for your kind words.  You were very blessed to have such a good husband for so many years.  Many good memories. I too am glad to have been my husbands caregiver for his last 9 years.  I was holding his hand when…"
Apr 18
Lisa_says replied to LandL (Linda)'s discussion Has anyone else gotten worse as time goes by?
"Mrs.Linda, I am so sorry for your loss.  I am in the same situation.  Grass has to be cut and we have a large commercial lawn mower that I can't navigate.  I have raked up 16 huge bags of leaves and also work from home. Mentally…"
Apr 18
Lisa_says replied to LandL (Linda)'s discussion Has anyone else gotten worse as time goes by?
"Thanks for your kind words John. I am sorry for your loss. I will read and educate myself on this process as much as possible, it helps to understand. And yes Ground Hog's day every day for me. Feels insane"
Apr 17
Morgana (Janet) left a comment for Lisa_says
"Lisa please come back into chat when you are ready. Please feel free to jump in and talk about what is bothering you. We don't mind the interruption at all. Very sorry you left so quickly. Also there will be a hosted chat this Friday at 6 pm…"
Apr 16
Lisa_says replied to LandL (Linda)'s discussion Has anyone else gotten worse as time goes by?
"I'm sorry for your loss.  I hope the grief eases up. I also have watched on you tube hoping to find ways to help me cope.  I miss my best friend my better half.."
Apr 16
Lisa_says replied to LandL (Linda)'s discussion Has anyone else gotten worse as time goes by?
"It's only been almost 5 months since my husband passed from stage 4 brain cancer, I'm not doing too well at all.  Especially with spring here. My husbands favorite season, he spent all his time working on the property making sure it…"
Apr 16
Lisa_says replied to LandL (Linda)'s discussion Debilitating morning grief
"Hi No worries you didn't scare me, I am realizing that this is a long process . There is no magic fix.  I have to go through it . It's miserable. I do work 6 days a week from home.  I've been making a lot of mistakes lately…"
Mar 19
Lisa_says replied to LandL (Linda)'s discussion Debilitating morning grief
"Hi Love, I lost my husband 4 months ago to brain cancer and it's  a battle for me to stop from constantly crying. I am 55 years old. I also dread the mornings. I agree with what Roxi said, I am not afraid of much anymore . Nothing and I…"
Mar 18
Lisa_says replied to Portpom's discussion Other people making it all about them...
"Yes people literally call me with their problems.  It starts with "how are you?" and then they unload all their trivial BS on me. My sister is miserable because her Mother in law is living with her now and she has only called me once…"
Mar 14
Lisa_says replied to Portpom's discussion How do you share without worrying people? Also is it normal to be in denial?
"I am so sorry for your loss PortPom My husband died 3 months ago and whenever I tell people how devastated I am they look worried and some avoid me completely as I think it's awkward for them. I joined this site so I can post how I truly feel.…"
Mar 14
Lisa_says posted a blog post

She Loved

She will Never hold his hand againShe will never hear him say her name againShe will never see his boyish smile againShe will never hear him say I love you againShe will never hear him say "it's going to be ok" againShe will always love him, that is certainShe will always be thankful for having him in her lifeShe will never forget the happiness she felt and shared with himShe will never regret one moment of their lives togetherShe will always honor his memory and all that he was. He was Love…See More
Mar 7
Lisa_says replied to Cindy's discussion How do people get through this pain ?
"Thank you Callie, I needed to read your kind and insightful words today.  I have chosen gratitude for the 9 years my husband managed to live with brain cancer.  I am grateful to have been his caregiver, that was an honor to take  care…"
Mar 7
Lisa_says replied to vintage56(barb)'s discussion the little things
"My Doug had a southern twang, He always used to greet people with a firm handshake or hug and say" How ya doin" I adored his southern accent and would give anything to hear him say that again.  I haven't heard his voice in 3…"
Mar 7
Lisa_says replied to Mrs Bear's discussion Having to say the "W" word
"I haven't had to say the word or check any boxes yet. My husband passed away 3 months ago.  I am not looking forward to the first time I have to check a box or say I'm a widow out loud.  Not mentally ready for that yet"
Mar 7
Lisa_says replied to Rich's discussion Premonitions
"Rich, I agree there is so much more than we can ever know.  These aren't "coincidences" on these premonitions. They are very real.  I too believe that my Doug and I will dance this dance again. Wishing you peace and…"
Feb 27

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She Loved

Posted on March 7, 2019 at 5:48pm 1 Comment

She will Never hold his hand again

She will never hear him say her name again

She will never see his boyish smile again

She will never hear him say I love you again

She will never hear him say "it's going to be ok" again

She will always love him, that is certain

She will always be thankful for having him in her life

She will never forget the happiness she felt and shared with him

She will never regret one moment of their lives…

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At 3:12pm on April 16, 2019, Morgana (Janet) said…

Lisa please come back into chat when you are ready. Please feel free to jump in and talk about what is bothering you. We don't mind the interruption at all. Very sorry you left so quickly. Also there will be a hosted chat this Friday at 6 pm your time.

At 4:16am on February 16, 2019, Patience said…

Welcome to Widville,Lisa says.  I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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