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LorraineS
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  • Oak Harbor, WA
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Lost My Puppy Too

Started this discussion. Last reply by laurajay Jun 25. 1 Reply

Three days after my husband died suddenly, I had to give up my puppy. He is a giant breed and my husband and I were raising/training him together to become my therapy dog for Complex PTSD.I couldn't…Continue

 

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Lost My Puppy Too

Three days after my husband died suddenly, I had to give up my puppy. He is a giant breed and my husband and I were raising/training him together to become my therapy dog for Complex PTSD.I couldn't take care of him by myself because I've got a bad knee. My husband knew this and it was part of our plans. So much for plans. This left me with no choice but to surrender my puppy back to his breeder.Because of my-not-so-wonderful marriage, I miss my puppy more than my husband. I know that might…See More
Jun 25
LorraineS commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"I lost my husband unexpectedly on June 7, 2020. One minute we were in bed talking and laughing. The next minute he went into the bathroom and died. Fortunately, I have a trauma therapist already so I called her that evening. I don't know what…"
Jun 25
LorraineS replied to Dee1960's discussion What to say, when well meaning friends tell you to "get over it"?
"As with grieving from abuse, some people do not understand that dealing with a spouse's death is a journey not a destination. This is a ride I'll be on the rest of my life. The pain will lessen over time. The journey never ends. I thought…"
Jun 25
LorraineS replied to CatCo's discussion Signs and sightings in the group Widowed in 2020
"A couple of times when waking from a nap, I could've sworn my husband was sitting in his chair in the living room looking at me. That was for the first three days after he died on June 7. His death was completely unexpected. I've…"
Jun 25
LorraineS replied to Hayley_A's discussion Where is everyone from?
"I'm from Whidbey Island in WA State."
Jun 24
LorraineS replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Wow Tom. Sorry for your loss and finding these journals. I'm sorry you've found out about your spouse in this way. I kept journals since 1976. My husband knew basically what they covered because I was truthful with him about how I felt…"
Jun 20
LorraineS replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi, I'm Lorraine. I found this site through DuckDuckGo (I'm not a Google user fan.) though it took much researching because there's no tracking with this web searching app. That's why I use that for web searching. My husband,…"
Jun 20
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for LorraineS
"Welcome to Widville, LorraineS. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions…"
Jun 18

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At 6:06pm on June 18, 2020, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, LorraineS. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions for conversations on all sorts of topics. Share your story. You'll find the latest news on the HOME page.

 
 
 

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